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Gentlemen: TL
R I got an LR- on the first date with a girl who'd been waiting a year for me. Also, I managed to set the frame as a fuck-budy relationship!
1st LR- was really straightforward. I'd been introduced to her over a year ago, while I was in an exclusive relationship (pre-selection baby!). I saw her for the first time since then a couple weeks ago at a social function in the afternoon. I could tell she wanted by the way she looked at me and followed me when I walked while talking to her. I decided I would like to have her for a casual fling, so I invited her to get dinner with me (no food at the event). We grabbed some greasy Mexican at a diner, and then I suggested drinks, and she went along. While drinking, we were sitting facing each other with the corner of a table between us, and I kept making sustained, intense eye contact with her, and she held it! I mostly just bantered, didn't actually deep dive too far. I did bring up sex in a casual way, saying something like "I love it when girls say 'No sex on the first date' and then give me a blowjob to make up for it, can't lose that way!" I also built a bit of kino, touching her arms, shoulders, and occassionally knee or lower thigh.
We had a couple rounds (she paid one, I the other) and then I suggested I show her some pictures on my laptop at home that I'd mentioned earlier, she agreed. I showed her some stuff, and then went for a kiss, and she didn't really dive into it too much, but I didn't let it phase me. I tried again a few minutes later, a bit more agressively with a manhandle kiss. This time she bit, and we made out (I was in an awkward position kneeling in front of her as she sat in my desk chair ... don't give up the high ground, men!) and I stood while still kissing her, then broke contact and beckonned with my finger for her to follow me to the bed. We hopped on and continued making out. At some point she rolled me over and straddled me, and was sort of teasing me:
Her: "The last time I saw you, you were dating someone..."
Me: "You're in luck, not anymore!"
Her: "When did that happen" (I think she doubted me)
Me: "A few months ago, in Oct."
Her: "Ok..."
Me: "There's something I should tell you though... I'm kinda promiscuous."
Her:"What do you mean?"
Me: shit-eating grin while saying nothing, staring into her eyes for 30 seconds
Her:"Come on, I have to know now that you said something." (clearly displeased)
Me:"Well, let's just say there's this girl from out of town I see periodically... not gonna get serious tho..."
Her: pauses to deliberate
Me:"well, it's your choice"
Her:"ok, I'm alright with this being casual."
Her:"how many people from our student org have you dated?"
Me:"Hmm, only one ... wait, no, another one is going to join, I talked her into it!"
Me:"How about you?"
Her:"five"
Me:"I've never slept with any of them tho"
Her:"I'm not telling you that figure!"
Me: "Wasn't asking!"
We started dry-humping as we made out, and I got a couple moans from her, but when I stopped rubbing my hands all over her and started trying to get one hand in the front of her pants, she pulled back and said she wasn't comfortable going that fast. I said "no pressure, just enjoy yourself! and me!" and kept on grinding. I eventually came in my pants :/ which amused her. I took off my clothes and wiped up, and then snuggled with her. We eventually resumed making out, and this time I rubbed her crotch by reaching from behind (long arms are great!) and I could feel her wet through her tights. So I finally pulled them down and she let me finger her to climax. She kept whispering 'don't stop, don't stop!' and shook from head to toe when she came.
I haven't seen her in almost two weeks, and there's a chance I've ruined everything, but I've been busy (with other women, and work) and also caught a cold, and to be honest I don't care too much one way or the other. I'll try to convert to a full LR, if I have anything left after I visit the rest of my harem!
R I got an LR- on the first date with a girl who'd been waiting a year for me. Also, I managed to set the frame as a fuck-budy relationship!1st LR- was really straightforward. I'd been introduced to her over a year ago, while I was in an exclusive relationship (pre-selection baby!). I saw her for the first time since then a couple weeks ago at a social function in the afternoon. I could tell she wanted by the way she looked at me and followed me when I walked while talking to her. I decided I would like to have her for a casual fling, so I invited her to get dinner with me (no food at the event). We grabbed some greasy Mexican at a diner, and then I suggested drinks, and she went along. While drinking, we were sitting facing each other with the corner of a table between us, and I kept making sustained, intense eye contact with her, and she held it! I mostly just bantered, didn't actually deep dive too far. I did bring up sex in a casual way, saying something like "I love it when girls say 'No sex on the first date' and then give me a blowjob to make up for it, can't lose that way!" I also built a bit of kino, touching her arms, shoulders, and occassionally knee or lower thigh.
We had a couple rounds (she paid one, I the other) and then I suggested I show her some pictures on my laptop at home that I'd mentioned earlier, she agreed. I showed her some stuff, and then went for a kiss, and she didn't really dive into it too much, but I didn't let it phase me. I tried again a few minutes later, a bit more agressively with a manhandle kiss. This time she bit, and we made out (I was in an awkward position kneeling in front of her as she sat in my desk chair ... don't give up the high ground, men!) and I stood while still kissing her, then broke contact and beckonned with my finger for her to follow me to the bed. We hopped on and continued making out. At some point she rolled me over and straddled me, and was sort of teasing me:
Her: "The last time I saw you, you were dating someone..."
Me: "You're in luck, not anymore!"
Her: "When did that happen" (I think she doubted me)
Me: "A few months ago, in Oct."
Her: "Ok..."
Me: "There's something I should tell you though... I'm kinda promiscuous."
Her:"What do you mean?"
Me: shit-eating grin while saying nothing, staring into her eyes for 30 seconds
Her:"Come on, I have to know now that you said something." (clearly displeased)
Me:"Well, let's just say there's this girl from out of town I see periodically... not gonna get serious tho..."
Her: pauses to deliberate
Me:"well, it's your choice"
Her:"ok, I'm alright with this being casual."
Her:"how many people from our student org have you dated?"
Me:"Hmm, only one ... wait, no, another one is going to join, I talked her into it!"
Me:"How about you?"
Her:"five"
Me:"I've never slept with any of them tho"
Her:"I'm not telling you that figure!"
Me: "Wasn't asking!"
We started dry-humping as we made out, and I got a couple moans from her, but when I stopped rubbing my hands all over her and started trying to get one hand in the front of her pants, she pulled back and said she wasn't comfortable going that fast. I said "no pressure, just enjoy yourself! and me!" and kept on grinding. I eventually came in my pants :/ which amused her. I took off my clothes and wiped up, and then snuggled with her. We eventually resumed making out, and this time I rubbed her crotch by reaching from behind (long arms are great!) and I could feel her wet through her tights. So I finally pulled them down and she let me finger her to climax. She kept whispering 'don't stop, don't stop!' and shook from head to toe when she came.
I haven't seen her in almost two weeks, and there's a chance I've ruined everything, but I've been busy (with other women, and work) and also caught a cold, and to be honest I don't care too much one way or the other. I'll try to convert to a full LR, if I have anything left after I visit the rest of my harem!
