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Hey guys,
I've been to a big youth conference with aroudn 800 people last weekend (4 days in total) and on the second evening shortly made out with a really cute girl that lives in a neighbouring city. She seemed very into me, but I didn't escalate due to bad logistics (3 people sleeping in one room). On the last night we made out again somewhere and I told her we should meet up soon after the conference to "drink a tea" in my city. Everyone got really drunk by the end of the night and on the dancefloor she came close to me all the time. At the end of the night when everyone had to leave she was walking next to me arm in arm to the hotel. Because of my level of drunkness I decided to give it a shot and went with her to her room (3 people room). Another girl who was sleeping in that room also had a guy there, but they quickly fell asleep. I started to escalate a bit on this point, even though there was 3 other people in the room besides us. Touching boobs and ass wasn't any problems but she wouldn't allow me to touch her pussy. She also rejected my suggestion to go to the bathroom. Since we were both quite drunk and very tired (4h of sleep per night in average) from the conference I gave up pretty quickly (after maybe 15-30 min) and we just fell asleep. The next morning she had to leave very early.
Two days after the conference I sent her this:
Me: "Recovered from the conference?"
She: " For the most part yes, and how are you doing?"
Me: "All good we're planning some new stuff with organizing X. Wanna come to "my city" next week for a tea?"
She: "Hahaha, maybe"
Me: "Ahahaha I love definite answers"
She: ":-*"
In the retrospective this feels like a typical failed escalation, although it didn't feel like it in the moment, because I almost didn't push for anything. Do you guys think this was a failed escalation or not? Any comments on how I handled this and tips how to proceed? I will probably run into this girl sooner or later, as she is part of the same organization. I opted for the escalation under difficult circumstances in this point because I learned that it's often better to close the deal asap if you have a chance too.
Side-note: Before I kissed this girl on the second night of the conference I pulled an Italian girl to a bathroom and fingered here. Couldn't finish though because this was my first bathroom pull and I was pretty drunk and pretty nervous from the new situation, so my little friend didn't do what I wanted him to do.
Thoughts and tips as usual will be highly appreciated.
I've been to a big youth conference with aroudn 800 people last weekend (4 days in total) and on the second evening shortly made out with a really cute girl that lives in a neighbouring city. She seemed very into me, but I didn't escalate due to bad logistics (3 people sleeping in one room). On the last night we made out again somewhere and I told her we should meet up soon after the conference to "drink a tea" in my city. Everyone got really drunk by the end of the night and on the dancefloor she came close to me all the time. At the end of the night when everyone had to leave she was walking next to me arm in arm to the hotel. Because of my level of drunkness I decided to give it a shot and went with her to her room (3 people room). Another girl who was sleeping in that room also had a guy there, but they quickly fell asleep. I started to escalate a bit on this point, even though there was 3 other people in the room besides us. Touching boobs and ass wasn't any problems but she wouldn't allow me to touch her pussy. She also rejected my suggestion to go to the bathroom. Since we were both quite drunk and very tired (4h of sleep per night in average) from the conference I gave up pretty quickly (after maybe 15-30 min) and we just fell asleep. The next morning she had to leave very early.
Two days after the conference I sent her this:
Me: "Recovered from the conference?"
She: " For the most part yes, and how are you doing?"
Me: "All good we're planning some new stuff with organizing X. Wanna come to "my city" next week for a tea?"
She: "Hahaha, maybe"
Me: "Ahahaha I love definite answers"
She: ":-*"
In the retrospective this feels like a typical failed escalation, although it didn't feel like it in the moment, because I almost didn't push for anything. Do you guys think this was a failed escalation or not? Any comments on how I handled this and tips how to proceed? I will probably run into this girl sooner or later, as she is part of the same organization. I opted for the escalation under difficult circumstances in this point because I learned that it's often better to close the deal asap if you have a chance too.
Side-note: Before I kissed this girl on the second night of the conference I pulled an Italian girl to a bathroom and fingered here. Couldn't finish though because this was my first bathroom pull and I was pretty drunk and pretty nervous from the new situation, so my little friend didn't do what I wanted him to do.
Thoughts and tips as usual will be highly appreciated.
