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I found when I started having regular sex with new women I started to develop almost a bit of a standard set of things that I would usually go through with every new girl to make sure I had covered all the bases and checked if I'd tested all the waters.
Would be great to hear of anything like this you guys have, and weather there is any particular order - obviously it wont follow this every time but if you do something quite a lot you get into a bit of a habit normally - with a few changes depending on what kind of girl it is. Remember this is for a first time, I would normally spend longer on foreplay - its better/more fun to tease but this is with a new girl so I usually want to progress quickly.
It goes something like this for me, although this is more of an ideal, not just a drunken fumble - and things obviously change a lot from time to time- tell me what yours is!
1. Fingering ontop
2. Normal missionary (I usually go for this asap since I find once you've done this the girl is basically "Locked in" and nothing can go wrong after this - so I usually skip oral - you guys? this is not only the most difficult transition for her but also for me because I really don't get along with condoms well - been spoilt by an LTR?).
3. I would move up and continue missionary from a more top/down angle (clit stim)
4. Take her legs push them back and hold them apart/together/over one shoulder and down into her breasts/maybe even right back so her ass gets lifted half in the air and we can both watch the action better (do you ever tell her to touch herself - I often do - can help to make her O)
5. Flip her over and then do her from behind both with her lying down with her legs open/closed (prob one of the best I think) - usually get a spank or two in, also hair pull and then doggy usually grab breasts from behind, spank.
---------now since this is the first time this might be the most that is standard, sometimes more variation can seem forced---------
6. now I usually change things up since you can do whatever you want, if I'm really on then to calm down I get her to ride me CG/RCG. Also I generally get her to suck it if I seem like I'm getting over excited - usually at least once when she's particularly turned on.
7. If she seems like she's coming I switch back to missionary so I can be intimate and share it with her (unless it seems like it would break the flow!) then once she has cum (I will usually keep going quite a while until she does - I hate coming unless she has - what proportion of first time lays do you think she comes the first time you have sex?) in the past the most common thing I have done is pull out and put it in her mouth but few times just on her body if she seems not turned on enough (what do you guys do here as standard? - or what do you aim for?).
Would be great to hear of anything like this you guys have, and weather there is any particular order - obviously it wont follow this every time but if you do something quite a lot you get into a bit of a habit normally - with a few changes depending on what kind of girl it is. Remember this is for a first time, I would normally spend longer on foreplay - its better/more fun to tease but this is with a new girl so I usually want to progress quickly.
It goes something like this for me, although this is more of an ideal, not just a drunken fumble - and things obviously change a lot from time to time- tell me what yours is!
1. Fingering ontop
2. Normal missionary (I usually go for this asap since I find once you've done this the girl is basically "Locked in" and nothing can go wrong after this - so I usually skip oral - you guys? this is not only the most difficult transition for her but also for me because I really don't get along with condoms well - been spoilt by an LTR?).
3. I would move up and continue missionary from a more top/down angle (clit stim)
4. Take her legs push them back and hold them apart/together/over one shoulder and down into her breasts/maybe even right back so her ass gets lifted half in the air and we can both watch the action better (do you ever tell her to touch herself - I often do - can help to make her O)
5. Flip her over and then do her from behind both with her lying down with her legs open/closed (prob one of the best I think) - usually get a spank or two in, also hair pull and then doggy usually grab breasts from behind, spank.
---------now since this is the first time this might be the most that is standard, sometimes more variation can seem forced---------
6. now I usually change things up since you can do whatever you want, if I'm really on then to calm down I get her to ride me CG/RCG. Also I generally get her to suck it if I seem like I'm getting over excited - usually at least once when she's particularly turned on.
7. If she seems like she's coming I switch back to missionary so I can be intimate and share it with her (unless it seems like it would break the flow!) then once she has cum (I will usually keep going quite a while until she does - I hate coming unless she has - what proportion of first time lays do you think she comes the first time you have sex?) in the past the most common thing I have done is pull out and put it in her mouth but few times just on her body if she seems not turned on enough (what do you guys do here as standard? - or what do you aim for?).