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Some of you know i started daygaming for real last week, not just the one approach per month shitty thing i have been doing since November. tl;dr below
I have a daygame journal where i keep track of my approaches, dates, sticking points etc. and since i met this girl on 19/07/2020 and i started daygaming for real on 13/07/2020 (while adding previous approaches), that means it took me exactly 50-53 approaches to get my first lay from daygame. That's not bad for a beginner if you ask me. I have very good fundamentals, i am lil over 6'1 tall (186 cm), muscular (bit on the chub/bulky side tho) and a good style. I'm naturally cocky-funny and good in social situations. When i learnt about chase framing i could easily combine that with my cocky-funny abilities to great success on dates
Anyways on to the Field Report.
Me and my friend was working out together. I had seen this girl in the gym but i didn't entertain the idea of approaching her that day. I couldn't really find a super good time to approach and i didn't pay her exclusive attention compared to all the other hot girls that are in the gym. However, me and my friend gets done and we go out of the gym. I see her walking on the street opposite of the parking lot at the gym, and i say fuck it, and run off up to her. I get in front of her and she gets surprised and scream a bit haha, i ran up and jumped in front of her.
I gave her a direct opener (something like hey i know guys usually don't do this, but i saw you in the gym and i found you cute) and exchanged names. I was socially warmed up, had already did one approach on my way to the gym and me and my friend had bantered. I told her i noticed her in the gym but that there was alot of people around so i didn't make a move. Then we chatted back and forth, she said she was getting picked up, i asked her when, because i wanted to know if i had to make a quick number close or not, but she said 10 minutes so i didn't worry about it. She was on holiday from elsewhere in the country (about an hour away) to visit her grandparents who lives in my area and in the area of the gym. I asked her when she was heading home and she said Tuesday. I said when on Tuesday and she said she didn't know. I told her let's exchange numbers and we can maybe meet up before she heads home. I thought it was no big deal because otherwise one of us would just have to make the 1 hour trip, no big deal. I get her number, say i'm all sweaty and can see she's fresh from the shower so i won't hug her, clasp her and and say farewell to eachother. I couldn't see her on Monday because i already had a date there (This week i have had dates Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and another one tomorrow, Friday). I shoot her my icebreaker text "Nice to meet you! -Name". No reply
I text her Monday morning "Hey name, hope you're having a good time out in (grandparent town)! When do you bounce home to (town) tomorrow?". No reply. I go to the gym and i see her and she don't see me. I'm a bit salty and awkward to see her when she haven't replied to my text ngl. Anyways she were doing leg presses and i went up and got some paper towels next to her and approached her. I simply greeted her by the name and clasped her hand and we chatted. I asked her when she was going home tomorrow. By then i had already scheduled another date for tomorrow. She told me she was going home around 14.00 o clock and i said i had other plans tomorrow, but how was Thursday/Friday sounding. She said both were good and i said let's do Thursday at 12.00 in your town. She lives in a town with lots of museums and history, she said let's meet at the pancake place next to the museum. I said cool pancake place on Thursday at 12.00 and she said "....or friday" and i said "listen, we're gonna make a definite date. I can't drive an hour on Thursday and then get a text from you saying see you tomorrow. That doesn't work out. If you aren't there on Thursday i will vandalize the monuments and blame it on you" she laughed and said alright to Thursday. I was just teasing her. After gym i message her "See you on Thursday 12.00 o clock at (place)". She replies in the evening "Yeah sounds good
".
I didn't reply to that. I usually don't text girls between dates, i just text for logistics. She messages me on Wednesday late afternoon saying "See you tomorrow)" and i text back "See you!". Thursday, on the day of the date, she messages me an hour before the date "Hey, are we meeting at (specific place)?" and i say "Yes that sounds good". When i drive through town omw to park i see her on the sidewalk with her bike and phone out texting. I race into the parking lot, text her "Hey wait there" and then i jump out and walk fast quickly. She is walking towards me. Continued....
Lay report
We just meet eachother, hug, she park her bike on the same lot as my car and we head off to the pancake place. We chat and banter on our way there. We get in and order our stuff. The cashier made the order in one price and the girl said "hey could you split that" and so we basically went dutch, which i think i will do from now on unless i know for sure the girl is broke, i'm a poor 19-20 year old myself lol, only fair thing. I was just silent and she payed first and then i payed after. We went outside on a round table/bench thing and i noticed she plunked down a fair distance from me. I simply noted it and that i would have to escalate in that department later. We got out pancakes and started eating. The conversation ran flawlessly and i could tell she was really nervous because she was tearing up one of her napkins and she dropped her knife. I was just totally chill the whole time, it is good if girls are nervous on a date and you can just be chill and calm them down, because then you will anchor feelings of comfort and safety to yourself and she will chill out around you. I finished up my pancake but she couldn't eat so much so she said i could have some, and i used it as an opportunity to move closer. I sat next to her and we ate her pancake together. Then we finished up and walked to the top of this hill.
It was an amazing seduction location. We lied down in the grass together and chilled and vibed, and she kept plucking grass up and throwing it cuz she was nervous, but i was super chilled out and cool and had amazing eye contact and slow and deep voice etc. Things escalated more and more together. I started picking pieces of grass off her hair, arms, chest, lap, thighs etc. Good kino. We started moving closer and closer, she pulled back sometimes, whenever i was gonna tell some story i said "move closer and i will tell you". Then i starked caressing her, she started laying her head on my shoulder and i held her and we vibed really well. We lied there for a loooong time, it was super amazing. I start caressing her arms, then hair, then thighs, then arms, then thighs, then hair, then breasts, then arms, then butt etc. Kept moving back and forth between "safe" places (arms, shoulders, hair) and "risky" places (thighs, breasts, ass). I got it from @Teevster in some GC article about going back and forth between safe and risky areas to fractionate. I tried kissing her but she got really shy, tho we were vibing hard with mutual caressing. She started grabbing my shirt and stroking my arm and stuff, and while i caressed her i told her stuff like "You are enjoying this" and she would go "hmhm... hihi...yeah..." and then i would tell some story and then i would say "But i'm not like that, you feel safe and calm around me" and she would go "hmhm.... yeah...." again (NLP?) Most kissing i got in was on cheek and forehead, i was really persistent. I could tell she wanted to, but she got extremely shy and would turn her head (she's 17)
We got up eventually, but i knew it was game on from that moment. When we walked down the hill i grabbed her hand and touched her butt. We walked to the museum and got inside and walked around. I would hold her hand, then i would let go and walk for a bit and then she would grab my hands again. I knew it was super game on as she was starting to initiate physical contact by herself and she was super comfortable around me. When we paused to look at something i would take my arm around her waist and brush her ass, grab her hand and keep walking, drop her hand, have her re-initiate and so on. When we sat down i made her sit on my lap. We got to the roof and we walked around and enjoyed the view. As i could see it was only us on the roof i pulled her to a corner behind the roof entrance where no one could see us and then i kissed her. It was only a few pecks on the lips because she was shy, but she would just grab my hoodie and pull herself in and rest her head on my chest and i would just hold her and stroke her face and hair. She was getting really touchy. Personally i try and steer clear of too much hand-holding, it is very boyfriendly thing to do, but since she was the one initiating it most of the time i just let her. We went for a walk around a church and sat down on a bench. I made her sit on my crotch in the way that you spread your legs and then closes her legs and like sits down. It turns me on like crazy because chick's asses look amazing when they do that. I had a hard on and while she sat on my lap i would pump my erection, i knew she could feel it because she went "mmmmm..." when i did it. We started walking again and as i had seeded something about funny videos and shows earlier in the conversation i told her "Hey we should go home and check those funny videos out" and she said "hmmm yeah, but my mom is home..." and i said "You think she will mind us watching funny videos" and she went "haha no, okay. But let's take your car there" which was fine with me.
We drive to her place and get off. We get inside the house and i can't hear her mom. We walk straight into her room and i make some observations. She get her laptop and we sit down in bed next to eachother with blankets over us. I have my arm around her and caress her hair and face and arms and breasts while her head is on my chest. She liked the videos. They were maybe 3 minutes long and we watched like 3 or 4 of them. Then i just closed the laptop down and said let's chill. We were cuddling and we started caressing more and more. More and more clothing came off... I started kissing her, she had no issue kissing now. The curtains weren't drawn, so i jumped up and closed them and then got back in bed. We french kissed... kissed her neck... licked her nipples... She asked if i had a condom when we were naked but that was messy. Thing is i'm sexually inexperienced and i have a hard time getting pleasure from anything but my hands. Too much porn and masturbation. I have been working hard and am working hard to heal in this department, but it will take time to rewire to sex. So i took condom off and said i will just pull out. She asked if i had STDs and i said no and she asked are you sure and i said yeah. I sucked my fingers and rubbed her pussy and fingered her for a bit. Then i pushed my cock inside. I have a really big penis and she was quite tight so you can imagine that haha. My cock was half limb while i fucked her. She came while i penetrated her. I kept saying to her "Good girl" "Cum on my cock little girl" and "you like my cock" and stuff, she was really turned on. She came before me and i came by jerking off while she stroked my legs and licked my penis. I told her "now" when i was cumming and she sucked my cock while i came in her mouth. It felt fucking amazing. I came a shitton. I kissed her and we cuddled next to eachother. I asked her if she came and she said yeah, and i asked "You aren't just saying that right?" and she said "No i definitely came" and from how she grabbed me and moaned while i rammed her in missionary i'm quite sure she did. I realized it was a bit beta to double ask if she came but oh well. She said her aunt was coming in 15 minutes, so we cuddled for 5 minutes and had a quick chat. I told her she was really good and that she looked insanely cute. I got dressed, spanked her butt and kissed her goodbye and said i would shoot her a text. She said she would get a quick shower before her aunt came. When i came out there was still no mom in sight. I walked to my car and raced off.
Tl;dr
Meet girl outside gym, got number, set up date for later in the week, meet up an hour away, have pancakes, vibe on the hill, kiss on the rooftop, drive home to her, have sex
This girl was really pretty and very bubbly. She was really my type personalitywise as well and had a great body with big ass, big tits with big areolas and naturally innocent beautiful face. Short.
I won't get exclusive yet. I'm just getting started daygaming and dating for real and i know i will do better and better and get better and better girls, but this girl is very good. I would say an 8-8.5/10 maybe. Would love to have a fuckbuddy/fwb relationship with her, but time will tell. What i did really well on the date was kino escalate. This has been my focus for dates and it is powerful and has great effect. Enjoy!
Some of you know i started daygaming for real last week, not just the one approach per month shitty thing i have been doing since November. tl;dr below
I have a daygame journal where i keep track of my approaches, dates, sticking points etc. and since i met this girl on 19/07/2020 and i started daygaming for real on 13/07/2020 (while adding previous approaches), that means it took me exactly 50-53 approaches to get my first lay from daygame. That's not bad for a beginner if you ask me. I have very good fundamentals, i am lil over 6'1 tall (186 cm), muscular (bit on the chub/bulky side tho) and a good style. I'm naturally cocky-funny and good in social situations. When i learnt about chase framing i could easily combine that with my cocky-funny abilities to great success on dates
Anyways on to the Field Report.
Me and my friend was working out together. I had seen this girl in the gym but i didn't entertain the idea of approaching her that day. I couldn't really find a super good time to approach and i didn't pay her exclusive attention compared to all the other hot girls that are in the gym. However, me and my friend gets done and we go out of the gym. I see her walking on the street opposite of the parking lot at the gym, and i say fuck it, and run off up to her. I get in front of her and she gets surprised and scream a bit haha, i ran up and jumped in front of her.
I gave her a direct opener (something like hey i know guys usually don't do this, but i saw you in the gym and i found you cute) and exchanged names. I was socially warmed up, had already did one approach on my way to the gym and me and my friend had bantered. I told her i noticed her in the gym but that there was alot of people around so i didn't make a move. Then we chatted back and forth, she said she was getting picked up, i asked her when, because i wanted to know if i had to make a quick number close or not, but she said 10 minutes so i didn't worry about it. She was on holiday from elsewhere in the country (about an hour away) to visit her grandparents who lives in my area and in the area of the gym. I asked her when she was heading home and she said Tuesday. I said when on Tuesday and she said she didn't know. I told her let's exchange numbers and we can maybe meet up before she heads home. I thought it was no big deal because otherwise one of us would just have to make the 1 hour trip, no big deal. I get her number, say i'm all sweaty and can see she's fresh from the shower so i won't hug her, clasp her and and say farewell to eachother. I couldn't see her on Monday because i already had a date there (This week i have had dates Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and another one tomorrow, Friday). I shoot her my icebreaker text "Nice to meet you! -Name". No reply
I text her Monday morning "Hey name, hope you're having a good time out in (grandparent town)! When do you bounce home to (town) tomorrow?". No reply. I go to the gym and i see her and she don't see me. I'm a bit salty and awkward to see her when she haven't replied to my text ngl. Anyways she were doing leg presses and i went up and got some paper towels next to her and approached her. I simply greeted her by the name and clasped her hand and we chatted. I asked her when she was going home tomorrow. By then i had already scheduled another date for tomorrow. She told me she was going home around 14.00 o clock and i said i had other plans tomorrow, but how was Thursday/Friday sounding. She said both were good and i said let's do Thursday at 12.00 in your town. She lives in a town with lots of museums and history, she said let's meet at the pancake place next to the museum. I said cool pancake place on Thursday at 12.00 and she said "....or friday" and i said "listen, we're gonna make a definite date. I can't drive an hour on Thursday and then get a text from you saying see you tomorrow. That doesn't work out. If you aren't there on Thursday i will vandalize the monuments and blame it on you" she laughed and said alright to Thursday. I was just teasing her. After gym i message her "See you on Thursday 12.00 o clock at (place)". She replies in the evening "Yeah sounds good
".I didn't reply to that. I usually don't text girls between dates, i just text for logistics. She messages me on Wednesday late afternoon saying "See you tomorrow
)" and i text back "See you!". Thursday, on the day of the date, she messages me an hour before the date "Hey, are we meeting at (specific place)?" and i say "Yes that sounds good". When i drive through town omw to park i see her on the sidewalk with her bike and phone out texting. I race into the parking lot, text her "Hey wait there" and then i jump out and walk fast quickly. She is walking towards me. Continued....Lay report
We just meet eachother, hug, she park her bike on the same lot as my car and we head off to the pancake place. We chat and banter on our way there. We get in and order our stuff. The cashier made the order in one price and the girl said "hey could you split that" and so we basically went dutch, which i think i will do from now on unless i know for sure the girl is broke, i'm a poor 19-20 year old myself lol, only fair thing. I was just silent and she payed first and then i payed after. We went outside on a round table/bench thing and i noticed she plunked down a fair distance from me. I simply noted it and that i would have to escalate in that department later. We got out pancakes and started eating. The conversation ran flawlessly and i could tell she was really nervous because she was tearing up one of her napkins and she dropped her knife. I was just totally chill the whole time, it is good if girls are nervous on a date and you can just be chill and calm them down, because then you will anchor feelings of comfort and safety to yourself and she will chill out around you. I finished up my pancake but she couldn't eat so much so she said i could have some, and i used it as an opportunity to move closer. I sat next to her and we ate her pancake together. Then we finished up and walked to the top of this hill.
It was an amazing seduction location. We lied down in the grass together and chilled and vibed, and she kept plucking grass up and throwing it cuz she was nervous, but i was super chilled out and cool and had amazing eye contact and slow and deep voice etc. Things escalated more and more together. I started picking pieces of grass off her hair, arms, chest, lap, thighs etc. Good kino. We started moving closer and closer, she pulled back sometimes, whenever i was gonna tell some story i said "move closer and i will tell you". Then i starked caressing her, she started laying her head on my shoulder and i held her and we vibed really well. We lied there for a loooong time, it was super amazing. I start caressing her arms, then hair, then thighs, then arms, then thighs, then hair, then breasts, then arms, then butt etc. Kept moving back and forth between "safe" places (arms, shoulders, hair) and "risky" places (thighs, breasts, ass). I got it from @Teevster in some GC article about going back and forth between safe and risky areas to fractionate. I tried kissing her but she got really shy, tho we were vibing hard with mutual caressing. She started grabbing my shirt and stroking my arm and stuff, and while i caressed her i told her stuff like "You are enjoying this" and she would go "hmhm... hihi...yeah..." and then i would tell some story and then i would say "But i'm not like that, you feel safe and calm around me" and she would go "hmhm.... yeah...." again (NLP?) Most kissing i got in was on cheek and forehead, i was really persistent. I could tell she wanted to, but she got extremely shy and would turn her head (she's 17)
We got up eventually, but i knew it was game on from that moment. When we walked down the hill i grabbed her hand and touched her butt. We walked to the museum and got inside and walked around. I would hold her hand, then i would let go and walk for a bit and then she would grab my hands again. I knew it was super game on as she was starting to initiate physical contact by herself and she was super comfortable around me. When we paused to look at something i would take my arm around her waist and brush her ass, grab her hand and keep walking, drop her hand, have her re-initiate and so on. When we sat down i made her sit on my lap. We got to the roof and we walked around and enjoyed the view. As i could see it was only us on the roof i pulled her to a corner behind the roof entrance where no one could see us and then i kissed her. It was only a few pecks on the lips because she was shy, but she would just grab my hoodie and pull herself in and rest her head on my chest and i would just hold her and stroke her face and hair. She was getting really touchy. Personally i try and steer clear of too much hand-holding, it is very boyfriendly thing to do, but since she was the one initiating it most of the time i just let her. We went for a walk around a church and sat down on a bench. I made her sit on my crotch in the way that you spread your legs and then closes her legs and like sits down. It turns me on like crazy because chick's asses look amazing when they do that. I had a hard on and while she sat on my lap i would pump my erection, i knew she could feel it because she went "mmmmm..." when i did it. We started walking again and as i had seeded something about funny videos and shows earlier in the conversation i told her "Hey we should go home and check those funny videos out" and she said "hmmm yeah, but my mom is home..." and i said "You think she will mind us watching funny videos" and she went "haha no, okay. But let's take your car there" which was fine with me.
We drive to her place and get off. We get inside the house and i can't hear her mom. We walk straight into her room and i make some observations. She get her laptop and we sit down in bed next to eachother with blankets over us. I have my arm around her and caress her hair and face and arms and breasts while her head is on my chest. She liked the videos. They were maybe 3 minutes long and we watched like 3 or 4 of them. Then i just closed the laptop down and said let's chill. We were cuddling and we started caressing more and more. More and more clothing came off... I started kissing her, she had no issue kissing now. The curtains weren't drawn, so i jumped up and closed them and then got back in bed. We french kissed... kissed her neck... licked her nipples... She asked if i had a condom when we were naked but that was messy. Thing is i'm sexually inexperienced and i have a hard time getting pleasure from anything but my hands. Too much porn and masturbation. I have been working hard and am working hard to heal in this department, but it will take time to rewire to sex. So i took condom off and said i will just pull out. She asked if i had STDs and i said no and she asked are you sure and i said yeah. I sucked my fingers and rubbed her pussy and fingered her for a bit. Then i pushed my cock inside. I have a really big penis and she was quite tight so you can imagine that haha. My cock was half limb while i fucked her. She came while i penetrated her. I kept saying to her "Good girl" "Cum on my cock little girl" and "you like my cock" and stuff, she was really turned on. She came before me and i came by jerking off while she stroked my legs and licked my penis. I told her "now" when i was cumming and she sucked my cock while i came in her mouth. It felt fucking amazing. I came a shitton. I kissed her and we cuddled next to eachother. I asked her if she came and she said yeah, and i asked "You aren't just saying that right?" and she said "No i definitely came" and from how she grabbed me and moaned while i rammed her in missionary i'm quite sure she did. I realized it was a bit beta to double ask if she came but oh well. She said her aunt was coming in 15 minutes, so we cuddled for 5 minutes and had a quick chat. I told her she was really good and that she looked insanely cute. I got dressed, spanked her butt and kissed her goodbye and said i would shoot her a text. She said she would get a quick shower before her aunt came. When i came out there was still no mom in sight. I walked to my car and raced off.
Tl;dr
Meet girl outside gym, got number, set up date for later in the week, meet up an hour away, have pancakes, vibe on the hill, kiss on the rooftop, drive home to her, have sex
This girl was really pretty and very bubbly. She was really my type personalitywise as well and had a great body with big ass, big tits with big areolas and naturally innocent beautiful face. Short.
I won't get exclusive yet. I'm just getting started daygaming and dating for real and i know i will do better and better and get better and better girls, but this girl is very good. I would say an 8-8.5/10 maybe. Would love to have a fuckbuddy/fwb relationship with her, but time will tell. What i did really well on the date was kino escalate. This has been my focus for dates and it is powerful and has great effect. Enjoy!
