FR: Flaked, am I not good enough?

[jackoftades819]

In my last post I mentioned this girl on my dorm room floor that I thought might be attracted to me so last night I told her that we should hang out and they I'd text her the next day. So tonight I texted "hey I'm going to head to the gym for an hour. I'll text you when I'm back if you want to hang out". She texts back that she's going to be with her friend and that she has a lot of homework and said maybe next time. I just text her no problem. Pretty sure this flake means she's not interested in me and never will be if she'd rather do homework than me. I keep running into this problem, I think a girl is into me but then she never responds or just says she's busy. Am I misreading their signals or am I so undesirable that no one wants me as a friend or a boyfriend or a lover?

 

[foggy]

A hockey player takes one shot at the net during a game and he misses the net completely. Then he quits hockey because he thinks he's not good enough.

Sounds ridiculous right?

Your text was a bit wishy washy. When I want to make plans with a girl, I text her something like, "What's your schedule like in the next few days?" She tells me when she's free, and then we make plans. You just blindly texted this women assuming she would be free to hang out with you. People are busy, dude.