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I came to an important realization last night at a party, which sorta goes off Franco's idea that he would go up to girls with the intention to fail. Basically, after getting all nervous about approaching, I told myself, "Ok I'm going to go up to this girl and I'm gonna hope that she turns me down". I went up to her and she did turn me down. I thought I'd feel crappy, but instead I felt relieved. I thought "Thank God that's out of the way". It made things so much easier after. I even used it later in the night as I hit a dry spell. So when you're just starting or trying to build social momentum back up, go for failure (and then keep going!)
