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S_rocc

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Girl flaked on me night before lunch date. See gave her excuse and said we have to rain check it. I didn't make a big deal with it and texted her the morning after, but didn't offer a reschedule then and there. Should I have? Should I text her again tomorrow and suggest it or what?
 

Eric

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What I do these days is just say "No worries, just buy me coffee or dinner sometime :)"

She'll either try to reschedule with you and you've got a date, or she'll just say okay and not set up a date. If it's the latter then don't respond, instead disappear. She'll hit you up in either 1) a month or two, 2) six months, 3) a year
 

S_rocc

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Problem is that I sent "hey no problem. Thanks for telling me." Wasn't thinking. She and I didn't respond after that did I screw up?
 
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Eric

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Yeah, you did.

Just leave it alone and move on.

You could try to get her out again, in a week, for what it's worth. But you'll be chasing. She'll likely flake again and then you can nail her on that.

Probably a waste of time though.
 
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