I have been using Chase's techniques for a six months now and they have been very beneficial, they have helped with many things that I was doing wrong in the past.
I am just getting frustrated with my recent dates and not sure what I am doing wrong. I have been out with three new women in the last month bedded one woman and made out with the others.
I have analyzed each situation and tried my best to learn from the experience. I know that this information is not rocket science and it takes time to master these skills.
I am curious what I did wrong on my last date and want to see some feedback from you:
Background:
My last date was with a woman I went out with two times before on those other occasions we had a really fun and good time together.- We made out twice but I failed to bed her.
We had been in contact for a couple of weeks and I finally got her out on a third date.- I felt like this was my last chance to actually bed her-
However, I had a feeling that she might be a little guarded against the beginning.
Date:
I set up the date to take her to go for a walk and get something to eat, however, she really wanted to see a new romantic movie called la land.
When I met her we were about to go for a walk but it was really cold outside, she kind of pleaded with me to go see the movie. - My first thought was to say to her let's go watch the movie at my place, however, I didn't and we ended up going to watch the movie in the theater. - I felt like that was my first mistake.
I personally hate going to watch a movie with a girl that you aren't intimate with because you are in a dark movie theater and it get's awkward- However we made out two times before and I had a feeling I was already in the Provider-boyfriend role- so I accepted and we went.
I had my game plan before the date and tried to follow my techniques.
I tried to deep dive into conversation and make her feel comfortable.
During the movie, I was intimate with her and tried to hold her hand and leg, but I didn't feel her back reprecipitating back.
After the movie, we had only 30 minutes before she had to go to work and it was a perfect opportunity to bring her back to my place.
I started with light touching and suggested we go back to my place for coffee.
She started to resist and said no, I then tried to persuade her and get her to come back but eventually she gave me a stern no- at that point, I gave up.
We went and had coffee at a coffee shop for 20 minutes and just talked. She mentioned to me why do guys always want to have sex on a date.
After we had coffee, I walked her to the subway and she shook my hand.
I felt like a failure-
I tried to look at what I did wrong on the date and figure out how I could have done it differently.
I guess this is just a learning process but I feel like I keep failing with woman and it is starting to get really depressing.
Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.
Surfer
I am just getting frustrated with my recent dates and not sure what I am doing wrong. I have been out with three new women in the last month bedded one woman and made out with the others.
I have analyzed each situation and tried my best to learn from the experience. I know that this information is not rocket science and it takes time to master these skills.
I am curious what I did wrong on my last date and want to see some feedback from you:
Background:
My last date was with a woman I went out with two times before on those other occasions we had a really fun and good time together.- We made out twice but I failed to bed her.
We had been in contact for a couple of weeks and I finally got her out on a third date.- I felt like this was my last chance to actually bed her-
However, I had a feeling that she might be a little guarded against the beginning.
Date:
I set up the date to take her to go for a walk and get something to eat, however, she really wanted to see a new romantic movie called la land.
When I met her we were about to go for a walk but it was really cold outside, she kind of pleaded with me to go see the movie. - My first thought was to say to her let's go watch the movie at my place, however, I didn't and we ended up going to watch the movie in the theater. - I felt like that was my first mistake.
I personally hate going to watch a movie with a girl that you aren't intimate with because you are in a dark movie theater and it get's awkward- However we made out two times before and I had a feeling I was already in the Provider-boyfriend role- so I accepted and we went.
I had my game plan before the date and tried to follow my techniques.
I tried to deep dive into conversation and make her feel comfortable.
During the movie, I was intimate with her and tried to hold her hand and leg, but I didn't feel her back reprecipitating back.
After the movie, we had only 30 minutes before she had to go to work and it was a perfect opportunity to bring her back to my place.
I started with light touching and suggested we go back to my place for coffee.
She started to resist and said no, I then tried to persuade her and get her to come back but eventually she gave me a stern no- at that point, I gave up.
We went and had coffee at a coffee shop for 20 minutes and just talked. She mentioned to me why do guys always want to have sex on a date.
After we had coffee, I walked her to the subway and she shook my hand.
I felt like a failure-
I tried to look at what I did wrong on the date and figure out how I could have done it differently.
I guess this is just a learning process but I feel like I keep failing with woman and it is starting to get really depressing.
Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.
Surfer
