Hey guys,
I'm in high school (I always feel I should throw that disclaimer out there) and I've been implementing Chase's tactics into my life for six or seven months now. I've got a bit of a situation though, and I'd be grateful if someone could offer some insight.
So, there's a girl I recently became interested in. We have a number of mutual friends, but I've always kept my distance from her, not wanting to become too buddy-buddy in case I ever wanted to pursue her. About two weeks ago, I began turning up my sexual vibe around her and really flirt hard, and she was giving me some clear signs she was interested as well.
So a week ago, I called her up and set up a date for last Sunday. I picked her up and we took a walk through a deserted park. We held hands and cuddled quite a bit, all that jazz. When I came time to drop her off, she insisted I hug her and when we did, I looked her dead in the eyes and gave a strong signal I wanted a kiss, but didn't go in for it. She was obviously incredibly nervous (she's never had her first kiss) and bid me farewell before I went in for it. I laughed it off and drove home.
The next day at school (Monday), she was very different. Didn't make eye contact ONCE all day and when I attempted to talk to her, she ignored me. The next day, I skipped school and was told by a mutual friend that she was asking about my absence. She told me the next day that she was just in a bad mood Monday, but I'm not too sure about that.
So the following Friday (4/19) I called her after school and tried to set up a date, to no avail. She was booked all weekend. I bid her farewell and haven't talked to her since.
My question here is, what should I do? Should I stop trying to set up dates and let her do all the work or just proceed as normal and try and set up another date? How would you guys handle this situation?
I'm in high school (I always feel I should throw that disclaimer out there) and I've been implementing Chase's tactics into my life for six or seven months now. I've got a bit of a situation though, and I'd be grateful if someone could offer some insight.
So, there's a girl I recently became interested in. We have a number of mutual friends, but I've always kept my distance from her, not wanting to become too buddy-buddy in case I ever wanted to pursue her. About two weeks ago, I began turning up my sexual vibe around her and really flirt hard, and she was giving me some clear signs she was interested as well.
So a week ago, I called her up and set up a date for last Sunday. I picked her up and we took a walk through a deserted park. We held hands and cuddled quite a bit, all that jazz. When I came time to drop her off, she insisted I hug her and when we did, I looked her dead in the eyes and gave a strong signal I wanted a kiss, but didn't go in for it. She was obviously incredibly nervous (she's never had her first kiss) and bid me farewell before I went in for it. I laughed it off and drove home.
The next day at school (Monday), she was very different. Didn't make eye contact ONCE all day and when I attempted to talk to her, she ignored me. The next day, I skipped school and was told by a mutual friend that she was asking about my absence. She told me the next day that she was just in a bad mood Monday, but I'm not too sure about that.
So the following Friday (4/19) I called her after school and tried to set up a date, to no avail. She was booked all weekend. I bid her farewell and haven't talked to her since.
My question here is, what should I do? Should I stop trying to set up dates and let her do all the work or just proceed as normal and try and set up another date? How would you guys handle this situation?
