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So my day job sucks and i just felt like shit when i got out at 4. Not sick, just down and drained. Hung around the house until i decided to just text her at 7:45 because i didnt want to let this girl go to waste. We texted back and forth, she gave immediate responses so i did the same.
Me: Hey Polina
your week work out alright?
Her: Hey, yes, pretty much
Her: How was yours?!
Me: Glad to hear it, mines been pretty good- lets grab a drink tonight
Her: Yup, sounds good, where?! And when?!
[i wasnt sure what part of the city she is from so this next part is not so smooth. But it worked out fine in the end.]
Me: wanna meet at [same bar as last time] again? And im from out of the city so maybe 9:30?
Me: Or if theres an area more convenient for ya
Her: Noo, I wouldn't go that far. I live in [blahblah], and I am almost home. Something closer?!
Her: What if [blahblah] area?!
[i google bars in her area and dont see anything i recognize, except one shitty irish bar that just gets a bunch of local old man drunks. Turns out it was pretty far from her place anyway]
Me: Perfect. i dont know the bars too well there so whats one you like around there?
[i pick a random bar on google in the center of her neck of the woods]
Me: [bar] sound good?
Her: Yes, I was looking for the name I usually go too, but [bar] is ok
Me: Lets plan for that then, 9:30. Cool? And if you come up with the other place you like, we can change plans
Her: Alright)))) sounds good)))
Me: See ya soon miss Polina
Her: See ya, mr. Ben
[14 mins later]
Her: Let's go [different bar], [address]
Her: I mean [different bar] is the name of the bar
Me: Sounds great Polina
[as i'm on my way i realize i'm running late. Its 8:52]
Me: Hey lets make it 9:45 cool? [thought about giving her the Z Vaunswa "take your time throwing on something sexy for me" but i chickened out and decided to take it easy. Maybe another time when im more experienced]
Her: Ok, works for me too
Date went great, no sex (i think i came across as bf material but im fine with that because we were both so relaxed the whole night i just did what felt natural without thinking too much. I did implement a lot of fundamental stuff though like mirroring her body language and making strong eye contact (i think im pretty natural with eye contact too especially after improving it through GC), persistence and escalation with touching, deep diving (although thats pretty natural to me), kept deferring the conversation back to her, i tried to be vague about some things but i didnt mind opening up a little bit to her, keeping an eye out for escalation windows and 'chick tests' or whatever. Definitely want to work on my sexual framing and vibe for future girls though) but she was a really cool chick and i definitely want to go out with her again. We just connected really well and i felt in the moment the whole time. I touched her throughout the date and as it went on i was putting my hand on her lap, grabbing and holding her hand, brushing her shoulder, at one point she said she played volleyball and i asked if she had a nice volleyball players ass and grabbed it, and we kissed toward the end of the night. I kissed her shortly while were at the table but then when i walked her back to her place, kissed her much more intensely on the walk a few times (pulled back and looked into her eyes, kissed again, pulled back, kept walking and continued conversation, held her hand while walking, all the stuff ive read about i pulled off perfectly. She was smitten). When we got to her door we made out for a few minutes, i made a minimal attempt to go inside but i was fine not doing so, it went great and honestly i wanted to drive home and go to bed i had to be up for work in like 6 hours haha (im wicked tired today. Worth it!) i think ill definitely see her again that was much better than the last date i went on when the girl was so nervous the whole time. Wow what a difference.
Ill probably write a more detailed FR for the date later in a new thread but thats the gist of it. Hope you enjoy the read, any comments/criticisms/fuck yous welcome.
One question: whats a good icebreaker text for today? Id like to send one soon. I was thinking something just like
"Hey Polina last night was fun. Looking forward to next time"
What do you think?
Have a good one yall
Me: Hey Polina
your week work out alright?Her: Hey, yes, pretty much
Her: How was yours?!
Me: Glad to hear it, mines been pretty good- lets grab a drink tonight
Her: Yup, sounds good, where?! And when?!
[i wasnt sure what part of the city she is from so this next part is not so smooth. But it worked out fine in the end.]
Me: wanna meet at [same bar as last time] again? And im from out of the city so maybe 9:30?
Me: Or if theres an area more convenient for ya
Her: Noo, I wouldn't go that far. I live in [blahblah], and I am almost home. Something closer?!
Her: What if [blahblah] area?!
[i google bars in her area and dont see anything i recognize, except one shitty irish bar that just gets a bunch of local old man drunks. Turns out it was pretty far from her place anyway]
Me: Perfect. i dont know the bars too well there so whats one you like around there?
[i pick a random bar on google in the center of her neck of the woods]
Me: [bar] sound good?
Her: Yes, I was looking for the name I usually go too, but [bar] is ok
Me: Lets plan for that then, 9:30. Cool? And if you come up with the other place you like, we can change plans
Her: Alright)))) sounds good)))
Me: See ya soon miss Polina
Her: See ya, mr. Ben
[14 mins later]
Her: Let's go [different bar], [address]
Her: I mean [different bar] is the name of the bar
Me: Sounds great Polina
[as i'm on my way i realize i'm running late. Its 8:52]
Me: Hey lets make it 9:45 cool? [thought about giving her the Z Vaunswa "take your time throwing on something sexy for me" but i chickened out and decided to take it easy. Maybe another time when im more experienced]
Her: Ok, works for me too
Date went great, no sex (i think i came across as bf material but im fine with that because we were both so relaxed the whole night i just did what felt natural without thinking too much. I did implement a lot of fundamental stuff though like mirroring her body language and making strong eye contact (i think im pretty natural with eye contact too especially after improving it through GC), persistence and escalation with touching, deep diving (although thats pretty natural to me), kept deferring the conversation back to her, i tried to be vague about some things but i didnt mind opening up a little bit to her, keeping an eye out for escalation windows and 'chick tests' or whatever. Definitely want to work on my sexual framing and vibe for future girls though) but she was a really cool chick and i definitely want to go out with her again. We just connected really well and i felt in the moment the whole time. I touched her throughout the date and as it went on i was putting my hand on her lap, grabbing and holding her hand, brushing her shoulder, at one point she said she played volleyball and i asked if she had a nice volleyball players ass and grabbed it
, and we kissed toward the end of the night. I kissed her shortly while were at the table but then when i walked her back to her place, kissed her much more intensely on the walk a few times (pulled back and looked into her eyes, kissed again, pulled back, kept walking and continued conversation, held her hand while walking, all the stuff ive read about i pulled off perfectly. She was smitten). When we got to her door we made out for a few minutes, i made a minimal attempt to go inside but i was fine not doing so, it went great and honestly i wanted to drive home and go to bed i had to be up for work in like 6 hours haha (im wicked tired today. Worth it!) i think ill definitely see her again that was much better than the last date i went on when the girl was so nervous the whole time. Wow what a difference.Ill probably write a more detailed FR for the date later in a new thread but thats the gist of it. Hope you enjoy the read, any comments/criticisms/fuck yous welcome.
One question: whats a good icebreaker text for today? Id like to send one soon. I was thinking something just like
"Hey Polina
last night was fun. Looking forward to next time"What do you think?
Have a good one yall
