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Oskar

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This was a fun one. Met a girl on Tinder and set up a meet at a metro station by her place last night. Through Tinder all we know about one another is our locations and what we look like basically. After walking around the metro station we eventually bump into each other.

A buxom redhead -- half Scottish half French-Canadian -- and a member of a death-punk band. Let's call her FireCat. FireCat informs me of a few things early on: 1) that she has only half an hour before she has to go do some work stuff (luckily I scheduled another backup date this evening), and 2) that she has to go home and change (she was wearing a sweater in 80 degree heat cuz she works by the water, where it's colder). So we walk to her place chatting about what our lives are like (mostly her -- she loves to talk), and she gives me the tour of her place and gets me a drink then goes off to change. I figure I should make a move now, even though we've only known each other for 5 minutes, but then her roommate comes out and sits right next to me. So after she gets changed (now into shorts and a low-cut top) I decide to invite her to head towards a nearby social area, and she acquiesces.

We walk through a trainyard/park/overgrown area to get there, and I get the idea that we should just have an impromptu picnic here. On the walk over I start opening up some sexual frames talking about her body and sexuality, and she's enjoying it. We head to a convenient store with her doing most of the talking and buy a bottle of white wine (cuz it's a picnic and all...) then go back and get nestled in the tall grass. I deep dive her, learning that she's a rather aware, awake person, who sticks to her convictions -- which is attractive to me. I also learn that, despite what her Tinder profile said, saying she was 22, she is actually 18. "Interesting..."

Her 30 minute time-limit magically disappears at this point.

We talk some more about her past relationships, adventures, family, etc. while drinking the wine. I text my backup date that something came up and I can't meet her tonight. FireCat wants to show me some music on her Ipod. I move next to her to check it out, then, after a moment, grab her chin and steal a kiss. She gets super into it so I escalate straight to sex.

FireCat earns her namesake at this point. We got to the point where people walking by would stop and watch for a few seconds, she was screaming so much. She orgasms a few times. Fantastic body. Eventually I say we should go back to her place (the bugs were biting). We get dressed again and she is very pleased, though her legs seem a bit wobbly on the walk back. She has to sneak me in, cuz she doesn't want her roommates to know that she's bringing a guy around (I later learn that this is in part because she's seeing someone -- though she says he's not her bf.)

Have more sex in her room -- really enjoying her Scottish accent. Like I'll tell her to do something dirty and she'll smile and whisper something like: "You cheeky bastard."

She also tells me that she thinks I'm much like this chap: http://www3.pictures.zimbio.com/gi/Jim+ ... pu756l.jpg which I'm going to take as a compliment, though maybe that means I should work on being edgier, judging by some pics.

After a time we sneak back through the house, have a playful handshake on the stoop, and then I depart into the night.

On the bus ride back to my place I try and pick up another girl, but I think she noticed that I smelled like sex, and she didn't want to become "just another number", so it didn't go further than pleasant conversation. Amusing.

I get home and pass out on my bed -- quite satisfied with how my night turned out.

-Oskar
 
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Rage

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Hey Oskar,

Neat report, and the girl sounds really hot

Have more sex in her room -- really enjoying her Scottish accent. Like I'll tell her to do something dirty and she'll smile and whisper something like: "You cheeky bastard."

Especially^, I like girls with accents... foreigner appeal I guess lol.

You seem to be doing well with tinder... I was on my way to my friend's house leaving right now to get some good model-esque pics taken of me, and then make a tinder later today.

Was wondering if you had any tips on what to do and what not to do... and what's worked well for you in crafting your tinder account and having it get you results?

I'm excited and curious about starting... gonna follow some of the tips from Chase's online dating article and hopefully make it work really well for me :)

-Gem
 

Oskar

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Gem said:
Hey Oskar,

Neat report, and the girl sounds really hot

Have more sex in her room -- really enjoying her Scottish accent. Like I'll tell her to do something dirty and she'll smile and whisper something like: "You cheeky bastard."

Especially^, I like girls with accents... foreigner appeal I guess lol.

You seem to be doing well with tinder... I was on my way to my friend's house leaving right now to get some good model-esque pics taken of me, and then make a tinder later today.

Was wondering if you had any tips on what to do and what not to do... and what's worked well for you in crafting your tinder account and having it get you results?

I'm excited and curious about starting... gonna follow some of the tips from Chase's online dating article and hopefully make it work really well for me :)

-Gem


Funny you ask, actually: I think you'll be getting your question about Tinder answered in-depth by someone with much more experience on Tinder than myself (I've been experimenting with it for only a few weeks now) on the main site soon. But here're some tips from me in the meantime:

1) The #1 most important thing, as you're of course already aware of, is to have solid pics. I've got a few up that work well together: a cocky/dominant one of me in a tanktop, one of me from a video of me explaining stuff looking fly, an action shot of me shooting a longbow, and another more chipper close-up of me looking off to the side. It could be better -- I don't have any professional photos yet either. I'm just working with what I've got. Seems to be fine so far -- though I bet I could do better with some professional photos.

2) Just swipe yes to everyone, and you can then just choose to message the girls you like who swipe right to you and block the rest (or run experimental openings on them). Saves a whole lot of time, and also can be a useful way to get a lot of feedback on your profile and see what kind of presentation works best in a short amount of time. (and obviously don't tell the girls that)

3) For openers, the one that gets me the best results is a playful/sexual/funnyish one, from which I then quickly transition to setting up logistics for our adventure. But unfortunately I got it from a friend who has asked me not to share it. That one has lead to dates, but others have worked well too. Standard direct stuff works fine -- I've gotten a date from a "Hey <Girl's Name>! I have to say: you look pleasantly svelte in your pictures. I like that ;)". Another thing that works of course is when the girl opens you!

4) Probably not particularly helpful for you unless you're in a similar situation, but on my profile I describe myself as followed: "Just moved here last week -- looking to meet some fellow adventurers with open minds. Those who don't like action or who are stuck in a Madonna/whore paradigm need not apply."

Basically I indirectly convey that I am looking for sex but have standards, while setting up an automatic chase frame with the whole "apply" thing.

Good luck and happy swiping ;)

-Oskar
 

Rage

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Hey thanks for the ideas, I just got back from my friend's place and the pics came out awesome!

Funny you ask, actually: I think you'll be getting your question about Tinder answered in-depth by someone with much more experience on Tinder than myself (I've been experimenting with it for only a few weeks now) on the main site soon.

Is that so? Would be awesome if yes :)

2) Just swipe yes to everyone, and you can then just choose to message the girls you like who swipe right to you and block the rest (or run experimental openings on them). Saves a whole lot of time, and also can be a useful way to get a lot of feedback on your profile and see what kind of presentation works best in a short amount of time. (and obviously don't tell the girls that)

That's a great idea; I bet the average guy probably isn't doing that... I think I'm gonna try that. Chase had said that looking away from camera and not smiling gets the best result, and I got a good pic like that today that's gonna be my default.

4) Probably not particularly helpful for you unless you're in a similar situation, but on my profile I describe myself as followed: "Just moved here last week -- looking to meet some fellow adventurers with open minds. Those who don't like action or who are stuck in a Madonna/whore paradigm need not apply."

I had been planning on going with something similar to this (because Chase's article said that travelers that just got back in town get the best responses as it gives them a good reason to be on a dating app) even though it wouldn't be entirely true for me... lol. My tagline says that I got back in town after being gone for a few years (which is technically true because I've been at college for a couple of years... so sort of a half truth?) Lol.

Thanks for the tips bro, hope to get to post a few reports with results :)

-Gem
 

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Oskar, how late in the night did you guys bang in the park? Was there still some light in the sky or pitch black?

My park escalations have been really wishy-washy and I'm trying to narrow down the factors.

FireCat earns her namesake at this point. We got to the point where people walking by would stop and watch for a few seconds, she was screaming so much.

Holy S#$% good job man! Must have really set a sexual mood for her to let go in public.
 

Oskar

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BarryS1 said:
Oskar, how late in the night did you guys bang in the park? Was there still some light in the sky or pitch black?

It was twilight. When we left it was night. This place is my new favorite seduction spot, actually. It's exciting, a nice neutral area, relatively secluded and comfortable, and close to public transport and other social areas, so if I pull from a bar or the street, I can just go there and escalate with much less resistance than if we went to one of our house's, as it's less expected. Good kind of place to find when you move to a new city ;)

-Oskar
 
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