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Don Giovanni

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hey guys,

this one happed on Thursday and I take pride in it being 100% sober and getting it through from start till finnish. My momentum is also getting bigger.

A friend came to Budapest, to crash at my place and later catch a flight to another country. Naturally we went to a bar.

I was dressed in converse platforms, black skinny jeans, grey sweater, a brown leather jacket with cool texture to it and a black beannie.

First bar we had one shot (all the alcohol I had that night) and then talked to some girls outside smoking. I opened 2 different 2 sets situational, both could be potential leads, but after talking to them for a while we decided to go to another bar.

We sat behind the bar and talked to the bartender. Him and my friend got allomg too well and did a couple more shots and glasses of beer, while I drank water and spoke a word here and there with people who were passing by ordering drinks. Then bartenders 19yo sister joined us or better way to put it started lingering around us. This is the girl of this report.

I wasn’t attracted to her at first, she was wearing a big coat and pretty much couldn’t guess if she was chubby or not (turns out she just has big boobs). But she kept hanging around and naturally I talked to her also. We were switching between smoking outside and hanging at the bar.

At first I was thinking about opening other girls, but later realized that she’s not that bad and is in fact fuckable. The problem with her was that although she understood english and knew how to speak a word or two, wasn’t fluent in it. So I was more consicouss of her body language and her positiong rather then verbal game. Good thing I was practicing this stuff and was paying attention to it before.

Used body rocking to get closer to her, played a game with palms, then the old “take my hand, spin, then hugg her” pua trick, playing a game of not blinkink to build on eye contact and stuff like that for escalating. Almost none verbal stuff. While escalating this process I noticed her getting closer to me, eventualy touching shoulders. When we were looking into each others eyes at one point I leaned in and went for the kiss, but she moved back. I played it cool “haha I guess I misread the situation, just wanted to give you a small kiss on the cheek”. But after this faux pass she got even closer to me and after a while put her hand on my back. We had moments of this contrasted with normal talk with the whole group. It escalated to me kissing her neck and telling her that I know she’s horny at the peak.

Meanwhile my friend managed to get completly fucked up. To the point he had problems walking and talking. He started smashing glasses, he even smashed his phone, being insultive to people… Fortunately nobody takes this kind of drunk behaviour seriously. He got thrown ot from the bar and was insisting he wants to wait for this chick from tinder he was texting before getting to Budapest.

We were in front of the bar and I had to take care of him every now and then. Even my girl asked me one time if I’m his babysitter. I took that as a sign. We were talking about taking care of him, getting him to my place but he insisted on keeping on partying and getting to the tinder girls place. Eventually this tinder girl came and we seriously started deciding about this with this girl.

So he wanted we all continue drinking at his tinder girls place and my girl was asking me if we’re all going to my place (obvious sign at this point). Eventually I talked to that tinder girl and she said she will take care of him (very very nice of her) and that I should go home with my girl (this solidified everything, if a girl tells me that, then it must be officiall obvious).

At this time I was just waiting for conversation and vibe to transition from the group talk to me and my girl naturally. Then I said to her that we should get a drink on the way since I’m broke and continue this at my place. She agreed and we said goodbye.

We went to my place with metro, she bought the drinks but in the mean time we didn’t really talk much. Mostly riding to my place quietly, looking at eachother here and there.

Pretty much straight forward at my place, no LMR. I was very conscious about escalating and backing off (fractionating) though.

The wierd thing to me was her sex drive. I fucked her for 45min straight/ whole Some Girls album which was playing in the background. I was completely out of jam at that point and exused myself being tired and needing a break. Hit the shower and in the mean time she got dressed and tried to sneak out. I politely opened the door for her, hugged her, asked “do I have your contact info” she shook her head I said “do you want to exchange it” shook ger head again I jus said “cool” and let her go.

So why such wierd behaviour after I was done fucking her? She was shaking and moaning loud, speaking hungarian so she must’ve enjoyed it. Besides I doubt any other 19yo guy from her social circle can fuck her for 45min straight. Any ideas guys? I was talking to my friend about it later and she said that it’s possible I didn’t make her cum and that she was annoyed because of it but I doubt that honestly. Maybe she felt like a slut or she just wanted dick then leave. Who knows?

DG
 
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Stark

Cro-Magnon Man
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Your game is on point(seduced her, pulled home) and went to a 45 minute sex session.

As soon you came, you went straight to the bathroom. Any pillow talk in there?

Also why not go for a second round after 30 minutes?

Did you tell her that you like her/liked the sex (if you did) ?

Did you had any moments of connection/chemistry during the seduction phase?

My quick thought is she felt you wanted to bang her and vanish as soon as you rushed to the bathroom(i could be wrong)

If you made her cum, had moments of chemistry and conveyed to her to wanted to do this again- she would be down( unless there is another guy in the picture)
In which case it's not your fault. She will come back though- if that's the case(but you don't have her number)

Fuck it. Fun times and an addition to the notch belt.

Well done sober lay!
 

Don Giovanni

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Your game is on point(seduced her, pulled home) and went to a 45 minute sex session.
Thanks!

As soon you came, you went straight to the bathroom. Any pillow talk in there?
I came after 20min then contiued right after that. No pillow talk, she was as horny as I’ve seen a girl be… Tried to pillow talk her to give myself a short break but she kept pulling me back in and masturbating, so I just continued.

After that I layed beside her, drank some water then told her I’m going to get a quick shower.

Also why not go for a second round after 30 minutes?
That was my plan, but she got dressed in those 5min.

Did you tell her that you like her/liked the sex (if you did) ?
Besides telling her that she’s pretty, no. Sex was good but not amazing for me.

Did you had any moments of connection/chemistry during the seduction phase?
No connection, that’s why I didn’t care about her not wanting to keep in touch. It would be nice, but I’m just as good without it.

( unless there is another guy in the picture)
You never know.

She will come back though- if that's the case(but you don't have her number)
I realized later that I did follow her on insta when I thought I’ll had to take care of my drunk friend. She didn’t follow back.

Fuck it. Fun times and an addition to the notch belt.
My thoughts exactly.

Thank you for your thoughts!
 

Stark

Cro-Magnon Man
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I had a similar situation with a girl. In debrief a week after over texts, she said that she hooked up with me while taking a relationship break with her boyfriend. Shortly after she got back with him.

So nothing wrong that i did.

Funnily enough, a year later she texted me wanting me to replicate that intense first time we had - as she just broke up with him:)

I couldn't meet her so far(schedules not aligning) but she is in the works

Overall good work!
 
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