feeling intense about seduction

[foggy]

i need to express myself. i am feeling right now

one thing i noticed is that my anxiety is tied to seduction

in a day, if i dont take any steps to... get better in my marathon, then i feel anxious until i do. and when i do, i get IMMEDIATE relief. ahhhhhh. so comforting. its leading to some really intense obsession...which is not uncommon for me. but still. the passion i have right now is higher than usual

i value this because it helps my drive for mastery

one downside is it can lead to be being off-balanced, which is something i have typically struggled with in these phases and only hurts me

ahhhhhhh, felt good to let you guys know about this, the only people to talk to about it who would understand

 

[Kaida]

No way, I was literally about to make a thread on this same thing lol

Every time I try and do other productive things like work or reading since I got to college, I have this low level anxiety that keeps telling me to get out my room and walk around campus to look for girls to seduce. It can be really distracting at times when I’m doing homework, my mind is just like “fuck this lets go daygame”. Or sometimes when I want to go boxing my mind is like “this is going to take away time you could be daygaming!”.

Weirdest thing is that I don’t even daygame that much - I do like 1-2 approaches a day now. My mind just wants to constantly be in field so I can catch any possible opportunities.

After the first few notches I was tryna tell myself “yeah… I can chill for now” but I end up having that same anxiousness like you said - I really don’t want to lose the skills I’ve built - so eventually I’m back in field again lol.

And like you said it definitely helps on the way to mastery. I’ve been getting 1-2 lays every week since I’ve gotten to college, most likely thanks to that same drive.

I’m thankful for it honestly. I now know that I can focus that energy into anything I want and really accomplish it. Gives me confidence in how my life will be like after I stop actively focusing on seduction

 

[ShioriGC]

Wow, I want that energy!

 

[Dash of Englishness]

i need to express myself. i am feeling right now

one thing i noticed is that my anxiety is tied to seduction

in a day, if i dont take any steps to... get better in my marathon, then i feel anxious until i do. and when i do, i get IMMEDIATE relief. ahhhhhh. so comforting. its leading to some really intense obsession...which is not uncommon for me. but still. the passion i have right now is higher than usual

i value this because it helps my drive for mastery

one downside is it can lead to be being off-balanced, which is something i have typically struggled with in these phases and only hurts me

ahhhhhhh, felt good to let you guys know about this, the only people to talk to about it who would understand

Great, next time try be less vague.

 

[foggy]

Great, next time try be less vague.

what do you mean? im confused

 

[Dash of Englishness]

what do you mean? im confused

what's the intense obsession?

do you actually expect that dumping these thoughts here is going to be of any help to other posters? you're just taking up space in data centres.

 

[foggy]

what's the intense obsession?

the intense obsession is with my practise of seduction

do you actually expect that dumping these thoughts here is going to be of any help to other posters? you're just taking up space in data centres.

i wasnt trying to help in the OP, i was expressing myself

 

[Dash of Englishness]

the intense obsession is with my practise of seduction



i wasnt trying to help in the OP, i was expressing myself

you could at least try to express yourself better, and ask yourself is it necessary... it takes up space on data centres. I believe the purpose here is to share tactics with each other or to ask for advice, as opposed to dumping random thoughts that are essentially what anyone feels when they think they're on a journey of progress.

 

[DarkKnight]

I feel you Fog. I have the same problem. I suspect this is due to us basically hypnotizing eachother by talking about game all the time. Fear of missing out becomes fear of not gaming

 

[POB]

@fog would you mind if I moved this thread to your journal?
My gut feeling is it's better suited there

@Dash of Englishness you seem like a more rational type, so I feel where you coming from on your comments
These kinds of threads won't resonate with you, and it's ok
But you are borderline antagonizing a senior member for no apparent reason
Please drop it

 

[foggy]

@fog would you mind if I moved this thread to your journal?
My gut feeling is it's better suited there

POB at this point i prefer it is closed or deleted

i just want to escape and never remember the guilt dash made me feel again

 

[HoofHearted]

POB at this point i prefer it is closed or deleted

i just want to escape and never remember the guilt dash made me feel again

Fair, but a closing off is never the answer.

Idk about the OP, not a concept myself experience. But the sensation/desire to retract-- nobody likes their underbelly exposed but it's from this realm all great things emerge.

So a general note. I encourage an exploration *towards*, rather than away. Refine. Impulse manifests a number of ways... today a forum post, tomorrow a painting.

 

[Chase]

I enjoyed this post.

It's some real old school @Cody Lyans energy you're channeling there, @fog.

Cody will just express whatever he is feeling, and the more logical guys could never make much sense of it, but there is always this element of coherence to it... and girls really dig it.

 

[Lover]

i need to express myself. i am feeling right now

one thing i noticed is that my anxiety is tied to seduction

in a day, if i dont take any steps to... get better in my marathon, then i feel anxious until i do. and when i do, i get IMMEDIATE relief. ahhhhhh. so comforting. its leading to some really intense obsession...which is not uncommon for me. but still. the passion i have right now is higher than usual

i value this because it helps my drive for mastery

one downside is it can lead to be being off-balanced, which is something i have typically struggled with in these phases and only hurts me

ahhhhhhh, felt good to let you guys know about this, the only people to talk to about it who would understand

My first thought reading this was Hector's article about Approach Addiction. And here you are fog, an approach addict in the flesh. Would love to meet you at an Approachers Anonymous meeting lol

Jokes aside. It's inspiring fog. Thanks for sharing

 

[POB]

POB at this point i prefer it is closed or deleted

I also enjoyed the post.
It resonated with me.

But looks more like a journal entry than a new thread
Just my 2 cents

i just want to escape and never remember the guilt dash made me feel again

Here, take my tissue lol

 

[SteelbookCollector]

yup, another reminder that it seems guys, men, are the only gender that were meant to have a mentor, have mentors.

 

[HoofHearted]

Here, take my tissue lol

Senselessly mean

yup, another reminder that it seems guys, men, are the only gender that were meant to have a mentor, have mentors

Senseless, what do you mean?

 

[POB]

Senselessly mean

Dude, u are right...I thought he was joking with that line
@fog I scrapped my line, sorry man
I'll close this thread if it's still your wish

 

[Kvothe]

lol I feel you @fog (and don't listen to what the other poster said, what a dumb comment)

I have trouble focusing on work too thinking I need to get out. Plus there's the element of "losing momentum" once you have it, and regaining momentum is one of the least pleasant things around.

I've been going hard the last two months and am finally starting to see some results come back... just in time to have two months before I have to take a few weeks off. Trust me, I feel the anxiety and the intensity.

I just need to work on channeling that into actual persistence-it's strange to feel that intense energy to keep doing, but then just spinning my wheels and not acting with intent when the opportunity arises.

Also take a look at what the first item Tony lists here is: https://www.girlschase.com/content/what-traits-do-best-pickup-artists-have-common

 

[Skills]

Yes! Is normal and it will last for a period of time then eventually wears of or comes down... But is an exiting stage were you get consumed by it...

Yea cosy got constant trolling for this type of posts....so is expected, he didn't care though...