Hi guys, had a date with an ex who is graduating in a week and wanted to see if she was down for one more fling before graduating. It's been about 8 months since we broke up. She had been texting me a few times before to hang out, although unclear if it was to be friends or hooking up. I got dinner with her today, where we talked about her life and my life. Some laughing, seemed like she was enjoying it, and she suggested to go for a walk afterward. We went to the supermarket, ate some fruit and walked back-it lasted an hour. She commented that I had a very strong scent and asked about my dating life, and our interaction was mildly tense but still relatively open. When I walked her back to her room, we hugged and I realized I had failed to ask her to hang out in her room, which by that time had already gone out the window. In a last attempt, I asked her (somewhat nervously) if she wanted to hang in her room to which she said it probably wasn't a good idea, and left.
I'm wondering how I could have made this date more seamlessly transition to her room, rather than me saying "that was fun, oh and by the way do you want to have sex..."--a similar thing happened to me a few days ago with a date with another girl at my school, to which I asked the same thing and had the same response. Both are friendly to me afterward over text, but I doubt they want to hook up at this point.
Thoughts?
I'm wondering how I could have made this date more seamlessly transition to her room, rather than me saying "that was fun, oh and by the way do you want to have sex..."--a similar thing happened to me a few days ago with a date with another girl at my school, to which I asked the same thing and had the same response. Both are friendly to me afterward over text, but I doubt they want to hook up at this point.
Thoughts?
