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If I could go back in time these are the few things I would tell myself regarding “game”…
Stop trying to have “elite” levels of game because it isn’t worth the time.
Young Warped Mindless, over the next few years you are going to spend a lot of time approaching women and “working on your game.” Eventually you will have what many consider to be “elite” levels of game. To get there you spend a few years of your life living and breathing pick up. You spend hours after hours reading material, going infield and meeting women, and discussing this stuff with your weird friends in PUA forums. It’s a giant waste of time. Once you get “good” stop. Good is fine. Having good game is more than enough to have an amazing sex life and you will reach “good” very fast. The leap from “good” to “elite” takes a lot of time and effort. That time and effort would be much better spent working on yourself and actually making your life something amazing. You will start a string of businesses soon. All the time you spend getting women would be better spent learning how to run a business.
Stop trying to rack up the numbers.
Young Warped Mindless, Your going to be spending a bunch of time going out and trying to rack up the numbers and sleep with as many new women as possible. It’s exciting and fucking new women becomes like a drug for you. Here is the thing, eventually you are going to learn that quality is better than quantity. As I told you already, just get to good levels of game and then stop worrying about it. Being good takes a fraction of the time and still will allow you to easily find a few different girls you wanna see and sleep with at the same time. Take some time and learn how to have and manage open relationships. I’ll save you some time and tell you that your magic number is three. You do best when you have three girls your seeing at one time. One main girl and two fuck buddies you see a few times a month each. This will allow you to have a great sex life with a few women you actually enjoy and frees up a tons of time that you should spend on making your life better. Hit the gym, work on your business.
Oddly enough, your game will become “elite” anyways.
Young Warped Mindless, If you stop at “good” game, get you a few women you actually like, and make your life and business your main mission, something crazy happens… you end up with elite game anyways. It takes you a while to learn it but looking back you now understand that when you have an abundant sex life with awesome women and an amazing life that everyone (women included) want to be apart of, your good game becomes elite automatically. When you meet new women you will legitimately not give a single fuck if they like you or if it works out because you don’t really have time for them anyways. You naturally have extremely high standards because you already have three amazing women. Your entire life is one giant demonstration of higher value because unlike women who spend all their time on FB and watching Netflix, you have an amazing life you built because you took the time to build it. All that time you spent getting to elite levels of game was a waste. You would have gotten there sooner if you have just focused on other things instead. Elite game comes from having solid fundamentals, true sexual abundance with high quality women, and an amazing life that people want to be apart of. Spend less time in the clubs and more time accomplishing those three things.
Feather boas aren’t cool.
Young Warped Mindless, let me save you a few months of looking silly: Dont listen to that tall weird magician guy on mASF in regards to feather boas. They aren’t cool. Dont do it. Seriously.
Stop trying to have “elite” levels of game because it isn’t worth the time.
Young Warped Mindless, over the next few years you are going to spend a lot of time approaching women and “working on your game.” Eventually you will have what many consider to be “elite” levels of game. To get there you spend a few years of your life living and breathing pick up. You spend hours after hours reading material, going infield and meeting women, and discussing this stuff with your weird friends in PUA forums. It’s a giant waste of time. Once you get “good” stop. Good is fine. Having good game is more than enough to have an amazing sex life and you will reach “good” very fast. The leap from “good” to “elite” takes a lot of time and effort. That time and effort would be much better spent working on yourself and actually making your life something amazing. You will start a string of businesses soon. All the time you spend getting women would be better spent learning how to run a business.
Stop trying to rack up the numbers.
Young Warped Mindless, Your going to be spending a bunch of time going out and trying to rack up the numbers and sleep with as many new women as possible. It’s exciting and fucking new women becomes like a drug for you. Here is the thing, eventually you are going to learn that quality is better than quantity. As I told you already, just get to good levels of game and then stop worrying about it. Being good takes a fraction of the time and still will allow you to easily find a few different girls you wanna see and sleep with at the same time. Take some time and learn how to have and manage open relationships. I’ll save you some time and tell you that your magic number is three. You do best when you have three girls your seeing at one time. One main girl and two fuck buddies you see a few times a month each. This will allow you to have a great sex life with a few women you actually enjoy and frees up a tons of time that you should spend on making your life better. Hit the gym, work on your business.
Oddly enough, your game will become “elite” anyways.
Young Warped Mindless, If you stop at “good” game, get you a few women you actually like, and make your life and business your main mission, something crazy happens… you end up with elite game anyways. It takes you a while to learn it but looking back you now understand that when you have an abundant sex life with awesome women and an amazing life that everyone (women included) want to be apart of, your good game becomes elite automatically. When you meet new women you will legitimately not give a single fuck if they like you or if it works out because you don’t really have time for them anyways. You naturally have extremely high standards because you already have three amazing women. Your entire life is one giant demonstration of higher value because unlike women who spend all their time on FB and watching Netflix, you have an amazing life you built because you took the time to build it. All that time you spent getting to elite levels of game was a waste. You would have gotten there sooner if you have just focused on other things instead. Elite game comes from having solid fundamentals, true sexual abundance with high quality women, and an amazing life that people want to be apart of. Spend less time in the clubs and more time accomplishing those three things.
Feather boas aren’t cool.
Young Warped Mindless, let me save you a few months of looking silly: Dont listen to that tall weird magician guy on mASF in regards to feather boas. They aren’t cool. Dont do it. Seriously.
