Experimenting, need some opinions

[carlitos2055]

I'm more inclined to using indirect direct game because I feel it's a lot smoother and since I'm currently in highschool I feel like girls can't take the pressure I put on when using direct. I was wondering if it is a good idea to use the pre-opener Glance and Smile before doing the indirect approach as to let her know my intentions. Since I am begginer-ish I know i need to amp up my sexiness, currently doing so with touch but I was wondering so.. Let me know what you guys think. Thanks!

 

[trashKENNUT]

carlitos2055,

Glance and smile, then try to be direct if there's nobody around. Be indirect when her friends are around. Even talking irrelavant topics with a smile will still light her up. I remember doing this and it works well.

but try it and let us know if it works. It's been a long time.

Zac

 

[carlitos2055]

Yea that seems good, There is something that confuses me though. When you say indirect do you mean telling her something like, "Do you know where the Cafeteria is? I know I'm just kidding, I just think you're cute and wanted to say Hi, I'm Carlos." Or is indirect not saying she's cute at all and striking a situationally relevant opener? I'm always confused about this..

 

[trashKENNUT]

carlitos2055,

Okay i see.

I think you are more concern about what to say after the opener. That's why you think that situation relevant opener can be helpful.

The indirect opener you given is good. Situation relevant opener is more to what is happening around and you just following the momentum. Given an example of a women jogging and you jog beside her. That's situation relevant opener.

So after you open her, if there is friends around, and they always are around, Talk to her. IF you preopen her, she already knows why you approach her. Chat irrelavant topics but the idea is keep it light and keep it fun, with sexual tension not over the top. Ask for her number when it's good.

Important, This is highschool and she still figuring things out as you are but her friends always comes first.

Zac