False cockblock security....

[Skills]

Usually you never need to resort to this, cause the girl is invested and she will handle the cockblock for you or the girls will like you but in some cases you have an overprotective friend/s (specially if the girl is married, bf, family member etc...)

So here comes the false cock block security:

Velasco just handle a cock block by giving the cousin his phone number, i have used in the past giving my drivers license(which i hate cause is not ideal, specially when i lie about my name and age, i am thinking facebook too but is risky)....But In chick logic this is a protective, i took care of her and i know she is safe retarded rationalization.... Just wondering what else you guys are doing?

 

[Chase]

Just saw this post linked in another thread, @Skills. Neat thread. I like the idea of giving the girl your phone number. Hadn't tried that one before.

What I have done a few times with overprotective friends of girls is get the girl I'm with very close (so she is hanging off me and obviously wants to be alone with me) then, in a very calm, placid, way, with a Buddha-like expression on my face, tell the concerned friend, "It's no problem. We can all head back together."

Each time I've done this the friend has thought about it a moment and said, "No, it's fine, you two go," then told the girl to text her when she gets there or double-checked with the girl to make sure she's fine.

The psychology of it seems to be that the friend looks at the situation, sees her friend very much wants to be alone with you, views you as a tranquil guy who's happy to bring her along as well, then realizes she'd be a third wheel chaperone trying to police her friend who just wants to be alone with this chill guy, and it causes her to decide that isn't how she wants to spend the rest of her night, and that there really probably isn't a need to.

Breaks her out of "I have to defend my friend!" mode, because you are telling her, "Yes, it's fine, come along, you can join us," and it is not what she expected (that you'd be trying to get rid of her).

I won't do it with overprotective male friends though, because they will just say "Okay sure" (either not taking the hint... or, alternately, seeing it as their golden chance to push you out of the picture and then be alone with her 1-on-1). With them I whisper to the girl, "Well if he tags along it might get awkward with a third wheel there," and then let the girl handle it (tell him he has to stay, etc.).

I also won't do it if the overprotective female friend is ugly, since I sort of expect girls like this to be petty enough that they will tag along to cockblock just out of spite. What I'll do with these girls is lean over to her and say, "Do you think your friend's jealous?" at which point the girl will tell her friend to back off and stop being so overprotective.

Chase

 

[Skills]

Just saw this post linked in another thread, @Skills. Neat thread. I like the idea of giving the girl your phone number. Hadn't tried that one before.

What I have done a few times with overprotective friends of girls is get the girl I'm with very close (so she is hanging off me and obviously wants to be alone with me) then, in a very calm, placid, way, with a Buddha-like expression on my face, tell the concerned friend, "It's no problem. We can all head back together."

Each time I've done this the friend has thought about it a moment and said, "No, it's fine, you two go," then told the girl to text her when she gets there or double-checked with the girl to make sure she's fine.

The psychology of it seems to be that the friend looks at the situation, sees her friend very much wants to be alone with you, views you as a tranquil guy who's happy to bring her along as well, then realizes she'd be a third wheel chaperone trying to police her friend who just wants to be alone with this chill guy, and it causes her to decide that isn't how she wants to spend the rest of her night, and that there really probably isn't a need to.

Breaks her out of "I have to defend my friend!" mode, because you are telling her, "Yes, it's fine, come along, you can join us," and it is not what she expected (that you'd be trying to get rid of her).

I won't do it with overprotective male friends though, because they will just say "Okay sure" (either not taking the hint... or, alternately, seeing it as their golden chance to push you out of the picture and then be alone with her 1-on-1). With them I whisper to the girl, "Well if he tags along it might get awkward with a third wheel there," and then let the girl handle it (tell him he has to stay, etc.).

I also won't do it if the overprotective female friend is ugly, since I sort of expect girls like this to be petty enough that they will tag along to cockblock just out of spite. What I'll do with these girls is lean over to her and say, "Do you think your friend's jealous?" at which point the girl will tell her friend to back off and stop being so overprotective.

Chase

Genius!