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The girl in question is a very cute Indian girl, shorter side, with a nice chest (didn't actually check out her rear much), and the only downside was a bit of a tire in the midsection (she's been away from India for 4 months and has started working out, though). I found myself at a college for a delivery on Sunday and decided to walk around, I was dressed in nice jeans, and a very nice red button-up (I'm still getting past feeling like I'm TOO dressed up). At first I went to the campus store and saw a cute Indian girl with her friend and asked a random question about some chicken, which the friend came over and helped me, then I approached the cute one as the friend walked off. I just owned the spot and was sexy and playful, and eventually got her number (her friend didn't seem fond of me, never heard back from the cute one).
I ate my chicken, felt pretty good, then went off and totally flopped two approaches with cute white girls, and was about to leave when I decided to stay just a few minutes longer... I walked by this little park area and saw this girl sitting on a hammock and decided to go up, it was the girl in question (she was wearing glasses at the time), and I chatted with her and was playful, then suggested we meet up some time and got her number. The texting went smoothly, she asked if I was on FB/IG at one point and I teased her about wanting to cyberstalk me, and said I don't really use them, as I like to be face to face. I said "should be free after 5 Wednesday" and she took it to be a maybe and told me to let her know.
She texted me the next day (Monday) asking me how I was doing and I didn't respond for an hour (not sure if I was busy, or what...), but asked her how she was doing and about her job interview, a couple back and forths, then I told her I was good for Wednesday, "want to do 6 or 7?", then logistics logistics, she was going to take the trolley to my complex and we'd go on a "little adventure". Tuesday she texted me again "Really looking forward to meet you ... Kinda excited too.. haha... Goodnight!" (not sure about the ellipses, but someone is excited
) I responded with "It should be a good time haha, goodnight ____! Until Tomorrow "
At 4:24 I texted her saying I'll see her soon, and she said she'd text me when she arrived... 6:00 PM "Hi Josh, I am at the trolley station" Leggo...
I walk over to her and she is looking really cute without glasses, wearing a tan jacket, red shirt, and pants, I think they were jeans (again, I never really checked out her butt, for some reason...). We hug and I ask her about her day, sexy eye contact, deep voice with a purr, and when she tells me the interview fell through, I put my hand on her shoulder and looked her in the eyes and said there's something out there that's a better fit for her. We get to my car and I open her door (I almost always do that). I get in and bring up the plan and say we can go to a different part of town I know, but that she has never been too, no resistence (she already had doe eyes, dear god, I'm glad I didn't crash on the way over). I try to chat and look at her when things were safe, and eventually we get to the place (the same parking lot I've nearly banged the other 2 Indians at, hmmmmmm...) and go to Starbucks. I get a water and she got a coffee and I just paid for her.
After our drinks came out, we walked to a nice park area and sat on a bench and I am literally shivering (didn't bring my jacket). I used that as an excuse for her to move over by my side. We chat and deep dive and I forget which happened first, my arm around her, or me kissing her, but those happened (I took her chin and kissed for a moment and she instantly was all into it, then I pulled back and kept talking). I believe we kiss one more time, a bit longer this time, but I still ended it, before I decided to "explore this area I've never been too" (recognize this from my LR-?). When we got over there, she was pretty sketched out, so I didn't take as all the way into the path, just headed back to the car "to put my glasses away and get my jacket". At my car, I tell her to get in and I get in the back and she happily followed.
Important note from the conversation: she knows that my first girlfriend was Indian, and she said she has only ever had one "boyfriend" but just was sad about how he grew up to make bad decisions. She obviously could kiss though, definitely was better than the last girl ironically, who wasn't a virgin lol. I also mentioned how my enjoyment comes from making those around me feel good, and I mentioned I love eating a girl out ( I had to explain that it's oral sex, she's ESL lol), but didn't get too into that.
We chat more, then I tell her to come closer and she happily lays against me (my favorite thing in the world, somehow I feel on the same level as sex, but my brain doesn't get the same boost, sadly... ). We chat some more, than I turn her over and kiss her and get under her, we kissed a bit more and I tried maneuvering us into as intimate a position as I can in that space, then she wanted to sit again, so I obliged after the shifting and stuff. Not too long after her sitting a foot away, I told her to come back, and she did. A couple times people came to cars around us, and I would duck us down, but she was like "what are you doing? (I don't care about them)". I asked her if she ever had used her tongue before and she said no, so I told her to come and put it out (I was on bottom and had to pull her towards me, but once our mouths touched, see stayed), she kept her tongue pretty in her mouth, but it was cute. I moved her in front of me and gave her a massage, and at some point wrapped my arm over her upper chest and stomach, and held her tight (she seemed to like this). Eventually she asked where we were going next (I felt like she was angling for a more private location), and she had mentioned star gazing at a beach, so we went to a beach (it was cloudy, but she didn't care ).
We get at the beach and it's pitch black besides a car with it's lights on (I'm glad they did, though). We moved to the back and started getting physical again when I asked about music and she found an Indian song that meant something like "tonight we should embrace because we never know what will come" or something like that ^.^ (she also mentioned her taste in music depended on her mood). Awkwardly, I really had to pee and there were no restrooms, so I went and peed behind the lifeguard tower while she stayed behind lol. Re-initiating was a little awkward, but things got going right away, she had put her jacket back on and I told her to take it off (as I was taking one arm off lol), which she did. I started kissing her neck and shoulder area, and eventually moved my hands to cross her chest, but she lightly pushed my hands back from that (they were so big and wonderful D: , biggest boobs to that date that I had felt). I tried this thing where I had her back against the seat and her legs around me as I was in the leg space. I was staring right into her, fully in control of her (gently), and passionately kissing her and her body as I deep dove her.
She started dodging mouth kisses, and at one point I said "you're just trying to not get too carried away, aren't you?" and she lightly said "you got it" (*I feel like this framed all her resistance as trying not to be overwhelmed by me, which I feel is the next best thing to accepted escalation. Thoughts?*). I kissed on her upper chest, but she still wouldn't let me hold contact on her boobs. Eventually she told me she is on her period, and I said "What makes you think I've never done that before?" and she cracked up and we continued the kissing and caressing. She finally got to the point where she told me she has never had sex before and I didn't react much to it, I didn't know how to, so I just played it cool (I love how that is often the right answer haha). I certainly did start going through things in my head about taking her first on a first date (I do want to do this as it comes up, but in the moment, it felt like a heavy decision), but kept moving along, I eventually started rubbing her legs, into her pussy (she had jeans, underwear, and a pad on...). At this point I switched from bottom to top and really tried rubbing her pussy, asking if she's ever had this done before or if she's masturbated or orgasmed, all of which she said she hadn't.
I started to unbutton my shirt at one point, and then told her to take it off, which she did. A little later, she said I could put my shirt back on (I was on bottom), and I just put my arms behind my head and said I was just relaxing here, which seemed to break her request. I also took myself out at some point, and she was kind of resistent, but it was out and she wouldn't touch it (said she never has touched nor seen a penis).
I moved my head down to her crotch but she stuck her hands on my face and I just held my face there, but eventually moved up to missionary to dry hump. I thrusted at her for a while and tried to pull her hand to my dick a couple times, the first of which she refused, then the second time I had the back of her hand touch it and suddenly she grabbed it lol, and started stroking it. With that barrier down, I kept dry humping (seriously needs a better name...) and I moved to adapted missionary with my head by hers and I could hear her panting as I moved. I don't think I managed to make her come, I did hold a couple movements for a while, but the positioning and not being in her made it hard to keep the motion. But if she is telling the truth, this was her first experience with a lot of things. She still resisted me untucking her shirt (I honestly just wanted to feel our skin touching as I moved) and touching her boobs, though I rested my heads on them at some point and just enjoyed the cushions.
I was silly-sexy most of the time, I feel I need to move more toward sexy though, simply because the silly/cute parts frame me too much as a boyfriend and not a lover.
During the dry humping, I said in her ear "imagine it filling up your tight little pussy" (not sure if that works for virgins... I couldn't sense much reaction), and later "I want to fuck you so bad right now" (which she didn't react negatively too...). She mentioned a few times how Indians are supposed to only have one mate in their lifetime, and that she's looking for the perfect man, which I teased saying that she was saying that I wasn't, which she laughed about. I never really combated her "one mate, no sex till marriage" frame (*any tips for that?*)
Eventually she said she had to pee and said she could show me around her college. I had her hand in my hand most of the way back, until I moved my hand to her leg, where she put both hands on mine, until I moved my pinky to rub her pussy. We were talking the whole time and near the college, I told her to move her legs apart and I put my whole hand over her pussy and rubbed (not much to sense with jeans, underwear, and pads...). She moved my hand back to hers once we were close to the college (*should I have moved it away from her pussy myself, after a few minutes?*)
We walked around and held hands, I tried putting my arm over her shoulder, but she was too tall, and she mentioned that, and I joked and said "I like you, but you're just too tall for me..." and she laughed. We found a restroom and she went, I tried to use the men's, but it was locked, so I eventually asked to use the ladies (it's like 9 pm the day before Thanksgiving...), and I went in while she was there (***should i have just hard escalated her in there?***). We walked around campus, talked, held hands, and kissed occasionally. Looking back, the first kiss after a long time, she was extremely passionate about, then later ones would be more restrained, until another large break. there was a point we sat on a bench and I tried to get her to come to me (wide bench, I had my legs around the outsides) and she wouldn't, then she got up, took my hand, and wanted to move on and I tried pulling her to me, but she wouldn't, and I gave into her move... (bad move...)
We explored her Computer Science building, and it was empty, but I never escalated besides a kiss in the elevator... (probably should have held her there longer, rather than smooch and move). We reached a social area and there were big chairs (and still on one around), so we sat in one and at first we were just parallel in the chair, then I had her lay onto me (still love it...) and I rested my head on hers and we just sat for a moment, she said she needed to get back home and I said okay, but a not just yet, and had her lay back down for another moment (*I'm DEEEEEP in boyfriend territoy, aren't I?*). We went back to my car, still holding hands and talking, (I climbed a tree at one point, just 'cause... empty campus lol) and passed a roommate of hers who was with her boyfriend (both Indian), but she kept holding hands and I simply said hey as we passed. At the car she said she could just walk back, but I insisted I could just take her back.
At her place, we chatted for a minute, then she came in to kiss me, and was off.
I felt good that night, sex didn't happened, but I loved seeing her feeling good (I know sex will take that to new levels).
The texts so far:
So it seems to be going well, I certainly will have to deal with me not wanting to be in a committed relationship (she's 4 years older, and I'm just not looking to stop my GC ways), but still being her first, any tips for framing yourself as a lover to a virgin who has conservative views? Also, I never actually went to undo her pants...... though she let me have almost free rain rubbing her pussy from the outside, I think I've just grown fearful of pushing into that territory only to be rebuffed, as none of my 10 or so dates recently have fully consummated, so tips for dealing with that would be very helpful.
Thank you gents!
Josh
The girl in question is a very cute Indian girl, shorter side, with a nice chest (didn't actually check out her rear much), and the only downside was a bit of a tire in the midsection (she's been away from India for 4 months and has started working out, though). I found myself at a college for a delivery on Sunday and decided to walk around, I was dressed in nice jeans, and a very nice red button-up (I'm still getting past feeling like I'm TOO dressed up). At first I went to the campus store and saw a cute Indian girl with her friend and asked a random question about some chicken, which the friend came over and helped me, then I approached the cute one as the friend walked off. I just owned the spot and was sexy and playful, and eventually got her number (her friend didn't seem fond of me, never heard back from the cute one).
I ate my chicken, felt pretty good, then went off and totally flopped two approaches with cute white girls, and was about to leave when I decided to stay just a few minutes longer... I walked by this little park area and saw this girl sitting on a hammock and decided to go up, it was the girl in question (she was wearing glasses at the time), and I chatted with her and was playful, then suggested we meet up some time and got her number. The texting went smoothly, she asked if I was on FB/IG at one point and I teased her about wanting to cyberstalk me, and said I don't really use them, as I like to be face to face. I said "should be free after 5 Wednesday" and she took it to be a maybe and told me to let her know.
She texted me the next day (Monday) asking me how I was doing and I didn't respond for an hour (not sure if I was busy, or what...), but asked her how she was doing and about her job interview, a couple back and forths, then I told her I was good for Wednesday, "want to do 6 or 7?", then logistics logistics, she was going to take the trolley to my complex and we'd go on a "little adventure". Tuesday she texted me again "Really looking forward to meet you ... Kinda excited too.. haha... Goodnight!" (not sure about the ellipses, but someone is excited
) I responded with "It should be a good time haha, goodnight ____! Until Tomorrow "At 4:24 I texted her saying I'll see her soon, and she said she'd text me when she arrived... 6:00 PM "Hi Josh, I am at the trolley station" Leggo...
I walk over to her and she is looking really cute without glasses, wearing a tan jacket, red shirt, and pants, I think they were jeans (again, I never really checked out her butt, for some reason...). We hug and I ask her about her day, sexy eye contact, deep voice with a purr, and when she tells me the interview fell through, I put my hand on her shoulder and looked her in the eyes and said there's something out there that's a better fit for her. We get to my car and I open her door (I almost always do that). I get in and bring up the plan and say we can go to a different part of town I know, but that she has never been too, no resistence (she already had doe eyes, dear god, I'm glad I didn't crash on the way over). I try to chat and look at her when things were safe, and eventually we get to the place (the same parking lot I've nearly banged the other 2 Indians at, hmmmmmm...) and go to Starbucks. I get a water and she got a coffee and I just paid for her.
After our drinks came out, we walked to a nice park area and sat on a bench and I am literally shivering (didn't bring my jacket). I used that as an excuse for her to move over by my side. We chat and deep dive and I forget which happened first, my arm around her, or me kissing her, but those happened (I took her chin and kissed for a moment and she instantly was all into it, then I pulled back and kept talking). I believe we kiss one more time, a bit longer this time, but I still ended it, before I decided to "explore this area I've never been too" (recognize this from my LR-?). When we got over there, she was pretty sketched out, so I didn't take as all the way into the path, just headed back to the car "to put my glasses away and get my jacket". At my car, I tell her to get in and I get in the back and she happily followed.
Important note from the conversation: she knows that my first girlfriend was Indian, and she said she has only ever had one "boyfriend" but just was sad about how he grew up to make bad decisions. She obviously could kiss though, definitely was better than the last girl ironically, who wasn't a virgin lol. I also mentioned how my enjoyment comes from making those around me feel good, and I mentioned I love eating a girl out ( I had to explain that it's oral sex, she's ESL lol), but didn't get too into that.
We chat more, then I tell her to come closer and she happily lays against me (my favorite thing in the world, somehow I feel on the same level as sex, but my brain doesn't get the same boost, sadly...
). We chat some more, than I turn her over and kiss her and get under her, we kissed a bit more and I tried maneuvering us into as intimate a position as I can in that space, then she wanted to sit again, so I obliged after the shifting and stuff. Not too long after her sitting a foot away, I told her to come back, and she did. A couple times people came to cars around us, and I would duck us down, but she was like "what are you doing? (I don't care about them)". I asked her if she ever had used her tongue before and she said no, so I told her to come and put it out (I was on bottom and had to pull her towards me, but once our mouths touched, see stayed), she kept her tongue pretty in her mouth, but it was cute. I moved her in front of me and gave her a massage, and at some point wrapped my arm over her upper chest and stomach, and held her tight (she seemed to like this). Eventually she asked where we were going next (I felt like she was angling for a more private location), and she had mentioned star gazing at a beach, so we went to a beach (it was cloudy, but she didn't care ).We get at the beach and it's pitch black besides a car with it's lights on (I'm glad they did, though). We moved to the back and started getting physical again when I asked about music and she found an Indian song that meant something like "tonight we should embrace because we never know what will come" or something like that ^.^ (she also mentioned her taste in music depended on her mood). Awkwardly, I really had to pee and there were no restrooms, so I went and peed behind the lifeguard tower while she stayed behind lol. Re-initiating was a little awkward, but things got going right away, she had put her jacket back on and I told her to take it off (as I was taking one arm off lol), which she did. I started kissing her neck and shoulder area, and eventually moved my hands to cross her chest, but she lightly pushed my hands back from that (they were so big and wonderful D: , biggest boobs to that date that I had felt). I tried this thing where I had her back against the seat and her legs around me as I was in the leg space. I was staring right into her, fully in control of her (gently), and passionately kissing her and her body as I deep dove her.
She started dodging mouth kisses, and at one point I said "you're just trying to not get too carried away, aren't you?" and she lightly said "you got it" (*I feel like this framed all her resistance as trying not to be overwhelmed by me, which I feel is the next best thing to accepted escalation. Thoughts?*). I kissed on her upper chest, but she still wouldn't let me hold contact on her boobs. Eventually she told me she is on her period, and I said "What makes you think I've never done that before?" and she cracked up and we continued the kissing and caressing. She finally got to the point where she told me she has never had sex before and I didn't react much to it, I didn't know how to, so I just played it cool (I love how that is often the right answer haha). I certainly did start going through things in my head about taking her first on a first date (I do want to do this as it comes up, but in the moment, it felt like a heavy decision), but kept moving along, I eventually started rubbing her legs, into her pussy (she had jeans, underwear, and a pad on...). At this point I switched from bottom to top and really tried rubbing her pussy, asking if she's ever had this done before or if she's masturbated or orgasmed, all of which she said she hadn't.
I started to unbutton my shirt at one point, and then told her to take it off, which she did. A little later, she said I could put my shirt back on (I was on bottom), and I just put my arms behind my head and said I was just relaxing here, which seemed to break her request. I also took myself out at some point, and she was kind of resistent, but it was out and she wouldn't touch it (said she never has touched nor seen a penis).
I moved my head down to her crotch but she stuck her hands on my face and I just held my face there, but eventually moved up to missionary to dry hump. I thrusted at her for a while and tried to pull her hand to my dick a couple times, the first of which she refused, then the second time I had the back of her hand touch it and suddenly she grabbed it lol, and started stroking it. With that barrier down, I kept dry humping (seriously needs a better name...) and I moved to adapted missionary with my head by hers and I could hear her panting as I moved. I don't think I managed to make her come, I did hold a couple movements for a while, but the positioning and not being in her made it hard to keep the motion. But if she is telling the truth, this was her first experience with a lot of things. She still resisted me untucking her shirt (I honestly just wanted to feel our skin touching as I moved) and touching her boobs, though I rested my heads on them at some point and just enjoyed the cushions.
I was silly-sexy most of the time, I feel I need to move more toward sexy though, simply because the silly/cute parts frame me too much as a boyfriend and not a lover.
During the dry humping, I said in her ear "imagine it filling up your tight little pussy" (not sure if that works for virgins... I couldn't sense much reaction), and later "I want to fuck you so bad right now" (which she didn't react negatively too...). She mentioned a few times how Indians are supposed to only have one mate in their lifetime, and that she's looking for the perfect man, which I teased saying that she was saying that I wasn't, which she laughed about. I never really combated her "one mate, no sex till marriage" frame (*any tips for that?*)
Eventually she said she had to pee and said she could show me around her college. I had her hand in my hand most of the way back, until I moved my hand to her leg, where she put both hands on mine, until I moved my pinky to rub her pussy. We were talking the whole time and near the college, I told her to move her legs apart and I put my whole hand over her pussy and rubbed (not much to sense with jeans, underwear, and pads...). She moved my hand back to hers once we were close to the college (*should I have moved it away from her pussy myself, after a few minutes?*)
We walked around and held hands, I tried putting my arm over her shoulder, but she was too tall, and she mentioned that, and I joked and said "I like you, but you're just too tall for me..." and she laughed. We found a restroom and she went, I tried to use the men's, but it was locked, so I eventually asked to use the ladies (it's like 9 pm the day before Thanksgiving...), and I went in while she was there (***should i have just hard escalated her in there?***). We walked around campus, talked, held hands, and kissed occasionally. Looking back, the first kiss after a long time, she was extremely passionate about, then later ones would be more restrained, until another large break. there was a point we sat on a bench and I tried to get her to come to me (wide bench, I had my legs around the outsides) and she wouldn't, then she got up, took my hand, and wanted to move on and I tried pulling her to me, but she wouldn't, and I gave into her move... (bad move...)
We explored her Computer Science building, and it was empty, but I never escalated besides a kiss in the elevator... (probably should have held her there longer, rather than smooch and move). We reached a social area and there were big chairs (and still on one around), so we sat in one and at first we were just parallel in the chair, then I had her lay onto me (still love it...) and I rested my head on hers and we just sat for a moment, she said she needed to get back home and I said okay, but a not just yet, and had her lay back down for another moment (*I'm DEEEEEP in boyfriend territoy, aren't I?*). We went back to my car, still holding hands and talking, (I climbed a tree at one point, just 'cause... empty campus lol) and passed a roommate of hers who was with her boyfriend (both Indian), but she kept holding hands and I simply said hey as we passed. At the car she said she could just walk back, but I insisted I could just take her back.
At her place, we chatted for a minute, then she came in to kiss me, and was off.
I felt good that night, sex didn't happened, but I loved seeing her feeling good (I know sex will take that to new levels).
The texts so far:
- Her: (that night) Thank you for the amazing evening . . Hope you enjoyed my company. ... Goodnight Josh
Me: Glad you enjoyed it Goodnight ___
Me: (4pm next day) Happy Thanksgiving ___! I had a great time last night, how about we keep things rolling, what evenings would you be free for dinner? (I already was with family that day and Friday, today, had the Latina)
Her: (5:35) Happy Thanksgiving Josh I would be free on Friday evenings mostly
Me: (8:45, I was watching Moana with my family) Hmm... I'm busy tomorrow, but we could do next Friday, unless we just can't wait that long
Her : (10) Haha. . . Ok .. next Friday till then! (I had said "until then" at one point, she's trying to pick up my words lol)
Me: (11, the Latina seemed flakey, so I decided to backstep) Actually, my mentors moved our meeting, if you're free after 6, we can meet tomorrow. Otherwise, next Friday works
Her: (1) I have some plans with my roomies tomorrow... We can do it on next Friday ... (you bet we can babe)
Me: (1:30) Okay, until then haha. Sweet dreams
So it seems to be going well, I certainly will have to deal with me not wanting to be in a committed relationship (she's 4 years older, and I'm just not looking to stop my GC ways), but still being her first, any tips for framing yourself as a lover to a virgin who has conservative views? Also, I never actually went to undo her pants...... though she let me have almost free rain rubbing her pussy from the outside, I think I've just grown fearful of pushing into that territory only to be rebuffed, as none of my 10 or so dates recently have fully consummated, so tips for dealing with that would be very helpful.
Thank you gents!
Josh
