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TL;WR: A girl who likes me is being slut shamed by another girl from my social circle. She is even making / distributing memes about her (being a slut, manipulative, dishonest; the men she dates being gullible) to my gay friend. I'm curious about your opinions.
Hey all! Been following the site for a while, but consider me new here. Something has been bugging me recently, so I thought I'd come here, give you the context, and hear your opinions. I have no experience with girls, so try to bear with me.
First, the context. I want to offer enough details so that I could get better advice, but it may be a bit rambly, so forgive me if that is the case. Anyway...
A few weeks ago I met a very attractive and sexual girl (friend of a female "friend" of mine... well, more of a close acquaintance, really) who took a liking to me. From my recollection of our intimate conversations I learned that:
I've always presented myself as a non-judgemental individual, even somewhat rebellious, so that's why I believe she felt comfortable revealing such intimate details to me. And I try to find the innocence and inner beauty in all women, Zan Perrion style. And God, I do find her both incredibly hot and extraordinarily beautiful, despite her history. Or maybe I'm just a hopeless, inexperienced cuck-in-the-making. You decide.
During our last conversation several nights ago, we parted amicably (though she cried a bit, saying that it doesn't feel nice being on the receiving end of the break-up talk, for once). She wants to settle down, is sick of partying, while I haven't even begun. We both realised that we are simply not right for one another at this time, if ever. Nothing happened between us, not even a kiss, except the parting one when I kissed her forehead and left her apartment.
With that sappy shit out of the way, let's get to the meat and potatoes of this post.
Last night I went out for a couple of beers with a few friends of mine, the slut shaming girl in question, and her boyfriend. Somehow, the "Slut", as I will call the girl for ease of understanding, became the subject of discussion. It's possible that she was brought up by the "Shamer", or the gay friend, but I cannot recall.
Anyway, the Shamer said that she cannot respect the Slut as she had seen the Slut's ass in a video (dancing or something, I don't know).
My initial idea was that the Shamer was presenting herself as such in order to appear as a "good girl" in front of her boyfriend. That theory, however, seems off in view of recent events.
My gay friend (close friends, we spend a lot of time together) showed me actual memes mocking the Slut and the men that get involved with her, that the Shamer had sent him. I don't know if she is making, or just distributing them. In any case, the Shamer seems to be working full-time to drive the Slut's reputation into the ground, and I'm confused because I've never seen anything like this before. Fucking MEMES, bro! Really?!
And now I'm really confused. A girl shows a hint of interest in me, and I get absolutely barraged by in-your-face insinuations of the girl's lack of value from another girl. I'm lucky to have developed a rather firm and rebellious mind in the last few years, or this would significantly alter my perception of the Slut. Still, it has affected me enough to decide to write here and ask for your opinions.
So tell me, what do you think?
Why did the Slut even develop feelings for me (if she even did, and isn't just playing a game)?
Why is the Shamer trying so hard to ruin the Slut's reputation? SMV, probably? But she's got a boyfriend who is much cooler and more attractive than me, imo, so that makes very little sense.
Why was I not sent any memes (if they existed before now) or heard gossip about the Slut's reputation before I got involved with her?
Did something like this happen to any of you before?
Help me out here, because I am confused as fuck right now. If you have any questions, ask away.
Thanks!
Kai
Hey all! Been following the site for a while, but consider me new here. Something has been bugging me recently, so I thought I'd come here, give you the context, and hear your opinions. I have no experience with girls, so try to bear with me.
First, the context. I want to offer enough details so that I could get better advice, but it may be a bit rambly, so forgive me if that is the case. Anyway...
A few weeks ago I met a very attractive and sexual girl (friend of a female "friend" of mine... well, more of a close acquaintance, really) who took a liking to me. From my recollection of our intimate conversations I learned that:
- she is quite sexually experienced,
- she has cheated on two of her boyfriends (her always being the one to end the relationship),
- enjoyed the party lifestyle and leading men on,
- and is looking to settle down (though she is in her very early twenties), not being interested in short term flings anymore.
I've always presented myself as a non-judgemental individual, even somewhat rebellious, so that's why I believe she felt comfortable revealing such intimate details to me. And I try to find the innocence and inner beauty in all women, Zan Perrion style. And God, I do find her both incredibly hot and extraordinarily beautiful, despite her history. Or maybe I'm just a hopeless, inexperienced cuck-in-the-making. You decide.
During our last conversation several nights ago, we parted amicably (though she cried a bit, saying that it doesn't feel nice being on the receiving end of the break-up talk, for once). She wants to settle down, is sick of partying, while I haven't even begun. We both realised that we are simply not right for one another at this time, if ever. Nothing happened between us, not even a kiss, except the parting one when I kissed her forehead and left her apartment.
With that sappy shit out of the way, let's get to the meat and potatoes of this post.
Last night I went out for a couple of beers with a few friends of mine, the slut shaming girl in question, and her boyfriend. Somehow, the "Slut", as I will call the girl for ease of understanding, became the subject of discussion. It's possible that she was brought up by the "Shamer", or the gay friend, but I cannot recall.
Anyway, the Shamer said that she cannot respect the Slut as she had seen the Slut's ass in a video (dancing or something, I don't know).
My initial idea was that the Shamer was presenting herself as such in order to appear as a "good girl" in front of her boyfriend. That theory, however, seems off in view of recent events.
My gay friend (close friends, we spend a lot of time together) showed me actual memes mocking the Slut and the men that get involved with her, that the Shamer had sent him. I don't know if she is making, or just distributing them. In any case, the Shamer seems to be working full-time to drive the Slut's reputation into the ground, and I'm confused because I've never seen anything like this before. Fucking MEMES, bro! Really?!
And now I'm really confused. A girl shows a hint of interest in me, and I get absolutely barraged by in-your-face insinuations of the girl's lack of value from another girl. I'm lucky to have developed a rather firm and rebellious mind in the last few years, or this would significantly alter my perception of the Slut. Still, it has affected me enough to decide to write here and ask for your opinions.
So tell me, what do you think?
Why did the Slut even develop feelings for me (if she even did, and isn't just playing a game)?
Why is the Shamer trying so hard to ruin the Slut's reputation? SMV, probably? But she's got a boyfriend who is much cooler and more attractive than me, imo, so that makes very little sense.
Why was I not sent any memes (if they existed before now) or heard gossip about the Slut's reputation before I got involved with her?
Did something like this happen to any of you before?
Help me out here, because I am confused as fuck right now. If you have any questions, ask away.
Thanks!
Kai