i didnt reply to that message. i didnt want to give her closure. i knew by holding an emotionless frame and leaving her on read, she would come running back. and that she did:sept 5
fog: i do want to see you again. just not right now because im committed to focusing on myself for the next few months.
girl: i appreciate this, but you know i cant wait around for you while you figure yourself out. its great that you want that for yourself, but i have my own life to live too. i am open to it if you want to reach out to me one day, but for now i think we should just go our seperate ways. i really do wish the best for you
that was a month and a half ago and we've been texting more often as the weeks go on...but my texting frequency remains extremely slow, while hers have picked back up to normal (every 1 text from me is 5 texts from her). i've been teasing her mostly. ill frame it like everythings good between us and we're gonna bang soon. then just as she gets excited i drop off the map again.oct 6
girl: youre so cute
she should have asked me a few days ago if i wanted to hang. its getting a little bit late to be making plans for tomorrow especially cuz i usually take 2-3 days to respond right now. could be a good weekend if i get her over and download tindergirl: well i guess i could wear them for you...
girl: but youd have to work for it
girl: am i ever going to see you? *kissy face*
girl: *eye roll*
fog: ill work super hard to tear ur clothes off
girl: lmfao i need to go home so please dont do that. let me leave with some dignity
girl: are you free tomorrow night?
girl: *eye roll*
wow, her observations were definitely accurate. like I said I am lazy and rusty so I will pass on the seemingly herculean effort of turning her anger into sexual energy. instead ill just follow up in a few days when shes nowhere close to the emotional state shes in now.girl: hello
girl: am I seeing you or are you sick of me? *eye roll*
girl: youre actually the worst you fucking asshole. you only want to see me when its convenient for you. actually, you don't even want to see me because you never reply when I ask and then you wait a whole fucking month when I have my period to ask me knowing you don't want to see me/I can't
girl: so go fuck yourself
girl: *eye roll* -.-
girl: you know what I think? you like the idea of a girl pining after you more than you like spending time with me, which is actually disgusting.
girl: because you gave me false hope and wasted my time
girl: you are such an inconsiderate person. that's clearly something youre not working on or else youd be aware of it.
girl: ive tried so hard to be patient with you, but you are so flaky. do you know how you made me feel when you said you didn't feel like seeing me that time? it was so hurtful. you've mentioned you dont like flakey people, but that's exactly what you are. you dont care about how I feel and i don't know why I thought you did.
girl: and yes I am that angry right now
girl: not that you would ever reply because you never do unless its to string me along
hmmm,.... you show high awareness of yourself and others and clearly have good fundamentals. when thats the case, yes i agree small changes you make have a huge impact, and that facial is pretty important.Hey Fog, I think losing body fat and having a tighter face is actually pretty huge. I mean what can be more important than the face? I can see the difference on my own face when losing just one kilogram of weight. I think those are small subconscious things which make a big impact. One thing is sure: When I am in my ideal weight range, I get way more AI than when I am slightly overweight. And it doesn't matter how big my muscles are, the face seems to trump all.
feel free to pm me but remember that others could learn from some of our conversations.I actually wanted to pm you about this.
I have been monitoring my behaviours and I am sure my confidence, non-verbal behaviours are on point. So that is a fixed variable for me. These last few days I have gotten much more approach invitations, and I am certain it is because my weight is decreasing and getting into acceptable levels. It is the only thing that I have changed, but it has drastic results. Girls who know me react the same because they already know me. The strong impression is already there. But new ones hook much faster, I have field tested this, this very morning and do not believe it is placebo. For me it is imperative that I stay below a certain weight and to do this I will impose to myself my old dietary discipline.
There is this lame guy, who started to get more attention from a couple of average looking girls, while I am used to getting more than him since he is pretty much a gameless chump haha. He seems to have good looks, but has zero game, no dominance and cannot pull for the life of him. But I felt I was giving some ground on receiving attention and it dawned to me at that point that I was losing out because of body fat. Otherwise I have a much stronger presence, dominance and social acuity. That was for me the final straw with bad eating habits. Pretty soon I will beat this upstart to the ground in a more convincing matter. I dislike the fellow because he tried to amog me once (and he utterly failed and got humiliated for it), but this time he has actually proven useful. As a mirror to how I am losing out on one easy tweak.
I always have been easy with motivation and sacrifice. However I don't see this as breaking through, this is simply reclaiming what was already mine. I notice that if I put great amounts of effort in one area of development it is easy to lose somewhat on other areas. However usually it is easy to recover. Also the lame guy is no competition, but I was losing a little territory, due to watered down fundamentals (like bodyfat). Overall I am much more dominant. I'm not about to challenge him either, despite being able to do so. I'll just outwit him with indirect competition, he's just a pretty face and some social skills. That's why I felt it was weak of me to feel somewhat of an impact from him. I'm certain it sounds like I have a big ego, but I am really that hard on myself.feel free to pm me but remember that others could learn from some of our conversations.
i am happy to hear u are breaking through. u sound quite motivated to change yourself so hopefully this mindset will internalize itself for you. do you measure the amount of approach invitations you get in a particular day? i would like to compare notes
interesting to hear about you making moves on the lame guy. once u are confident in ur abilities to attract woman, other guys like him will simply just fade away and become less of a threat. one of the reasons why is that even if they were to talk to a girl, u could just shut it all down by amplifying his weaknesses and exposing ur strengths in the environment in subtle or sneaky ways.