FR Flirty Vibe w Peruvian Bibliophile

[foggy]

Goal for this session: work on attraction signals>flirt cultures flow [this flow will eventually go at the start of the isolation phase]

I’m walking around after 8PM in the main plaza in Cusco…

…and I open a Peruvian girl sitting on a bench with her dog. Lock in, take some time to build a bit of rapport with her….feel that familiar feeling of connection forming…but things were slightly stale. So I picked things up by cold reading her. She was engaged and started flipping things over to me. I escalate a bit more. “I wanna have fun!” I say.

After this I transition into ATTRACTION SIGNALS > FLIRT CULTURES. With the intent to elicit her sexuality better than the last chick.

On the intro to attraction signals, she looks away with a flash of discomfort. But I get over the line - and things ramp up. By the time we’re discussing flirt cultures, her face is awash with sexual stimulation. I find us bathing in sexual energy as she really bites on banter + humor as a way of flirting.

In the minutes afterwards… we share a laugh and its an explosion of deep flirtiness. Also during this time she describes how she prefers DIRECTNESS over indirectness because then it’s more clear about what’s going on.

Things fall apart afterwards cuz I miss windows. Kids and street dogs keep interrupting us, and she’s gotta pay attention to how they’re interacting with her dog [would have been a great in-the-moment excuse to use for isolation]. After every interruption, I re-engage, and she’s still in a sexual state. After one interruption I bring out topcat’s 5 senses gambit to get her to look inwards, and it ends up bringing us back to the more rapport side of things. She heads off shortly after.

THOUGHTS

• Need to work WITH her to get closer to sex. Define our interaction/relationship together. I think she wanted me to do this when she says she likes directness, I should have probed more into it. A better understanding of where I am in the seduction when this behavior occurs, what she’s thinking of me at this time, and how I can take the sexual energy further, will allow me to address this effectively.
• Girls are aroused by what I’m saying, but they’re not necessarily aroused for ME. Probably need to work on some linking here.
• Master ins and outs of the attraction signals>flirt cultures flow: transitions, contrasting, elicitation, listing, vibe, etc
• Pay attention to the isolation intuition.

 

[Will_V]

South American girls are much more direct in general than other cultures. They don't need to prepare so much to get into the right headspace and are usually much more attuned and accepting of their sexual instincts. Lots of physicality/touch, fast escalation and hard leading to the bedroom often goes well.

I'm going to take a stab and say that you probably could have pulled sometime during that conversation when she was hot and ready.

 

[Rakehell]

gonna agree with @Will_V ; although I believe you were just approaching in the name of practice. In your FR’s (although good) I notice you don’t even go for a simple phone number, which they’d probably 100% comply with. Then again I feel like you know what you’re doing and are just trying to master a certain aspect of game in itself/less worried about trying to get to sex at some point. Mastery vs Just trying to get laid.

It’s easy (for me atleast) to get caught up in the verbal mind control esque effect you can have on girls, and ignoring the signals she’s giving you, when in reality she just needs you to escalate in some way.