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[Thedoctor]

Hey I'm new here and I apologize if this has been responded to though I couldn't find anything addressing this specific issue. I am attempting to meet women in EVERY way that I can both in person and online. Although I realize online is a bit more tedious and requires more work, it's still another approach I'd like to utilize and get better at. My question is this:

Is it better to try and go for a meet as soon as possible, or are girls online more likely to respond to deep diving and conversation via messaging prior to the meet?

I've been attempting the meet as soon as possible with somewhat limited success on that avenue.

 

[Novacane]

Get off the computer, walk outside and say hi to the next woman that catches your eye. The quickest way to meet woman is to go on about daily life they are everywhere, don't set high expectations start off small by getting a number or 2 and working your way up, the internet has its pros but also has its cons as you aren't likely to be the only person messaging said person and tone is hard to communicate through messages. In person however a woman will know what it is you seek and if your fundamentals are down you may surprise yourself with a lay. All the best.

 

[Light]

It depends how you met them.

If you had actually met them from somewhere, then the ideal time to ask them out would be when you're asking for the number:

You: "You know I had a great time with you, how about we go grab some lunch together sometime?"
Girl: "Yea sure!"
You" Great, let me take down your digits."

Hence you've already set up a date, and now you're aiming to meet them again asap.

If you met them randomly online however, that is a different story..
You will need to build some rapport with them, and have a bit more interraction online, get them comfortable with you before setting up a date.
Since they don't really know who you are yet.

But the answer to your questions is "Yes, meet them as soon as possible"

 

[Thedoctor]

I am definitely meeting in person too so no worries there. Just wanna expand my horizons and taking a crash course on being social in general. Thanks for the tips!