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Firesky

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The last few months I built up quite some momentum. Went out a lot and spent again more time reading the content of this website. It payed of. Before that I was having sort of a dry spell. From April 22 till November I had only 4 lays, but then, within 2 months I had 9 lays and ever since I continued having a good rate of lays. One of the factors that had impact on this good development is that I quit my job and became unemployed (further evidence supporting Chase's great insight that being unemployed is sexy). Here one of my last lays (I'll try to post some of the others in the next days).

This day I was quite tired since I had slept only 3 hours the night before. Thus I went out without really thinking that anything great would happen this night. Nevertheless, I had been reading about the "bored look" during the day and this motivated me to try it out and experiment with it.

I went to a bar with a friend who is not familiar with seduction. As we entered I immediately noticed the good female-male ratio and thought "why the hell should I actually not go home with a girl tonight?". We had some drinks and played billiard, which in hindsight I think may have helped since the billiard table was right in the middle of the bar so that a bunch of girls were watching us while we were playing.

After we played a few rounds (during which, for status-display-reasons, I tried to pretend to not care about anything around us other than the game; good thing about billiard is that you get to move around the table so that you have the opportunity to look into all directions without girls seeing that you are actually checking them out) we sat down on a long bench and while my friend started talking to some guys he knew, I started talking to a girl (english, very busty) that was sitting next to me on the bench: "how is your night going?". As she was very receptive I quickly transitioned into some deep-dive-ish conversation. Since this went well too I tried to move her, but she resisted (said she had to go home; seemed to be true and not worthwhile persisting more).

I then went to the bar to get another drink and started talking to some guy who stood next to me. Great guy. He introduced me to the group of people with whom he was there, 3 girls and 3 guys. While we were then sitting together I continued having a conversation primarily with this guy as the venue was too loud for all 8 of us having a joint conversation. When we then stopped talking, one of the girls, HBSpain, turned to me and asked where I am from. I responded and added a cold-read: "...and judging by your accent, I suppose you are from ... Spain?". She was. We then continued having a bit of small-talk. Nothing very deep ("what are you doing here?", "how long have you been living here?" etc), but it allowed us to bond a bit. And more importantly, by the way she was talking I could tell she was into me. During this whole conversation I tried to not come across as too excited, I deliberately tried to smile a bit less than I usually do (I tend to smile a lot and based on the feedback of some good wings I came to realize that it may be good to smile less sometimes), and I also tried to pull of the bored look a few times. I think I managed to get the balance right of doing these things without coming across as too uninterested or rude, by being sharp on the verbal level and giving her some slight smirks occasionally.

Some time later the bar closed and my friend went home. Now this group was discussing to go to some party. I told them I would not join as I was too tired. The truth is, I sort of wanted to join them, but I was also very tired. So I thought by saying something like this I could get HBSpain to chase a bit and convince me to join them (and if she would not try to convince me, I could still tell them later that I changed my mind and would join them for a bit; since I needed to walk anyway in the direction where the party was, I would have some time to make this change of mind occur without looking inauthentic). Also, saying this gave me an excuse for having very low energy levels later at the party (which was unavoidable due to my tiredness). But indeed, HBSpain tried to convince me:


HBSpain: "Ah come on, just join very shortly, it will be fun.".

Me: "Hmm, sure it would be fun, but I also really am very tired."

HBSpain: "Just shortly. And it is anyway in the direction you are going"

Me: "Ok, I will enter and have a look at the party."

The party was indeed nice. As we went to the bar to get drinks a Canadian girl started talking and flirting with me. She was quite pretty too and so I considered for a moment going for her instead of Hbspain. However, I then quickly decided against it: they were both about equally hot, but HBSpain had been behaving so well and the seduction was already so advanced. Also, HBSpain was so generous with her signalling of interest, that trying to create some competition between her and HBCanada would be unjust and only risk sending her into auto-rejection.

So I continued talking to HBSpain and I soon planted a seed that would allow me to isolate her shortly afterwards. I told her about some close-by park that is great for watching stars in the night. Five minutes later or so (that is, about 15 minutes after we arrived at the party and overall maybe about 1 hour after I met this whole group) I then said:
Me: "I really need to go now. But before I go we could go to this park. What do you say?"

HBSpain: "Hmm ... yes, okay."


From there it was smooth sailing. We walked a bit into the park.


Me: "Here seems like a good place to sit."

She: "Okay."


The sky was actually totally clouded and no stars were to be seen hahaha. But as soon as we sat down I went for a kiss. She was visibly excited about it and we quickly transitioned into both touching each other intensely. After doing this for 1 minute or so, I interrupted:


Me: "I propose we go to some other place that is more comfortable."

HBSpain: "Sure. But give me one more kiss before we go!"


This time, our making out became so intense that I thought "why actually not do it right here?". So I started undressing her and in response she undressed me. Soon after this we were both naked, only to realize that we did not have any condoms. Damn it, how stupid. So we put again our clothes on and went to my place. Conveniently, my place was 3 minutes walking away. No LMR.
 
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