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I wanted to make this thread, get enough posts on it, and hopefully one day Chase can write an article about it.
Now since this is Girlschase, these things have to relate to women and social aspects of life instead of things like making more money or getting in shape.
Since I started the thread, I'll go first but I want everyone to share what is bothering them.
I feel like I am at a point where I have the situation concerning getting laid handled but I feel as if I am heading towards a long unhappy path of loneliness if I don't get married or go with an LTR. Looking around when I am on a date or going out to a bar to night game, I see people who are out in large groups with their friends and I am still working on getting that together for my own life.
I've had some success getting into some decent parties and meeting up with old classmates but it has not got to a point where I feel like I have a tribe or circle of friends to enjoy life experiences with. At times I just feel like I am chasing a fantasy now and by the time I am in my 30s, if I don't settle down then I am going to be by myself a lot and will always be that strange social outcast among those of my age who are married with kids.
As bad as it sounds to PUA rebels, I really want to fit in and feel like I belong to a big community for once in my life but in the back of my head I worry if I missed my opportunity for that in college.
What about you guys!
Now since this is Girlschase, these things have to relate to women and social aspects of life instead of things like making more money or getting in shape.
Since I started the thread, I'll go first but I want everyone to share what is bothering them.
I feel like I am at a point where I have the situation concerning getting laid handled but I feel as if I am heading towards a long unhappy path of loneliness if I don't get married or go with an LTR. Looking around when I am on a date or going out to a bar to night game, I see people who are out in large groups with their friends and I am still working on getting that together for my own life.
I've had some success getting into some decent parties and meeting up with old classmates but it has not got to a point where I feel like I have a tribe or circle of friends to enjoy life experiences with. At times I just feel like I am chasing a fantasy now and by the time I am in my 30s, if I don't settle down then I am going to be by myself a lot and will always be that strange social outcast among those of my age who are married with kids.
As bad as it sounds to PUA rebels, I really want to fit in and feel like I belong to a big community for once in my life but in the back of my head I worry if I missed my opportunity for that in college.
What about you guys!