New to the forum. First post. Been in the game, just decided to join the forum now, but been following the forum since somewhere early this year. I'm just at a point where I need advice to develop my game further, my dress style has gone to the point where girls and guys compliment me, so I got that down. This is a Field Report so let's get to that, typing from my phone so forgive the spacing and what not. Ok the first report I will call her 'excited girl', well this stuff is from way back, had a couple of run ins with her, so my memory is a bit fuzzy. So I saw excited girl waiting for her transport sitting alone. Solid girl I mean an 8 for me personally, body is great face is great. I go up to her, come up with something stupid, like have you seen a certain car, pretending I'm waiting for that car. I quickly introduce myself after she says no (as expected), just with a simple 'Hi I'm Don' with a handshake she replies with 'Hi I'm excited girl'. Seen her around Varsity, knowing she comes to my side of campus, I still asked 'which side of campus you go to' she replies with 'the art side, I'm doing art and you', I replied with the details and told her I never seen her around (lie obviously), she says 'I never seen you around either'. Ok this is where I cut the small talk, I compliment her on her sense of style, she starts giggling like a 5 year old, she put her hands on her face and can't even look at me. I ask what's wrong don't you get compliments, then she replies 'no its not that, its just....'. I think after this I picked up she likes or at least a little interested. I deep dive her, ask about how bracelets said can I look at them she gives me her hand I look at them, but hold on for too long I think, as she giggles and says stop it (don't know if she was being shy or what). I deep her some more, find out about her Italian descent, she asks about me I tell her about me a little bit before she has to leave, her dad has arrived. This where things are exciting, everytime she sees me she's smiling and waving and next time we get to see each other she's smiling from ear to ear and I call her out on it she's just like 'ohhhhh shut up'. Then I deep dive her next time, she tells me she's into Hip Hop, house and funny enough that is my shit, and she's like really. Before she leaves she's like 'you can hang out with the grass or whatever' and I'm thinking really, I'm like 'I'm sure the grass is more interesting than you' (I couldn't resist, she set herself up for it perfectly). Ok everything is the same, I see her looking back when she walks past, I don't look at her like Chase says use peripherals. This is where I think I messed up, or not or whatever(maybe this should be an FU). I see her I'm thinking its time to stop wasting time, ok so we chatting, she says 'you very weird', then I'm like 'yeah I am, I like being different, weird people are cool and not the same as everyone else and lame' and like very softly 'she's like yeah you refreshing'(she think I never heard, but I heard it). I'm thinking slam dunk its over for her. If I could I would have kissed her then and there, but we were at Varsity and didn't want to put social pressure on her and it is weird. So I'm standing there she sees some guy says 'you should dress like him' (note this is before I was good at fashion, I was decent), I did note she wanted to test me, so I just laughed(later on, like months later she compliments me on my style a lot actually when I pick up on my style). So then she states 'who do you chill with?', I'm like 'everyone'(you have to note that she sees me with different people all the time, so I know why she asked), she's like 'so you one of those', I just reply 'you like one of those' she's like 'who?', I reply 'me of course', she just giggles and puts hers hands covering her face, I reply 'you see you like me you can't even look at me and keep giggling', then she continues covering her face, then I reply with 'you like me', then she's like 'no I don't!', but it was too late at this point honestly, it was so obvious. Ok like we were in the heat of the conversation, so like we talking about nicknames of people, she's like what would you call me if you just saw (I'm sorry but when people do this shit, its obvious they trying to fish for compliments or waiting for me to say something nice, I'm nice to people, but I can't help making fun of them when they do this), so reply 'that girl with a big butt', then she's like 'ohhhhh my word, you noticed, can't believe you said that', then I touched her bum with my finger gently out of instinct she replied giggling 'don't do that next time I'm gonna slap you' she does move away slightly but comes back to being near me. This seemed like a natural response, like I'm not a slut type of thing, cause there was a few people around. It was just my finger and it was just the side, I didn't feel much, never did it purposely it was out of instinct. We then joke about a sex, about a her creating a sex tape, and her giving me the directors cut. I poke her on her arm she's like 'don't touch me'(she likes busting my balls a lot, becomes a bit annoying but I never show I'm annoyed), I just keep poking her arm, she giggles saying 'you know this is rape', I reply with a smile 'I'm sure you into that, but I'm not', she laughs out loud saying 'I'm sure'. Later on in the convo I ask for her number, she replies 'no what if you phone while I'm with my boyfriend', mindblown. Ok I knew of the boyfriend, my friend said they dated for 5 years, but that was last year. I did persist, but to no avail, so I gave up. I talk to her rarely, but don't really put an effort and she started complimenting me on my style, but likes to bust my ball with a comeback like don't know why I said that. Not really going to pursue this one further, still gives me the looks but honestly its too much work and I think she's fun, but don't want to get attached and stuff, any advice would be helpful. I posted a bit of detail so people can pin point where I went wrong and if anyone could also tell me why it never happened, she seemed super into me and stuff, is it more of a case of her having 5 years investment in her bf and taking more of the safe route? Or is it not enough attraction? Or something else, just need to find out things I do wrong. Have another field report in the pipelines, a few more actually.
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Re: FR : Excited girl
You mainly needed a comeback to the boyfriend statement, besides that not too bad. A funny response could be "then you could tell him about me" when she mentioned you phoning while she is with her boyfriend.
You mainly needed a comeback to the boyfriend statement, besides that not too bad. A funny response could be "then you could tell him about me" when she mentioned you phoning while she is with her boyfriend.
Re: FR : Excited girl
Thanks for the reply Whizzy. Sorry my writing was poor on this one. Cellphone and stuff, my internet for my PC is out this month. I think I should have, will keep it for my next target. I don't think there is much more I can do with this, I cut her off. I do have a general problem with getting the hook, girls show they interested for days, asking for my number, asking to see me and all that, but can never get the hook. Sometimes I think women crazy though, they show you all this, then act like they never really liked you, I'm not one to read into the little signs anymore but you know its on, when she throwing you mad IOIs, then they change on you, think I need to improve my game to stop this. In my next FR you will see it, but when I post my LR I moved faster as I knew this girl liked me for certain. I think I fail to move too fast or I say dumb shit. But definitely need to move faster. I generally cut off these women as not to get attached.
Thanks for the reply Whizzy. Sorry my writing was poor on this one. Cellphone and stuff, my internet for my PC is out this month. I think I should have, will keep it for my next target. I don't think there is much more I can do with this, I cut her off. I do have a general problem with getting the hook, girls show they interested for days, asking for my number, asking to see me and all that, but can never get the hook. Sometimes I think women crazy though, they show you all this, then act like they never really liked you, I'm not one to read into the little signs anymore but you know its on, when she throwing you mad IOIs, then they change on you, think I need to improve my game to stop this. In my next FR you will see it, but when I post my LR I moved faster as I knew this girl liked me for certain. I think I fail to move too fast or I say dumb shit. But definitely need to move faster. I generally cut off these women as not to get attached.