FR Failed wing

[weekendwarrior]

Hi Guys,

I went out last weekend with my wing, we were on the dancefloor near some chicks we got talking to, a couple of other chicks came over and danced near us, about 3 times throughout the night. One was a little fat, but her friend was fairly cute. I got no vibe that either of them were interested other than being near us several times, but I didn't want the fat chick.

My wing might have had an invitation from the fat chick, either way he started to dance with her. I thought I'd make the most of the opportunity and dance with the fairly cute chick. She seemed extremely awkward, didn't know where to put her hands to dance but seemed compliant and happy to dance anyway up until my wing decided to go to the bar.

He went to the bar with his chick, the chick I was with tagged along but didn't offer the invite to me which I hate because it looks like I'm chasing if I follow. At the bar she stood behind her friend and put distance between us. I got the feeling that she wasn't interested, at all. That’s cool, I'm not bothered, I've had hotter chicks interested. She seemed happier being a third wheel and dancing alongside her friend while she hooked up with my wing than she did dancing with me. I figured I was fighting an uphill battle and went off to meet other chicks, better than being somewhere I'm not wanted.

After a lap or two of the venue and a set or two that didn't go anywhere, I seen my wing again on the dancefloor. The chick I was dancing with was now dancing and making out with this awkward looking guy that looked like Randall from Recess! Whoever believes the red pill BS that chicks only like taller more muscular men have never met this chick. This chick must have self-esteem issues! I thought I had a low opinion of myself

Warrior

 

[StrayDog]

How exactly do you think your wing failed you here. I mean, he peeled off with the less attractive of the two girls which gave you an opportunity to game on the cuter one. I can maybe see him heading to the bar with her friend and not really inviting you two as a bit of a failure as it definitely divides the energy of the group, but at a certain point it is up to you to make the right moves with your gal, and it seems like you two weren't really connecting. You can't expect your wing to be there for every move you make. That said, as a wing, it is important to keep the whole group dynamic in mind when making moves. If you are gonna keep gaming together it is probably smart to strategize together on how you will manage moving sets, and when it is a good time to peel off all together. It is perfectly fine to let him know that you could have used a little help at that moment, but I wouldn't frame it that he failed you.

 

[weekendwarrior]

@StrayDog I meant I failed, not my wing, I wasn't very clear. I don't fault anything he done, when he headed to the bar we were two pairs. I wasn't connecting with the chick I was with, I tried but I don't think she was interested at all. I'm amazed she was compliant enough to dance with me.

I left the group leaving him on his own, maybe another failure on my part not hanging in set to help him with the spare but I don't think I could have done anything when it seemed she put distance between us, nothing says "get away from me you ugly loser" quite like that.

My wing couldn't help me, it was my failure alone. A total disaster of a night for me.

Warrior