So here goes.. today was an interesting day full of realizations, the major being that I needed to start going out and talking to people MUCH MUCH earlier because in retrospect I had enough skills within the game to make things work but for whatever reason (read: laziness and fear), I didn't show up to the game, so to speak. But enough morals for the introduction, there will be plenty of morals and lessons learned at the end. As for now, lets get to business.
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PART I: The pretext.
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This FR technically starts on the Monday (25th), the first day of classes of the 2014 semester at my University and incidentally it' is about day-two date with a girl I met two days earlier at a student orientation on Friday. She is a charming little thing, short, skinny, with an infections smile, brown hair, and just generally very cute in a Lindsey Stirling kind-of way.
Here is the pretext, I met her randomly, meaning I did not go out specifically to game. Instead, I was at a student orientation right before the semester starts doing my own little thing. During an administrative lecture a cute, tall, girl started talking to me of all things - something that, unfortunately, doesn't happen as often as I'd like. Thankfully I learned how to a) banter and b) not be intimidated by cute girls a while ago so chatting to her was never a problem, personally, simply chatting and joking around rarely is. After the lecture we got separated because I needed to talk one of the presenters and I lost her in the crowd so to speak. Anyway, that doesn't really matter because the story's not about her, although she does come back for a brief albeit insignificant return later on. I proceed to lunch and sit with a several strangers. I shied away from a table or two but then got my shit together and forced myself to sit at a table with some pretty girls and a reasonably cool guy. The short brunette was among them. While I thought she was cute I was still thinking of the tall girl so I didn't think of actually gaming her or anyone else for that matter. Instead I wanted to embrace the moment and make some friends. Given that nobody knew anybody, even a basic knowledge of social skills and a little courage worked like freakin' magic. I swear engaging the whole group that was relatively sociable but still a bit reserved was like cutting butter with a scorching hot knife. Cracking, jokes, breaking rapport, and all that good stuff worked rather well. It's important to not take what I say out of proportion, however, because it wasn't a super crazy interaction. Rather it was rather chill building of acquaintance between members of the group. Taking the lead was so damn simple because nobody else showed up to do it so to speak. Given that I slightly flirt with all girls and amp things up with the ones that respond the best is when the "shawty" first caught my eye in a significant way.
She was s fun flirt, what can I say? Anyway, we didn't have much time or desire to sit around for a long time during lunch so when we were about to split up I suggested checking out a cool tea place next to the campus that evening. Everyone agreed and numbers were exchanged between pretty much everybody. I promised to text the details and the time and we split. When I did text the details, it took at first a while for people to reply. Then after the first confirmation, everyone else just started rolling in. It helped A LOT that everyone was new to the University and didn't have other commitments. Essentially the alternative was to sit alone in a dorm room or try to do something within their dorm communities. That's why its fantastically easy to "take charge" in new situations and make things happen by organizing meet ups - they almost always are literally the coolest things to do by default. I digress, anyway, everyone showed up, the girls brought more of their friends. Essentially it was the other guy, me, and five other girls. Fun right? Well,it was fun! Again, I flirted with the cute shorty I had my eye on but inadvertently (and it worked out in my favor) talked to her dormmate/friend simply because it was a fun conversation. As the evening progressed some of the girls split and the four of us (the guy, me, the cutie, and her friend) walked around campus just talking about random shit. The guy was pretty cool and the social dynamic was of several friends hanging out - it's not like he was a wing-man to or something like that, reverse being true as well. I could not actually "game" or "escalate" with the cutie so I didn't even try. Instead I make jokes had fun with everybody, did stupid loud shit, and etc. I did flirt with her though (as opposed to joking around with the others) and physically teased (only) her by hip-checking here, pushing there. She reciprocated with equal enthusiasm and while I wished to proceed further the logistics were terrible. I had other commitments later that night and I couldn't think of a way for us two to split from the group gracefully. My interest in her was becoming clear anyway, and the dormmate started joking about how she should split the two of us up. Essentially she was ready to get her cock-block on. Things were winding down after several hours of walking around anyway and we decided to call it a night. We led the girls to the dorms, hugged everyone goodnight, and split ways... but that's just the beginning....
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PART II: The Day Two
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Part two bring you the text game, the meetup, the abandonment, the return of the sleeping-beauty, cock-blocking friends, extreme flirting, hand holding, monkey holds, walking, MORE walking, boob-slips, the boyfriend (is he even real!?), the kiss of doom, guilt, and resolution. What is that all about? Find out soon in part two! In the meantime, I'm off to bed. It's late and I've got classes early tomorrow. Until next time,
- Joy
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PART I: The pretext.
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This FR technically starts on the Monday (25th), the first day of classes of the 2014 semester at my University and incidentally it' is about day-two date with a girl I met two days earlier at a student orientation on Friday. She is a charming little thing, short, skinny, with an infections smile, brown hair, and just generally very cute in a Lindsey Stirling kind-of way.
Here is the pretext, I met her randomly, meaning I did not go out specifically to game. Instead, I was at a student orientation right before the semester starts doing my own little thing. During an administrative lecture a cute, tall, girl started talking to me of all things - something that, unfortunately, doesn't happen as often as I'd like. Thankfully I learned how to a) banter and b) not be intimidated by cute girls a while ago so chatting to her was never a problem, personally, simply chatting and joking around rarely is. After the lecture we got separated because I needed to talk one of the presenters and I lost her in the crowd so to speak. Anyway, that doesn't really matter because the story's not about her, although she does come back for a brief albeit insignificant return later on. I proceed to lunch and sit with a several strangers. I shied away from a table or two but then got my shit together and forced myself to sit at a table with some pretty girls and a reasonably cool guy. The short brunette was among them. While I thought she was cute I was still thinking of the tall girl so I didn't think of actually gaming her or anyone else for that matter. Instead I wanted to embrace the moment and make some friends. Given that nobody knew anybody, even a basic knowledge of social skills and a little courage worked like freakin' magic. I swear engaging the whole group that was relatively sociable but still a bit reserved was like cutting butter with a scorching hot knife. Cracking, jokes, breaking rapport, and all that good stuff worked rather well. It's important to not take what I say out of proportion, however, because it wasn't a super crazy interaction. Rather it was rather chill building of acquaintance between members of the group. Taking the lead was so damn simple because nobody else showed up to do it so to speak. Given that I slightly flirt with all girls and amp things up with the ones that respond the best is when the "shawty" first caught my eye in a significant way.
She was s fun flirt, what can I say? Anyway, we didn't have much time or desire to sit around for a long time during lunch so when we were about to split up I suggested checking out a cool tea place next to the campus that evening. Everyone agreed and numbers were exchanged between pretty much everybody. I promised to text the details and the time and we split. When I did text the details, it took at first a while for people to reply. Then after the first confirmation, everyone else just started rolling in. It helped A LOT that everyone was new to the University and didn't have other commitments. Essentially the alternative was to sit alone in a dorm room or try to do something within their dorm communities. That's why its fantastically easy to "take charge" in new situations and make things happen by organizing meet ups - they almost always are literally the coolest things to do by default. I digress, anyway, everyone showed up, the girls brought more of their friends. Essentially it was the other guy, me, and five other girls. Fun right? Well,it was fun! Again, I flirted with the cute shorty I had my eye on but inadvertently (and it worked out in my favor) talked to her dormmate/friend simply because it was a fun conversation. As the evening progressed some of the girls split and the four of us (the guy, me, the cutie, and her friend) walked around campus just talking about random shit. The guy was pretty cool and the social dynamic was of several friends hanging out - it's not like he was a wing-man to or something like that, reverse being true as well. I could not actually "game" or "escalate" with the cutie so I didn't even try. Instead I make jokes had fun with everybody, did stupid loud shit, and etc. I did flirt with her though (as opposed to joking around with the others) and physically teased (only) her by hip-checking here, pushing there. She reciprocated with equal enthusiasm and while I wished to proceed further the logistics were terrible. I had other commitments later that night and I couldn't think of a way for us two to split from the group gracefully. My interest in her was becoming clear anyway, and the dormmate started joking about how she should split the two of us up. Essentially she was ready to get her cock-block on. Things were winding down after several hours of walking around anyway and we decided to call it a night. We led the girls to the dorms, hugged everyone goodnight, and split ways... but that's just the beginning....
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PART II: The Day Two
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Part two bring you the text game, the meetup, the abandonment, the return of the sleeping-beauty, cock-blocking friends, extreme flirting, hand holding, monkey holds, walking, MORE walking, boob-slips, the boyfriend (is he even real!?), the kiss of doom, guilt, and resolution. What is that all about? Find out soon in part two! In the meantime, I'm off to bed. It's late and I've got classes early tomorrow. Until next time,
- Joy
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