I am still trying to master the seduction part of Chase's book and school sets me back occasionally so at some point or another my mindset and skills start to decrease. Despite these occurrences, I will still read the Seducer section of the book multiple times just so I do not miss any small detail. I have yet to even glance at the romancer section because I feel like I am not ready. Nevertheless, I am still trying my hardest to be the best at picking up chicks. With that being said, I have come across something that happens fairly often when I am in a group meeting for organizations that I am just joining. The issue is that whenever we are paired into groups, women who are talking amongst the group make eye contact with everybody else, but me while they speak. It puzzles me because I cannot determine whether they feel inferior towards me or they just don't seem attracted. I also have noticed that when I do speak up during the group conversation everyone has their attention dead set on me and avoid all other distractions, which does not happen often to the others in the group. I really have a huge emphasis on the "Law of Least Effort" because it works very well for me and I am naturally a great speaker, so speaking up for myself is not a difficult thing for me to do. The reason why I am asking this question on the forum is because I want to know what is going on in the head of one particular girl who I am infatuated with. She does not make eye contact, but when we are alone, she seems more comfortable to speak with me. Someone please give me advice, I feel like this is a road block and I need to get over this bump so I can continue to move forward and get to the romancer section sooner than later.
My guess is that since I do not put much effort into a group conversation all of the other people tend to throw themselves out there and beg for attention. When it does come to my turn to speak, I can notice the mystery within people as they gaze upon me to listen.
My guess is that since I do not put much effort into a group conversation all of the other people tend to throw themselves out there and beg for attention. When it does come to my turn to speak, I can notice the mystery within people as they gaze upon me to listen.
