LR First LR since getting back into day game

[alexlaguma]

This is a pretty straightforward one. I basically tried to throw myself back into daygame a few weeks back. I was planning on doing 5 approaches a day on days where I could carve out some time. This hasn't quite worked out because of so much going on in my personal life (trips abroad, weddings, birthdays etc) so I haven't approached enough.

But nevertheless - when I have approached its been generally pretty successful. I have saved notes in my phone about all the approaches I managed to do, so I have the numbers somewhere. I think it was something like 15 approaches and 6 numbers, so not bad. I'm usually getting a number from 1/3 girls I approach.

Converting them to dates hasn't been easy but honestly a lot of that has been down to my availability. And actually one girl said the age gap was too much (appreciate any advice on how to handle this - I am mid-30s she was mid-20s).

Anyway - back to the actual LR. I talk about this approach in my last field report. Was basically at a morning running event - saw a girl there before the run, thought she looked super hot. Didn't approach as I felt awkward, but after the run I saw her again. At this point I had endorphins flowing and didn't really have any excuse not to - so I went for it. Pretty straight forward, got the number.

Bit of back and forth texting, I suggested a drink. She was up for it. We went for it on the Monday eve. She was a bit younger than me and new to the city. Kinda looked a bit different than I expected (when not in running gear) but still hot. Good first day, I pushed to come back to mine but she said 'not tonight' kinda thing. But she was on the fence for sure.

Anyway second date was pretty straight forward. I had to be up early for a flight the next day so I couldn't stay out too late, had a few drinks before I dropped the "wanna come back to mine" and I had set the date up not too far from my place, so it was straight forward.

Had good sex - I've been re-reading Daniel Rose book and using some of that. Also been working on how to last longer (has been an issue of mine for a while). But all good this time.

Anyway - it was good because it showed me that day game can be really successful, if you just push through with approaches. This is important for me because my opportunities for night game are basically gone - all my buddies are wifed up and I have nobody to go out with consistently. So day game is good for me (also allows me to keep evenings free for actual social things with couples etc).

But yeh - happy with that. Potential FB relationship type. But I know I want to get a bunch more approaches in this week and see where they lead.

 

[Chubadoo]

Converting them to dates hasn't been easy but honestly a lot of that has been down to my availability. And actually one girl said the age gap was too much (appreciate any advice on how to handle this - I am mid-30s she was mid-20s).

Last year I was at a carnaval, at night, where it's a huge party and everyone's super cheerful and kinda drunk, I approach this cute girl who was wandering around with her friend and while chit-chatting she asks me my age, I was 26, she was like 19, next thing she tells me is
"Aww what am I gonna do with you (as in you're too old)" which made me freeze, I didn't find anything to counter it with and she just left (her friend was pulling her by the hand)

Best bet is to drop some innuendo like:
" What, am I too 'big' for you to handle?" (makes more sense in my language as big and old can be synonyms)
Haven't tried it yet I don't think and dunno if it works. Maybe someone else can enlighten us

 

[alexlaguma]

Last year I was at a carnaval, at night, where it's a huge party and everyone's super cheerful and kinda drunk, I approach this cute girl who was wandering around with her friend and while chit-chatting she asks me my age, I was 26, she was like 19, next thing she tells me is
"Aww what am I gonna do with you (as in you're too old)" which made me freeze, I didn't find anything to counter it with and she just left (her friend was pulling her by the hand)

Best bet is to drop some innuendo like:
" What, am I too 'big' for you to handle?" (makes more sense in my language as big and old can be synonyms)
Haven't tried it yet I don't think and dunno if it works. Maybe someone else can enlighten us

Yes bro. I asked this question on another thread and I got linked to a post which gave a really good breakdown of how to deal with this. I can't remember the name of the guy who posted it !!

But he gave 2 different ways of dealing with it. The best option is to say "OK ... I usually date girls who are xx" and always add a couple of years onto the age of the girl you are talking to. This way it makes them start to qualify themselves (because they are a little younger than the age bracket you usually go for).

I have kind of half tested this in the field recently and it works pretty well. I've actually just come back from a date with a girl 10 years younger who responded very positively to this.

 

[Nook]

This is a pretty straightforward one. I basically tried to throw myself back into daygame a few weeks back. I was planning on doing 5 approaches a day on days where I could carve out some time. This hasn't quite worked out because of so much going on in my personal life (trips abroad, weddings, birthdays etc) so I haven't approached enough.

But nevertheless - when I have approached its been generally pretty successful. I have saved notes in my phone about all the approaches I managed to do, so I have the numbers somewhere. I think it was something like 15 approaches and 6 numbers, so not bad. I'm usually getting a number from 1/3 girls I approach.

Converting them to dates hasn't been easy but honestly a lot of that has been down to my availability. And actually one girl said the age gap was too much (appreciate any advice on how to handle this - I am mid-30s she was mid-20s).

Anyway - back to the actual LR. I talk about this approach in my last field report. Was basically at a morning running event - saw a girl there before the run, thought she looked super hot. Didn't approach as I felt awkward, but after the run I saw her again. At this point I had endorphins flowing and didn't really have any excuse not to - so I went for it. Pretty straight forward, got the number.

Bit of back and forth texting, I suggested a drink. She was up for it. We went for it on the Monday eve. She was a bit younger than me and new to the city. Kinda looked a bit different than I expected (when not in running gear) but still hot. Good first day, I pushed to come back to mine but she said 'not tonight' kinda thing. But she was on the fence for sure.

Anyway second date was pretty straight forward. I had to be up early for a flight the next day so I couldn't stay out too late, had a few drinks before I dropped the "wanna come back to mine" and I had set the date up not too far from my place, so it was straight forward.

Had good sex - I've been re-reading Daniel Rose book and using some of that. Also been working on how to last longer (has been an issue of mine for a while). But all good this time.

Anyway - it was good because it showed me that day game can be really successful, if you just push through with approaches. This is important for me because my opportunities for night game are basically gone - all my buddies are wifed up and I have nobody to go out with consistently. So day game is good for me (also allows me to keep evenings free for actual social things with couples etc).

But yeh - happy with that. Potential FB relationship type. But I know I want to get a bunch more approaches in this week and see where they lead.

Nice LR, as for the premature ejaculation learned from Stirling Cooper (Ex-Pstar) that it comes from guys who have a habit of masturbating and finishing as quickly as possible. It trains the body to cum quickly, best way around it is ironically masturbation. ( one of the few times masturbation will be recommended as a remedy to a problem) Edging is the way to fix it, bringing yourself close to orgasm and stopping before you cum will train your body to last longer during sex. From personal experience it works and doesn't take long to notice at all. Will notice it immediately with your first lay after trying it.