LR- Fingering Lucy on my sofa

[Seppuku]

Hi guys,

I am Seppuku, a 45 years old french national working and living in Doha, Qatar. I am divorced with two children (12 and 8) which are both living with me here in Doha. That already makes a busy life, but on top of that, from last September I started to have some success meeting women on online dating apps.

On January 22nd I see Lucy's profile on WeChat, she's a 30 years old woman from the Philippines, a real beauty, thin, sexy eyes, long hair, and very feminine. Her profile reads "Don't be a beggar of love. Be a donor of love" so after Colt William's "song lyric opener" suggestion, I approach her with "love me tender, love me true". Believe it or not, this opener has improved my opening rate. She accepts my invitation and we start chatting.

Like so many girls working here she has a drastic working schedule, and her only real free time is the sunday evening. It turns out that she has already events planned on the two following sundays - her birthday being one - but she kindly invites me to join. Not much face to face time, but I decide to play it social and join nevertheless. I get to meet her girlfriends and play confidence and charisma, the guy's presence in the group. On these two social dates, I engage the girls, tease them, make them laugh, deep dive them and get them to speak. I have noticed in the past how this scores me points towards my target.

February 8th
Our real first face to face date happens on February 8th. I pick her at her place at 7:50 pm then drive her to the W hotel where we have a dinner. One thing about Qatar and the Gulf in general is that all night life is around hotels. These are, in general, the only places with restaurants, alcohol, music, and dance.

As we get out of the car on our way to the restaurant I immediately take her hand in mine. She follows my lead very well. At the restaurant I deep dive her while holding her hand all the time. I can tell she likes my touch. As she looks away, I try "Look at me!" (gentle but firm tone) and she complies. We finish by 9:40pm. My nanny has left home now and my two children are sleeping. "It's early. What do you want to do now? We go to a bar?" The question was meant to get a negative answer, and it does. "Let us go to my home? You will see my place." "Maybe not tonight. Maybe next week..." "But it's too cold to have a walk on the Corniche. And it is still early. OK I will take you home, and after 30 minutes I drive you back". This was not a question.

We park on my underground parking lot then I take her home. All is silent, kids seem asleep, so I close the door leading to the bedrooms. I show her the kitchen and the view, propose her a drink (she wants water) then I lead her to the living room and sit her next to me. I take her in my arms and draw her head to my shoulder. She closes her eyes and abandon herself, while I caress her hair, her arms, her legs. After some time, she seems asleep, and I think it's best to leave things here for now. I ask if it's not better that I drive her home. But apparently she does not want to go home now... Ok. So now I start kissing her on her neck and chest. We stand up now and she comes in my arms. She holds herself tight against me and feels my arousal. She notice my hard on and presses herself against me. "Man's body. We have no control on this!" I am still kissing her all around her neck. My hands are on her body, on her waist, on her cute tiny ass... But tits, apparently, are forbidden area. Back on the sofa I am on her, still try the boobs, but she removes my hands. Ok. My hands are under her shirt, on her bare waist and belly and it is so soft. I also rub her pussy through the jeans and she moans softly, yet tits are still forbidden. Well, I sense now that's as far as I am going to get for now. We cool down a bit, gently, on the sofa then I drive her home.

The next day we have the following exchange:

Her: To tell you honestly, you really made me feel special last night, the way you looked at me
Me: Or the way I take care of you?
Her: Both. And it's my first time to feel this way, yes! I loved before but I never felt like this.
Me: You liked?
Her: Yes I liked it.
[...]
Her: Thinking of you before I sleep and when I wake up this morning.

February 15th
We have a belated Valentine date. I pick her at her place at 8:15. Tonight she's dressed sexy, with a short dress, bare legs. Very cute. As we head for the restaurant I have my hand over her bare leg and start caressing her with no objection. At the restaurant we have a quiet time over a short meal (she's not very hungry). When we're done, we board my car and I start driving on the Corniche, direction my home. I haven't told her where we're going and I'm driving her at my home as the natural place to go. She does not ask and does not object when it becomes clear we're going to my apartment.

Soon she's in my arms on the sofa. As I start kissing her I run my hands over her whole body. The kiss turns into full make out. Now my hands are under her dress on her pants, and I start rubbing her pussy through the pants. No objection, she starts moaning gently. Many times she pauses, sits straight and turn her back to me, looking confused. Then I push her back on the sofa in my arms and start again. Boobs are still forbidden. I open my shirt and allow her to touch my chest. We stand up, I take her fully in my arms, run my hands on her ass as we make out, then start slipping a hand under her pants... Looks like there is a period going on, there's a napkin again. She goes to the toilet. When she comes out she comes in my arms and press herself against me. She feels my hard dick and press herself against it. OK so you have my permission to touch darling! I take her hand and put it straight onto my dick. We're now lying on the sofa and she seems now completely abandoned. I give my dick into her hand, and the way she squeezes it, it seems that she did not touch a dick for some time or otherwise does not know much how to handle this. No problem. Now I slip a finger beneath her pants. No more napkin. Her pussy is dripping wet! I finger her with one, then two fingers. It's tight inside! She is moaning hard now. I pull down my pant and have a condom ready. I try to remove her pants but obviously she does not want. OK so I try to slip my dick past the pants, from the side, but it does not work. I try removing her pants again, but still no. OK I am not going to rape anyone. Looks like that was as much as I'm going to get tonight. That was probably a lot for her, she seems a very conservative and inexperienced girl. I am now sweet and tender with her, gentle manners. I finally drive her home.

She's such a sweet cutie. I would probably manage to get my ways with her given more time, but I will probably not have the patience to continue. Starting from the end of this week my ex wife is visiting us to see the kids so I wont be able to bring her home until 4 weeks from now. No problem, in the meantime I will fuck Nicky (my previous LR, which was indeed happening simultaneously of this one)

March 1st update - I am still seeing her, so things are not over.

 

[ray_zorse]

Nice brother, nice, smooth moves but what really struck me was the genuineness here, you are obviously very fond of her and keen to care for her, within the parameters of not investing too much more than she does, etc. It kind of feels like knowing game has made the usual pitfalls not an issue so you can just focus on being yourself and giving her what she needs -- the oil on the wheels so to speak. I also noticed you were breaking the rules a little here, should not have accepted group invite etc, and you're obviously aware of this and decided to do it anyway and I like that (I often break the rules particularly in regard to dance floor game and often pay the price but IDGAF I do what I enjoy doing and play it my way). In this case you maybe could have gamed her harder and been more of an asshole and put her in a "make or break" situation, if you hadn't set the "caring" frame on the first 2 meetings, but your judgement calls were pretty on point as far as I can see. Tell the truth I kind of like the shy inexperienced feminine ones, although it's damn frustrating when they don't know how to touch you, I'd be interested to hear how this goes later on
Ray

 

[Seppuku]

Hello Ray,

Well spotted, it's all very true. I broke the "not dating on her terms" rule consciously and actually tried to turn it to my advantage by playing social preselection. Yes I'm very keen on her. At the same time my sexual needs were very well taken care of by Nicky ;-) which I was pounding hard on the same sofa the very next day lol, so I felt I could afford taking more time with Lucy and be more caring. For the touching part, I plan to educate her on how to best handle my engine ;-)

As the interaction is still on with her I expect more developments.

Seppuku

 

[Sam]

Seppuku,

Great job in dating a woman 15 years younger than you. You are an inspiration for younger men like me to go meet much younger women and you are also a reminder that men's value is ageless.

What I would like to note is the fact that you actually saw this woman 3 times so far, despite her last-minute resistance. Usually, in my case, few women stayed around after even a first failed attempt to have sex with them. Only those who really, really liked me stayed. Most of them actually don't stick around.

So, my question to you: how often do women stay for a second or even a third date with you after having resisted you at the last minute? Could you give a percentage?

 

[Seppuku]

Hey Sam,

Thank you so much. The merit goes to Chase and other contributors of this website who actually provide a map to read women.

This is all new to me in fact so I can't tell you for sure, but it's a good question. The other similar case was Joanne (I posted the FR++ in December I think). We never met face to face after the failed attempt, but because I was no longer interested. She kept texting me for two months after the fact. I had already set my interest on fresher, more palatable prospects ;-). Easier to restart from scratch with new material.

Seppuku

 

[Seppuku]

March 16 update - Lay complete

I was away from Doha, from 4 to 14 March, so my next chance to meet Lucy is on Sunday 15th. All the time I was gone I received messages about how much she missed me, so I need to take the hint.

On the 15th I pick her at her place by 7:45 pm then drive to a small family restaurant next to my place. We finish the restaurant (Applebees) at 9:30 and I take her home. No one said anything about where we're going next and she does not ask, so it is implicit. Nevertheless I keep talking all the time to engage her logical mind while I'm driving to my home. Karen my nanny (and former dating prospect, lol) just left home and my kids are sleeping. I make Lucy remove her shoes, serve us a glass of white wine, then we're on the sofa.

We kiss for some time, then my hands are over her. This time, tits are OK to touch. I get her to unbutton my shirt. She resists a lot, though. Many times, when it gets too hot, she pulls back, turn her back to me, yet lying her head on my chest. Slowly, I have my hands under her shirt and in her pants. Clothes are not easy. The shirt is under the trousers, and the trousers is a tight jean, it takes some effort to get through these defenses. I whisper to her softly "I want to feel your skin. It's a better feeling than the clothes". When I get to caress her belly I ask "Do you like my hands on you?" It's a patient fight, after two hours she still has her shirt and trousers on. She goes to the toilet.

When she's back I change strategy, I just have her lie next to me with her head on my shoulder then do nothing except a soft kiss on her forehead once in a while. Soon I notice that she seeks more, by subtle hints. That's what I was expecting, her coming back for more. Now I go full in. I keep talking to her constantly in a soft and gentle voice yet confident and assertive tone. Soon I finally manage to remove the shirt and tee shirt beneath it. OK, the bra will stay but I get to suck her nipples. Now my hands are in her pants, on her fresh ass. "Need to warm it up". Next I pull the tight fitting trousers. Apparently I am not allowed to remove it in full, but I get to pull it to under the knees. I caress these thighs. "Do you like my touch?" Now my hands are beneath her pants, and I go for more fingering. I confirm it is very tight in here! She is wet. Some pause.

She wants to feel me, her hand is discreetly going towards my crotch for some "accidental" touch. I put her hand right on my hard-on and guide her caress. After the awkward squeezing of last time, I decide to guide her. I unbutton my trousers and make her feel my dick through my pants, then extract it and guide her on how to best handle the tool, with a few explanations. I go back to her pussy and do more fingering. "Would you like to feel me inside you?" She nods in affirmative. I try to remove the trousers, but it still forbidden. "Well, it's as you like, but it is going to be difficult with the trousers half on!" I do more fingering. After a while I try again removing the trousers and now she helps me to remove it! Haha I'm in.

She's now naked. She's very thin, feminine and cute, shaved pussy. I take her in missionary position, enough hard stuff for today, we'll do advanced stuff next time lol. It goes on for a little while, she's moaning, but now it's past midnight and she wakes up the next day at 5 am, and I still need to bring her back. Plus, I have a condom and it will take longer for me to come. We have to leave it here for today unfortunately and I drive her back. Next time we will need to start fucking earlier lol but I guess it will be easier since I've past her walls and I'm now an "insider".

In the meantime, that completes the lay!