Date Plans First date sex, Logistics problem

[mesixi9522]

I'm new to this but luckily tall and attractive, so I can pull via tinder pretty consistently now that I am taking it seriously. I have typically had first coffee dates, ending with a makeout session in my car after change of venue, and plan a second date within a few days for "watching a movie at my place".

Part of the problem is that I'm in a fairly small town, most of the women (especially college aged) are in a larger city about 40 minute drive away. I read the chase article on "how to get sex on every first date" (https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-first-date-sex-girls-every-date) and it made a lot of sense to me. I believe I am able to remove logical and emotional barriers to first date sex, but in this case the logistical barrier seems to be tricky.. any ideas?

 

[HoofHearted]

Hmmm

1. If you're ready for the idea... no more making out before sex, what I try. But if you still need to makeout to learn something, go for it I guess

2. I once saw a buddy pull a 9 60mins to a shithole town from a major metropolitan area. It changed the way i thought about things. I used to worry about a 20min drive to somewhere nice lol. From what I can tell, this best bet is going to hers. In my experience, while women are horrible at planning, they seem to be pretty good helpers if they want something.

Thats as good as ive got. Very interested in your question. Women like to have me over a lot. I even got thrown out once.

 

[mesixi9522]

Hmmm

1. If you're ready for the idea... no more making out before sex, what I try. But if you still need to makeout to learn something, go for it I guess

2. I once saw a buddy pull a 9 60mins to a shithole town from a major metropolitan area. It changed the way i thought about things. I used to worry about a 20min drive to somewhere nice lol. From what I can tell, this best bet is going to hers. In my experience, while women are horrible at planning, they seem to be pretty good helpers if they want something.

Thats as good as ive got. Very interested in your question. Women like to have me over a lot. I even got thrown out once.

Oh, yeah I should have mentioned a lot of these girls live with their parents where I'm at, big commuter campus and socioeconomically/culturally the norm.. I have a few women with their own places I'm just trying expedite/streamline the process

Regarding 1 you mean, no kissing or no making out? I'm a really good kisser and once that happens it's a lock. Plus I mean, I just like doing it.

 

[HoofHearted]

It's a lock, as in your getting laid?

Kissing, to me, is kinda like showing a card. Eventually all cards get shown (you bang), but WHEN they get shown matters.

You only get to turn the first kiss card over once. Its powerful effects are best saved for when it can launch you forward past the goal.

Do it too early and you'll probably putter out. Too much is known, and there's not enough suspense in the interaction.

Does not apply to inexperienced guys or virgins imo. Y'all need to be kissing and fingerbanging and failing for a while. If you've never thrown a touchdown, just go for 10yds so you can feel what its like to play football