LR First SDL from Day Game

[Roundy]

Hi all!

This one was one of my more meaningful lays, as it is something I never did before (and therefore wasn't sure if was possible). I've been trying to crack day game for a fair while but always felt a bit intimidated approaching women on the street. I've been making myself approach more but had some negative momentum going as every time I would approach I would get hit almost instantly with a remark about their boyfriend or partner. Until two days ago.

I'd just been watching Hector's video about how to do a street stop so I was feeling motivated to and try some of the techniques. I went into the city as I had some errands to run anyway and it's the middle of summer. There are always gorgeous, scantily clad women around here so plenty of opportunities. I walked around doing my tasks and letting some women pass me by so it was making me a bit angry with myself. After a while I was sitting on a bench on my phone googling where to find some good thongs for summer (if anyone has any recommendations for a sexy pair of flip flops - let me know!) and I saw a very tanned brunette across the path with glasses, wearing a black singlet and short shorts. I thought she looked super sexy. I was planning to go approach when she actually came and sat down next to me. The other person who was on the bench got up and left so it was the perfect easy moment to open. I just said "what are you up to today?' over my shoulder, and she was very receptive. We chatted about what both of us were doing, I discovered that she was French and told her I was looking for a pair of thongs and she basically said "ok let's go and look!". She was making it easy for me.

We walked around shopping for a while, getting some playful flirty conversation going about how thongs are good for keeping the girls away and I was beginning to escalate touch with some small incidental touch. After a while I told her "seeing as we're both having a day off, we should keep enjoying each other's company". We decided to go for a swim in this fake beach that's in the middle of the city. We walk to her hostel so she can get her bikini. I go into her room and consider making a move there but there's about ten beds in there and I think it may ruin things. Besides the beach is close to my house and I have a plan of how things will go down. She says she has to change into her bikini and I say "can I watch?". She loves it and there is a pregnant pause, so I kiss her a bit.

We head over to the beach, overlooking the river that runs through the city. It's a really beautiful spot and not too crowded. I take her in the water and we talk a lot and I carry her around the water, kissing her deeply. After a while I suggest that I buy a bottle of wine. She happily agrees. We walk toward the bottle shop (on the way towards my place) and grab some ciders and walk to my place. When we arrive I tell her that her towel is wet but she should take a shower because she's covered in chlorine. She will have to use my towel though. I tell her I need a shower too and she says "you want to join me?". She was just making it easy for me.

We get in the shower together and she starts stroking my cock. Its a cold shower and we actually are both covered in chlorine and need to wash so after a few minutes I say "meet me in my bedroom." She does exactly that and we have a few rounds of animalistic sex. I mean I was growling the way Hector suggests and choking her, and she was literally laughing from joy.

Afterwards, she tells me that she likes how freely I compliment her. I say "life is too short not to tell someone if you find something good in them." She replies by saying "Ohh.. your personality, your eyes, your penis...".

So this was a super easy, natural pull that motivates me no end to improve my ability to do street stops. Asymmetric returns, indeed.


Roundy

 

[Fuck This]

Sometimes it is all about letting it happen and not getting in your own way. Looking back at my most rewarding SDL's that seems to be the recurring theme. Anytime I have had to push the interaction it has been less than rewarding.

Remember, if their bra and panties match, it wasn't you who decided to have sex.

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

I'd just been watching Hector's video about how to do a street stop so I was feeling motivated to and try some of the techniques.

my phone googling where to find some good thongs for summer (if anyone has any recommendations for a sexy pair of flip flops - let me know!)

At first I was like "wait....for one of your girls, right?" Then I realized you must be European. In America, "thongs" applies exclusively to women's underwear (at least everyone I've been back home) xD

We walked around shopping for a while, getting some playful flirty conversation going about how thongs are good for keeping the girls away

Okay, I'm laughing now. Can't get the image of you talking about how sexy lingerie keeps girls away xD Stupid, but funny.

When we arrive I tell her that her towel is wet but she should take a shower because she's covered in chlorine. She will have to use my towel though. I tell her I need a shower too and she says "you want to join me?". She was just making it easy for me.

I mean, you did tell her to shower. And she's DTF, so she's feeding off of your signals Man, this is good shit.

We get in the shower together and she starts stroking my cock. Its a cold shower and we actually are both covered in chlorine and need to wash so after a few minutes I say "meet me in my bedroom." She does exactly that and we have a few rounds of animalistic sex. I mean I was growling the way Hector suggests and choking her, and she was literally laughing from joy.

YES, MAN.

Afterwards, she tells me that she likes how freely I compliment her. I say "life is too short not to tell someone if you find something good in them." She replies by saying "Ohh.. your personality, your eyes, your penis...".

Beautiful reply.

And her words are music to the ears.

Well done.

How many approaches are you doing per lay? You sound like you got your process down pat. All you need to do increase frequency and you'll get a shit-ton of lays very quickly. And your process will become more efficient.

I have no comments on your game; it's great. Just increase inflow of potential pussy and you should be clearing up.

Hector

 

[Roundy]

At first I was like "wait....for one of your girls, right?" Then I realized you must be European. In America, "thongs" applies exclusively to women's underwear (at least everyone I've been back home) xD

Yeah its an Australian thing too, I actually made a lot of jokes about this with the girl, asking if I should help her buy a thong. A lot of fun with that innuendo

YES, MAN.

That was such a gold piece of advice Papi. Girls are entranced by that kind of animal sexuality, I've been with some very conservative women who turned to raging whores as soon as I was growling in their ear and burying their face in the pillow.

How many approaches are you doing per lay? You sound like you got your process down pat. All you need to do increase frequency and you'll get a shit-ton of lays very quickly. And your process will become more efficient.

I have no comments on your game; it's great. Just increase inflow of potential pussy and you should be clearing up.

Hector

This is a big sticking point I must say. I have confidence that my process works well, but I really have to get more comfortable doing daytime approaches. I used to do a lot of night game and was being really ballsy with women, the trouble is I think if you get used that it can be hard to adjust to street game where its so outside of the social expectation. That's what separates the men from the boys though.

It's awesome to read your reply too man, been watching your videos for ages and its some badass shit!

 

[Roundy]

Sometimes it is all about letting it happen and not getting in your own way. Looking back at my most rewarding SDL's that seems to be the recurring theme. Anytime I have had to push the interaction it has been less than rewarding.

Remember, if their bra and panties match, it wasn't you who decided to have sex.

This. You know things are going right when you're both collaborating to create a sexual situation. Sometimes seduction is about being a facilitator, letting her be the girl who goes home with a stranger to fuck him silly.

 

[Watts]

This is a big sticking point I must say. I have confidence that my process works well, but I really have to get more comfortable doing daytime approaches. I used to do a lot of night game and was being really ballsy with women, the trouble is I think if you get used that it can be hard to adjust to street game where its so outside of the social expectation. That's what separates the men from the boys though.

One thing I noticed is just different speeds. So I'm primarily someone who does night game, but when I've gone to festivals or done straight up daygame, I get in the habit of approaching immediately or even chasing girls down (not in a bad way!). But what I noticed is when I went out to night game, especially if I was doing night game after a concert or daygame, I'd invariably be in this "run over and say hi" mode, which was definitely not appropriate or necessary for night game. (also speaks to how you need to be more aggressive and more willing to overcome social pressure in daygame where it's not as normal or expected to approach women)

Essentially, while the two of us were in a venue where I could more or less reasonably expect her to stick around (unless I could see she was leaving), I was treating it like if I didn't talk to her right then and there I'd lose her in the crowd.

Different situations, different gears. I'm sure if you keep doing both you'll learn how to adjust.

And as a stock line to alleviate social pressure in daygame, I like "I'd be kicking myself all day if I didn't come over and say something. You have a great look." More or less straight from the London Daygame Model (LDM) guys, at least that's where I got it.

Of course also, overall good work! I always feel if the girl is being nice, you can be nicer! No reason not to engage in mutual appreciation if it's there. I also don't mind being the first to verbalize something I like about her, and actually actively try to find something I like about her, to qualify her, to get the ball rolling.