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This is a date with a girl I met 2 days ago, and she seemed quite enthusiastic to meet up with me.
The weather was acting strange and seemed like there was a thunderstorm coming. I arrived late at the café and saw her standing there waiting. I was very horny and just want to fuck. I’m leaving tomorrow and I didn’t really care if I screw this one up, so I decided to push how fast I can go. As soon as I greet her
Me: “hello!”
Her: “hi”
Me: “wanna go for a walk?”
Her: “ yea sure”
Build up some rapport and some banter. I had a route in mind, and we started walking towards a park close to my place. I complimented on her dress. Her English wasn’t that good, so there was a bit of communication problem.
As we crossed the road, I started to hold her hands and we kept walking and talking until we arrive at the park and found a bench. While we were on the topic of bikini, I injected some sexual tone and teased her. We sat down and I pull her close. Her head resting on my shoulder.
Her: “why are u so quiet?”
Me: “just enjoying the moment”
Then I think this is where I screwed up. Her head was resting on my shoulder, I tried to manhandle kissed her by putting my finger under her chin to pull her head up, but she wouldn’t budge.
Me: “are u alright? U look so sleepy”
Her: “haha yea I’m tired”
The weather was getting colder. I can feel it’s about to rain soon. I did some more chit-chat and deep diving, then decided to pull her home.
Me: “Hey I wanna show you this video I was talking about.”
Her: “ok where is it?”
Me: “My place is just right over there” I smiled warmly and I stood up.
Frame battle coming.
Her: “*she mumbled something* your friend?”
I assumed she was asking me if it’s my friend’s place.
Me: “umm it’s a studio. It’s got your own bathrooms blah blah blah” I was being very neutral.
Her: “In Japan, (oh here we go) you can’t go to a boy’s room.” She look pretty serious.
Me: “Come for 5 minutes, if you wanna go you can go”
Her: “I promise my parents I won’t….”
Me: “mmhmm right! Come on let’s go. It’s going to rain soon” I smile warmly
Her: “Sorry I can’t, but have fun at your holiday!”
I sat down and decided to ignore the whole thing and changed the topic. Deep dived more about her birthday and shared my own experience. Then it’s starting to rain.
Me: “well hey I don’t live far, you should come and wait till the rain stop”
Her: “I can’t. I have to go home”
She looked pretty serious again.
Oh FFs.
Then it started to rain hard.
She pulled out her tiny umbrella and she walked me home
Things I did right
- I’m not afraid to push things forward now.
- Touch.
Things I did wrong
- Escalating too fast and not enough emotional connection.
- The pull was too big of an investment. Need to work on getting girls to invest more first gradually.
I have to say. This is the fastest date I have ever been on. The whole was over in 30 minutes lol. I guess I was being too aggressive and it blew me out. I tried to skip some steps because I thought she was really into me, but I think when we were sitting on the bench, she suddenly changed her mind. In her mind, I probably looked like a horny boy trying to get laid lol.
Any feedback is welcomed.
The weather was acting strange and seemed like there was a thunderstorm coming. I arrived late at the café and saw her standing there waiting. I was very horny and just want to fuck. I’m leaving tomorrow and I didn’t really care if I screw this one up, so I decided to push how fast I can go. As soon as I greet her
Me: “hello!”
Her: “hi”
Me: “wanna go for a walk?”
Her: “ yea sure”
Build up some rapport and some banter. I had a route in mind, and we started walking towards a park close to my place. I complimented on her dress. Her English wasn’t that good, so there was a bit of communication problem.
As we crossed the road, I started to hold her hands and we kept walking and talking until we arrive at the park and found a bench. While we were on the topic of bikini, I injected some sexual tone and teased her. We sat down and I pull her close. Her head resting on my shoulder.
Her: “why are u so quiet?”
Me: “just enjoying the moment”
Then I think this is where I screwed up. Her head was resting on my shoulder, I tried to manhandle kissed her by putting my finger under her chin to pull her head up, but she wouldn’t budge.
Me: “are u alright? U look so sleepy”
Her: “haha yea I’m tired”
The weather was getting colder. I can feel it’s about to rain soon. I did some more chit-chat and deep diving, then decided to pull her home.
Me: “Hey I wanna show you this video I was talking about.”
Her: “ok where is it?”
Me: “My place is just right over there” I smiled warmly and I stood up.
Frame battle coming.
Her: “*she mumbled something* your friend?”
I assumed she was asking me if it’s my friend’s place.
Me: “umm it’s a studio. It’s got your own bathrooms blah blah blah” I was being very neutral.
Her: “In Japan, (oh here we go) you can’t go to a boy’s room.” She look pretty serious.
Me: “Come for 5 minutes, if you wanna go you can go”
Her: “I promise my parents I won’t….”
Me: “mmhmm right! Come on let’s go. It’s going to rain soon” I smile warmly
Her: “Sorry I can’t, but have fun at your holiday!”
I sat down and decided to ignore the whole thing and changed the topic. Deep dived more about her birthday and shared my own experience. Then it’s starting to rain.
Me: “well hey I don’t live far, you should come and wait till the rain stop”
Her: “I can’t. I have to go home”
She looked pretty serious again.
Oh FFs.
Then it started to rain hard.
She pulled out her tiny umbrella and she walked me home
Things I did right
- I’m not afraid to push things forward now.
- Touch.
Things I did wrong
- Escalating too fast and not enough emotional connection.
- The pull was too big of an investment. Need to work on getting girls to invest more first gradually.
I have to say. This is the fastest date I have ever been on. The whole was over in 30 minutes lol. I guess I was being too aggressive and it blew me out. I tried to skip some steps because I thought she was really into me, but I think when we were sitting on the bench, she suddenly changed her mind. In her mind, I probably looked like a horny boy trying to get laid lol.
Any feedback is welcomed.
