feel down or frustrated?

[LoverOfWomen]

I used to feel down or frustrated when I see a girl who is my type with another guy. I don't know why I felt this way but I knew I had to fix it.
Sometimes it would come to mind but I try to subdue it.

This may be due to these reasons:

1) Seeing success of other guys may make you feel bad about your shortcomings

2) Feeling of being left out while others are having fun

3) Negativity (insecurities)

Do you guys agree?
Why would anyone individual feel down or frustrated when seeing a girl (who he deems his type) with another guy?

 

[trashKENNUT]

LoverofWomen,

Yea for sure. but i learn over the years that women are humans. Partly due to religion fading off from me, i am able to see people as they are. Though you also tend to see the world as "eat or be eaten". People must be able to like what they like, and sometimes girls you like, don't like you back.

People who say otherwise is bullshit, because just like Ayn Rand, it reveals people at their nakedness, thus their advantage is being taken away.

Zac

 

[LoverOfWomen]

LoverofWomen,

Yea for sure. but i learn over the years that women are humans. Partly due to religion fading off from me, i am able to see people as they are. Though you also tend to see the world as "eat or be eaten". People must be able to like what they like, and sometimes girls you like, don't like you back.

People who say otherwise is bullshit, because just like Ayn Rand, it reveals people at their nakedness, thus their advantage is being taken away.

Zac

You mentioned religion faded from you.
I've had a religious upbringing so sometimes I'd question whether I should be implementing chase's techniques.
How did you overcome that?

I always see conservative girls in my uni but I don't approach as I feel they may be prudes.
A friend told me style of clothing or make up might give you an indication as to how approachable conservative girls are.
Do you find this to be true?

 

[trashKENNUT]

LoverofWomen,

I've had a religious upbringing so sometimes I'd question whether I should be implementing chase's techniques.
How did you overcome that?

Every religion has a loophole.

I would not recommend you watch a video titled "Anti Christianity" and then just decide you never believe in religion due to one video.

For me, i actually take some time to read, study what people condemn about my religion and i actually take what i learn, see where the disparity but also see the different ways that one idea can split into.

Example: Jesus is now Jesus 1A, Jesus 1B, Jesus 1C

and i can tell you 99% of the world population cherrypick and find evidences on what they like and if one ever gets attacked, they just get emotional and stack it.

A friend told me style of clothing or make up might give you an indication as to how approachable conservative girls are.
Do you find this to be true?

Just build on your fundamentals tight and you see girls actually have many "weird" fetishes. We all do.

Zac