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EliAFutbol

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The annual fair/carnival was in town again so I called up some buddies (one was a decent natural who taught me many things before, and the other was his friend and apparently was a super good natural, a "legend", more on that later) and went out to game and hit up the rides.

A brief background about me:

I am 18 just graduated high school, but I started reading GC in grade 10 and scored myself a date within a week but ultimately failed to fuck the girl (in a stariwell at the school) and she told everyone and my reputation at my high school got ruined. I never really recovered and buried my head in my books, neglecting my social and romantic life. It got me into a really good college so now I am moving away to dorms and I wanted to be ready for it by getting as much experience as possible this summer. My parents finally let me go out alone this summer, somewhat (very strict latino parents, ugh will not miss that), so I finally had a chance to actually spend some time cold approaching and honing my skills.

Walking to the fair my two friends were talking how we are all gonna talk to bitches, get numbers, etc. All cool and all, but when we arrive I realized they were full of shit. I was dressed pretty well, blood red vneck, black shorts, white shoes, and a gold chain with a cross, it was a pretty hot summer day. There were a decent amount of hotties, so we decided to first chill out, scope out the place, and hit up some rides.

My first interaction:
There was this very hot blonde chick working a sausage/smokie stand. We walked past she didn't notice me, then I turned to my friends and told them I would approach. I went up as she was finishing serving another customer, and said:

Me: Seems like you really know how to handle meat
HB: Ohhhh noo! Here come the jokes!
Me: I bet you get those alot hey?
HB: Yeah tell me about it
Me: It's almost like most guys can't think of anything better to say
HB: Yeah, so what do you want to order?
Me: Not sure, what's your favorite?
HB: Get the honey, theyre super good

So I bought the sausage, it was pretty good! How could I have handled this differently so I could have gotten her number, etc.? I feel the interaction went well, but I feel I could have done more to create more rapport and flirt more. I'm new to this so help is needed :)

My friends were pretty impressed I actually approached her so I told them to step it up since they were talking so much shit and actually approach too. We went on some rides and a found ourselves in long line so we decided to multitask and look for some bitchezz

Behind us was an okay looking chick that I thought was average, but my friends thought was pretty cute. My two friends deliberated whether or not they should approach and they went on saying shit like "im waiting for the right moment" and "in a few more minutes". I got pissed off and turned around and said to her, "hey, are you here alone?" (because she was one of the few rare girls who looked like she was legit alone). But apprently she had her bitchwall up and I assume (not sure since I am beginner) it was because she overheard my two friends talking about talking to her and didn't notice she was right behind them. She replid in a snarky tone, "fuck off". I gave her a bored face look for about 2-3 seconds then turned around and started laughing my ass off. My other two friends ran off so I chased behing them and asked them why did you leave? They said: It was an awkward moment, I was pissed we lost our spot in the line but whatever.

They keep talking shit about how they were gonna approach and I feel I need to show them up and say I already approached two girls when the fuck are you guys gonna start? (childish and arrogant, I know haha!)

We found ourselves in another line and I see these two really attractive blonde girls walk past our line so me and one of my friends ran up to approach her but he (my naturals other friend) bitched out last second. I approached by not really grabbing, but kind of cupping one of the girls elbow and say: I think you are two of the most beautiful girls I have seen today. They quickly said thank you and kept walking away. I see my friend in the back laughing and I say to him: don't be shy! By then the girls have already kept walking (they never really stopped to talk to me) and were long gone. The guy then was giving ME shit for touching these girls like that saying it was CREEPY. I was like fuck that! You need to touch early and often. He was like not like that and gave me more shit. I told him to fuck off since he bitched out of the approach, and he said he would have if I didn''t come up CREEPY like that. Was that really creepy? She somewhat pulled her arm away, but I thought it was calibrated okay... I'd appreciate your thoughts guys!

So this wraps up my first time approaching, three cold approaches, good experience gained. The start of a long road for me. Not going out with those guys again theyre all talk and BS!

Cheers

Eli
 
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