FR Field report 16/04 back in the game

[Alpha13SC]

Hi guys,

So here, in my country, they removed the restrictions so I clubs are open. Last night I went to a club with 2 friends( girl, boy) thinking I would have a lot of fun. And maybe it would be an opportunity to meet new girls, since I don't really do so much nightgame, but I plan to.

Also, I want to understand this behavior so I can do the right thing.

11:00 pm Got into the club, took my bracelet, people already in, starting to feel good. Went to the bar with my friends, and next to me were two girls. The brunnete looked exactly like Nina Dobrev in his twenties(from Vampire Diaries), I was amazed. After ordering some drinks, I turned to my friends and catch her eyes. We kind of did a staredown of about 2-3 seconds, but somehow I looked away first to my friends because I wanted to talk to them. I said to myself I have to open this girl.

11:15pm - 03:00 am So I had a lot of eye contact with this girl. A lot. I changed places and she looked across the room for me. I was there more to party so I didn t pay attention. She was opened by 2 guys twice, but they didn t get anywhere. Was just friendly to them.

Now, I don't do a lot of nightgame, so some AA hit me. Which is ironic, because once the first word is coming out of my mouth, all the things disappear instantly.
So I needed to treat this first. My friends went to smoke, I went too, but got inside earlier, said to myself "man, I need to open a girl, any girl".

Took one water, stayed somewhere near a couch. There was a girl smoking next to me. Opened her. She seemed friendly, some small jokes, started to touch me. She went to the bathroom then. My friends went in.

So after this, I felt better. Started to open another girl, just for the momentum. But HBNina was just staring at me, especially after seeing me with the 1st girl. I mean a lot more. And somehow I was looked bored at her and at the whole scene.

1st girl came, started to dance a little bit with here, took her to my friends, introduce her.

After so many eye contacts, I said "well, fuck it, gonna go to her".

Went it, said my opener, fully confidently, I was amazed of myself because I delivered it in a little more arrogant way, and guys, she was totally bitchy. Like she just turned herself away intentionally. Her friend actually was watching next to us and started to giggle. I opened her as well, like "what s with your friend?" and she refused to talk.

Now, my fundamentals are tight. I know how to talk to people and I can have a good time with them. And I can surely spot something when an action isn't done in a natural way. Her way of just turning away was just not natural. Left them smiling a little bit after.

Got to my friends, got the 1st girl as well, dancing. After this, I didn't actually had so many eye contacts with that girl because I was focusing more on partying.

04:30 am So the club starts to get a little bit tired. So we left. While waiting the uber, got again in the club, went to the bathroom, saw the 1st girl and took her number.

So this is my 1st real night outside doing some game. Is it funny? Maybe, rereading it, but I don't give a fuck. Actually proud of myself for building momentum so fast. And I plan to go out more doing this.

Now, my question: what was with that behavior? Did I missed an escalation window? Was that girl just wanting attention? Because I tend to do a lot of eye contacts with girls in pubs and clubs, multiple times, and I want to profit from it as much as I can. (stood next to the bar with her friend the whole time).

Alpha13SC

 

[trashKENNUT]

Went it, said my opener, fully confidently, I was amazed of myself because I delivered it in a little more arrogant way, and guys, she was totally bitchy. Like she just turned herself away intentionally. Her friend actually was watching next to us and started to giggle. I opened her as well, like "what s with your friend?" and she refused to talk.

Now, my fundamentals are tight. I know how to talk to people and I can have a good time with them. And I can surely spot something when an action isn't done in a natural way. Her way of just turning away was just not natural. Left them smiling a little bit after.

VALUE ASS-ESSING

She doesn't know how her friends think of you, or your authority of the place. Added, she probably doesn't have experience to handle ambiguity of clubs.
Experienced girls will just keep their silence or smile at you, without saying anything.

Now, my question: what was with that behavior? Did I missed an escalation window? Was that girl just wanting attention? Because I tend to do a lot of eye contacts with girls in pubs and clubs, multiple times, and I want to profit from it as much as I can. (stood next to the bar with her friend the whole time).

Value ASS-ESSING.

I am not sure if Teev or Skills mentioned this, that females today are having a glitch in the matrix because this is not Tinder. This is real life. My gut feeling says that you will see this behavior more common with Generation Z. but that's my personal hypothesis.

z@c+

 

[mist]

Nightgame dealing with aloof/resistant/lukewarm women

Some other openers and moves inset should you run into this girl or she becomes one due to you, a wildcard, or her.

1. https://www.girlschase.com/article/tactics-tuesdays-opener-cycling

2. https://www.girlschase.com/content/shotgun-opening-and-reopening-women-later-night

3. https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-hook-girls-pt2-speaker-centered-pre-openers

4. https://www.girlschase.com/content/tactics-tuesdays-resistant-girls-use-parting-shot

5. https://www.girlschase.com/content/what-do-when-girls-act-superior-rude-and-aloof

Also consider your attainability, visibility, time of the night, value she gets rejecting you both ego wise and from the surroundings. All of these should add to a much smoother nightgame for you. Also read up on Alek, Karea, Chase, and Lofty. Consider leading in some sets if she sticks in set and her reaction isn't too blatant or overtly "fuck offish". ( For the most part people mostly assume you already know everyone you are talking to and or are curious of what occurred. Made a completely cold approach infant of my peers and they were very mucho confused...almost assumed I already knew her even though it made no sense I did. Got her number which no one noticed ig after the brief uproar and thennnn went on with life...girl in question hasn't replied to icebreaker or intrigue bait *shrug*)

6. https://www.girlschase.com/content/shes-not-so-socially-savvy-you-must-be-it-her

7. https://www.girlschase.com/content/why-you-eject-talking-girls-too-soon-plus-how-stop

Stuff I've used and am working on as well among my fundies. Worthwhile stuff.

Especially if you are going out and have reference points to connect it with and or seeking more

 

[Will_V]

Hi guys,

So here, in my country, they removed the restrictions so I clubs are open. Last night I went to a club with 2 friends( girl, boy) thinking I would have a lot of fun. And maybe it would be an opportunity to meet new girls, since I don't really do so much nightgame, but I plan to.

Also, I want to understand this behavior so I can do the right thing.

11:00 pm Got into the club, took my bracelet, people already in, starting to feel good. Went to the bar with my friends, and next to me were two girls. The brunnete looked exactly like Nina Dobrev in his twenties(from Vampire Diaries), I was amazed. After ordering some drinks, I turned to my friends and catch her eyes. We kind of did a staredown of about 2-3 seconds, but somehow I looked away first to my friends because I wanted to talk to them. I said to myself I have to open this girl.

11:15pm - 03:00 am So I had a lot of eye contact with this girl. A lot. I changed places and she looked across the room for me. I was there more to party so I didn t pay attention. She was opened by 2 guys twice, but they didn t get anywhere. Was just friendly to them.

Now, I don't do a lot of nightgame, so some AA hit me. Which is ironic, because once the first word is coming out of my mouth, all the things disappear instantly.
So I needed to treat this first. My friends went to smoke, I went too, but got inside earlier, said to myself "man, I need to open a girl, any girl".

Took one water, stayed somewhere near a couch. There was a girl smoking next to me. Opened her. She seemed friendly, some small jokes, started to touch me. She went to the bathroom then. My friends went in.

So after this, I felt better. Started to open another girl, just for the momentum. But HBNina was just staring at me, especially after seeing me with the 1st girl. I mean a lot more. And somehow I was looked bored at her and at the whole scene.

1st girl came, started to dance a little bit with here, took her to my friends, introduce her.

After so many eye contacts, I said "well, fuck it, gonna go to her".

Went it, said my opener, fully confidently, I was amazed of myself because I delivered it in a little more arrogant way, and guys, she was totally bitchy. Like she just turned herself away intentionally. Her friend actually was watching next to us and started to giggle. I opened her as well, like "what s with your friend?" and she refused to talk.

Now, my fundamentals are tight. I know how to talk to people and I can have a good time with them. And I can surely spot something when an action isn't done in a natural way. Her way of just turning away was just not natural. Left them smiling a little bit after.

Got to my friends, got the 1st girl as well, dancing. After this, I didn't actually had so many eye contacts with that girl because I was focusing more on partying.

04:30 am So the club starts to get a little bit tired. So we left. While waiting the uber, got again in the club, went to the bathroom, saw the 1st girl and took her number.

So this is my 1st real night outside doing some game. Is it funny? Maybe, rereading it, but I don't give a fuck. Actually proud of myself for building momentum so fast. And I plan to go out more doing this.

Now, my question: what was with that behavior? Did I missed an escalation window? Was that girl just wanting attention? Because I tend to do a lot of eye contacts with girls in pubs and clubs, multiple times, and I want to profit from it as much as I can. (stood next to the bar with her friend the whole time).

Alpha13SC

What did you say in your opener?

It sounds like clear cut auto rejection so my guess is that something about your opener and/or delivery was too aggressive, flippant or arrogant. If you're rusty, focus on being smooth, social and confident so that you can rack up reference points and get your instincts back online.

 

[Alpha13SC]

Nightgame dealing with aloof/resistant/lukewarm women

Some other openers and moves inset should you run into this girl or she becomes one due to you, a wildcard, or her.

1. https://www.girlschase.com/article/tactics-tuesdays-opener-cycling

2. https://www.girlschase.com/content/shotgun-opening-and-reopening-women-later-night

3. https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-hook-girls-pt2-speaker-centered-pre-openers

4. https://www.girlschase.com/content/tactics-tuesdays-resistant-girls-use-parting-shot

5. https://www.girlschase.com/content/what-do-when-girls-act-superior-rude-and-aloof

Also consider your attainability, visibility, time of the night, value she gets rejecting you both ego wise and from the surroundings. All of these should add to a much smoother nightgame for you. Also read up on Alek, Karea, Chase, and Lofty. Consider leading in some sets if she sticks in set and her reaction isn't too blatant or overtly "fuck offish". ( For the most part people mostly assume you already know everyone you are talking to and or are curious of what occurred. Made a completely cold approach infant of my peers and they were very mucho confused...almost assumed I already knew her even though it made no sense I did. Got her number which no one noticed ig after the brief uproar and thennnn went on with life...girl in question hasn't replied to icebreaker or intrigue bait *shrug*)

6. https://www.girlschase.com/content/shes-not-so-socially-savvy-you-must-be-it-her

7. https://www.girlschase.com/content/why-you-eject-talking-girls-too-soon-plus-how-stop

Stuff I've used and am working on as well among my fundies. Worthwhile stuff.

Especially if you are going out and have reference points to connect it with and or seeking more

Ty man, this is some good info you layed here. Gonna do some lecture on that. Really appreciate it!

 

[Alpha13SC]

What did you say in your opener?

It sounds like clear cut auto rejection so my guess is that something about your opener and/or delivery was too aggressive, flippant or arrogant. If you're rusty, focus on being smooth, social and confident so that you can rack up reference points and get your instincts back online.

So yeah, I was trying to be a smartass there.

Had a cold bottle of water, so I went to her(she was initially with her back turned to me). Touched that bottle on her lower back, she turned and I said something like "hello" but felt her she was close from the begining.

It kind of felt doing it in an arrogant way.