For guys who have trouble parents. Ways to make your Parents let you off.

[trashKENNUT]

Hello,

I saw the comment by Chase to one anonymous guy. He had trouble with his parents checking his stuff. Here some tips.

1)Talk to them about what they do and ask why.

Whatever reasons they give (or as a teen, you see this as nonsense. ) just don't bother. Let them talk to save face.

After this, you will see lesser of the stuff, but some parents have this idiotic passive aggressive nature because your grandparents was an ass and now you be victim.

2)Be more secretive with what you do. Don't share stuff.

Just protect yourself. Simple as that. Protect your money, Protect your dating notes if you writing it on paper by locking it.

3)Distant yourself. Don't talk to them. Be neutral.

Really, don't talk to them. When they ask questions, just take a little longer time than usual to respond.

4)When the going gets tough, Tell them off.

When you too quiet, they might ask you to come and talk with them. Don't believe that crap. Just let them tell you what they observe. Because they won't change and if you tell them, they just can't change. Let them work and come to you since they fucked you up. LEt them work abit, Let them ask you to come and chat with them for two to three times. During this conversations, just look around, play with your phone and act bored, tell them it's nothing when they ask you questions. Lead them on to tell you what they observe. If they aggressive verbally, tell them off. IF you have to fight, Fight.

In this world, We had two world wars to tell us that we needed more stability and love. So just fend them off. Cut emotional ties, because they don't care either.

5)Move house and Don't talk to them for a year.

This is like NEXT-ing, but it works.

Zac

 

[Just_Dave]

Found Panties

Lol, just yesterday my mom actually found panties from a girl I was messing around with in the summer. The thing about is I acted like it' was no big deal and I told her it was from a former lover. My mom tried asking me about the details of the girl and I simply said it was in the past and didn't matter. I told her I ultimately had forgotten about them, but thanks for returning them to me.

You handle it like any other dramatic situation, don't make it seem bigger than what it really is. You never want to over react to things, and you don't want to get into a emotional battle over it either. You want to find out the real root of the problem and clarify what they're trying to prove. Other times your folks are just being nosy for no reason haha. They want to feel part of the loop, so moral of the story always clean up your messes properly and hide anything you don't want found.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Just_Dave,

I wish it was simple for everyone, Dave. but it is not. That's why i write this post. I dont advocate kicking your parents ass but if you are verbally abused and some get physically hurt, We need to fight for what we want in life.

Even if it means your parents. Society(individuals) today and i note from the US that people are in fight or flight mode 24/7. Why? Because even simple things like this are not addressed plus all the additional mortgages, terrorist and living in fear.

And again, i wish it was simple. Chase response to the guy was positive but even he ask the guy to tell them off.

Zac