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Hey guys,
Recently I posted a question in the general board regarding a flakey girl. I'm writing on my phone so I'm just gonna post here instead of rewriting the whole thing.
Background
I matched with a girl on Tinder 4-5 months ago. But then saw that she was already out of the country. I texted "fuck we missed each other!" We had a good banter afterwards and she told me she couldn't believe tinder didn't match us before. She is a beautiful Brazilian girl who is a musician and has tattoos. She told me she would come to Istanbul a second time this year. We traded numbers and we exchanged short texts maybe a couple of times during these months.
Last time I sent her a text but it was only delivered with one tick on whatsapp meaning she didn't receive my message. I deleted her number thinking she changed it.
Question
Yesterday she sent me a text out of the blue telling me she was in Istanbul and would be here for a week. We scheduled to meet up. Wish I could provide you with the convo but I deleted it to not put a lot of mental energy on the situation. The gist is she was friendly and eager to meet up. Then I sent her a will meet you at the x location, see you soon text. She replied about 15 minutes later with "sorry, can we meet up tomorrow (emberassed smile)". I said haha sure thing no worries. That's it. There was no more convo?
This happened on Wednesday. Thursday I sent her a text. Let's call her Violin.
"Hey Violin, hope you enjoyed your first night in Istanbul! When should we grab those drinks?"
She didn't reply and I wrote her off as a bad lead. Today (Friday) she sent me this:
Heey!
Sorry for delay!
I'm with some friends that's why I couldn't answer you earlier.
Well what you gonna do today? (12:31)
I answered with:
Hey! No worries lol it happens to all of us
Have some biz during the day but should be free this evening... what're your plans? (13:06)
She didn't reply for five hours.
I was almost going to auto- rejection at this point. But as Seppuku said in another report I told myself "be uber cool"
She sent me a text at 18:47:
I'm free now
I didn't wanna make her wait for 5 hours because if I did I wouldn't be able to fuck her tonight lol. So I replied 45 minutes later.
I told her to come to beşiktaş where I was. I was unwilling to go to where she was staying at that point (taksim 15-20 min by cab) even though I could fuck her at her hotel which would mean I wouldn't have to pay for a room. She told me she was already in besiktas but would go to tax in and then come back here. Here I had an option either I could meet her right then but it was still day time or tell her to do her thing and cone back. I thought if I meet her now after all this flakes it would be to much like chasing as if I were on his back and call. But if she went to taksim, true she may not have come back but if she did I would fuck her very easily. So I told her to go and cone back.
She did. We met up. But man! She was so fat lol. Fatter then the fattest girl I fucked. Okay she was not disgusting or anything so still fuckable but only barely lol. I couldn't believe I put this much mental energy to this girl haha. Anyway I figured another reference point so why not remembering chase's article regarding lowering standards. I led her to a pub. Escalated quite easily. She told me I was handsome all the time. I didn't even wait for us to finish our drinks (split the bill). Took her to a nearby hotel. Fucked her 2 times (fantasized in my head lol). Then we split. I made her feel good though complimented her body was very warm etc. No need to be dick just because she is fat.
I have mixed feelings about this lay. I hope I learned something and this lay made me one step closer to the guy I want to be.
Recently I posted a question in the general board regarding a flakey girl. I'm writing on my phone so I'm just gonna post here instead of rewriting the whole thing.
Background
I matched with a girl on Tinder 4-5 months ago. But then saw that she was already out of the country. I texted "fuck we missed each other!" We had a good banter afterwards and she told me she couldn't believe tinder didn't match us before. She is a beautiful Brazilian girl who is a musician and has tattoos. She told me she would come to Istanbul a second time this year. We traded numbers and we exchanged short texts maybe a couple of times during these months.
Last time I sent her a text but it was only delivered with one tick on whatsapp meaning she didn't receive my message. I deleted her number thinking she changed it.
Question
Yesterday she sent me a text out of the blue telling me she was in Istanbul and would be here for a week. We scheduled to meet up. Wish I could provide you with the convo but I deleted it to not put a lot of mental energy on the situation. The gist is she was friendly and eager to meet up. Then I sent her a will meet you at the x location, see you soon text. She replied about 15 minutes later with "sorry, can we meet up tomorrow (emberassed smile)". I said haha sure thing no worries. That's it. There was no more convo?
This happened on Wednesday. Thursday I sent her a text. Let's call her Violin.
"Hey Violin, hope you enjoyed your first night in Istanbul! When should we grab those drinks?"
She didn't reply and I wrote her off as a bad lead. Today (Friday) she sent me this:
Heey!
Sorry for delay!
I'm with some friends that's why I couldn't answer you earlier.
Well what you gonna do today? (12:31)
I answered with:
Hey! No worries lol it happens to all of us
Have some biz during the day but should be free this evening... what're your plans? (13:06)
She didn't reply for five hours.
I was almost going to auto- rejection at this point. But as Seppuku said in another report I told myself "be uber cool"
She sent me a text at 18:47:
I'm free now
I didn't wanna make her wait for 5 hours because if I did I wouldn't be able to fuck her tonight lol. So I replied 45 minutes later.
I told her to come to beşiktaş where I was. I was unwilling to go to where she was staying at that point (taksim 15-20 min by cab) even though I could fuck her at her hotel which would mean I wouldn't have to pay for a room. She told me she was already in besiktas but would go to tax in and then come back here. Here I had an option either I could meet her right then but it was still day time or tell her to do her thing and cone back. I thought if I meet her now after all this flakes it would be to much like chasing as if I were on his back and call. But if she went to taksim, true she may not have come back but if she did I would fuck her very easily. So I told her to go and cone back.
She did. We met up. But man! She was so fat lol. Fatter then the fattest girl I fucked. Okay she was not disgusting or anything so still fuckable but only barely lol. I couldn't believe I put this much mental energy to this girl haha. Anyway I figured another reference point so why not remembering chase's article regarding lowering standards. I led her to a pub. Escalated quite easily. She told me I was handsome all the time. I didn't even wait for us to finish our drinks (split the bill). Took her to a nearby hotel. Fucked her 2 times (fantasized in my head lol). Then we split. I made her feel good though complimented her body was very warm etc. No need to be dick just because she is fat.
I have mixed feelings about this lay. I hope I learned something and this lay made me one step closer to the guy I want to be.
