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This happened about twenty minutes ago so it's still in my memory.
Also I'd like to get feedback if possible.
My brother and I had just come back from morning classes at school and decided to get breakfast and then go to the mall so I could get my paycheck.
As we're walking into the mall, a cute girl is walking parallel to us heading towards the door as well. My pace was a little faster and I reached the door first and held the door open for her and my brother.
As she walked in, I did what any guy would do and checked out that ass. Haha.
Me and my brother looked at each other at the same time with a look on our faces like: DAMN!
She immediately stopped at the directory when she walked in while me and brother kept walking.
Bro: she's not from here.
Me: how do you know?
Bro: she's looking at the map...
(might as well use as an assumption)
The mall was just opening so all the stores still had the pull down gates covering them. We waited outside of GameStop and I watched from afar as I saw the girl get lost around the mall. She then came back walking in our direction and I told my brother I'm not leaving here without knowing her so I approached her.
She had headphones in so I hand gestured for her to take them out of her ears.
I got my sentence out slowly while looking deeply into her eyes.
Me: I saw you earlier and I thought you were so cute and I had to know your name.
Her: oh Thankyou its Jordyn.
Me: I'm Tevin. (instinctively shakes her hand...ugh)
Her: Steven?
Me: haha no, Tevin.
Her: ohhh haha that's a cool name.
Me: haha yea, anyway where are you from?
Her: I'm from here. I go to "college in town" (look on her face like: why do you ask?)
Me: cause when you walked in, I noticed that you looked at the map and figured you might be from out of town. Either you don't come here often or you're not from here.
Her: ohh haha yea, Im actually from "beach town down the coast" and came here for college. I was just looking for RadioShack...do you know where it is?
Me: oh yea...it's this way...I'll show you. (motioned for her to follow me)
Her: (while walking) I usually just say I'm from here since I've been here for awhile and most people don't know where (town she's from) is.
We were talking a little bit about something but I can't remember what. Then we reached RadioShack and were somehow on the topic of my name. She was making jokes about my name saying it rhymed with seven and heaven and saying that if I was a girl, people could tease me with "seven minutes of heaven inside Tevin." haha...glad we was thinking sexually at least.
I remember giving her a hug for trying to remember my name. I said: at least you tried, you get a hug for trying.
No wait, sometime before we reached RadioShack and were still walking, I asked her
Me: so where's your boyfriend? (to see if she was single but also throw her off guard)
Her: oh he's at school right now...blah blah something about art class...blah blah i make art.
Me: wait, what? You're an artist? No way.
Her: yea (look on her face like: why?)
Me: I am too (high fives her instinctively)
Her: oh cool...what do you do?
Me: what do you mean?
Her: like do you draw, paint, sculpture...?
Me: oh..well I haven't done it in awhile but I draw and paint.
Her: oh cool.
Me: (then I tell her about the school I went to for the arts...which is unasked information but I didn't realize until after.) do you know that school?
Her: oh yea, I've heard of that school...it has like theatre, dance, art, all that stuff right?
Me: yea I majored in drawing/painting blah blah more unasked information (but she didn't seem to mind...I felt like I was breaking the stranger barrier and she was starting to feel like we were the same.)
Her: (looking in my eyes, impressed look, smile, I couldn't tell if she was feeling the sexual tension that I was feeling.)
Me: anyway, I should've been able to tell you were artistic by the way you dress. (looks down at her outfit. She's wearing a tie dye shirt, necklace with gemstones tied together, short-shorts showing off those glorious legs and ass, and the dyed shoes.)
Her: yea you're dressed artistic too. (observes my outfit. I'm wearing a unbuttoned short sleeve blue shirt with african designs striping horizontally on it. A white tee shirt underneath, a porcelain carved African necklace of an elephant's head attached to a fake tusk. And then some blue shoes that resembled Vans that I got from Cotton On.
I guess some touching got in during all this examining. I reached for her necklace and pulled her in to look at it. I moved her hair out of the way to look at her earrings.
She was telling me about how she made the shoes herself and they used to be white.
Then we got back on the topic of her paintings and then I asked if she posted them online to which she gave me her Tumblr URL and I got her Facebook as well.
THEN it was at the point where she was joking about my name. I get the information all chronologically mixed up sometimes.
We were right outside RadioShack because it hadn't opened yet and she tells me that she actually has to go to a place near RadioShack and she was using RadioShack as a landmark. She scanned her eyes around for the place she was looking for and then
Her: there it is! I came here to get a new phone. (with this new AIO wireless thing that's popped up everywhere)
Then we walk over to it and she says: I bet you 200 bucks that the lady working there's name is Margarita.
Me: what? Forreal?
Her: yea
I walk up.
Me: (to the lady) hey is your name Margarita?
Lady: sure is!
Me: aww..I guess I owe you 200 bucks. (to Jordyn)
Her: hahaha
Then she started talking to the lady and I just stood there waiting for her. I mean, this interaction didn't feel finished and I felt like there was still more to talk about.
Her: you don't have to wait for me...
Me: (I'm reading this as: you can go away now.) oh I know..I'm not waiting for you...I'm actually waiting for my Boss to get here so he can pay me.
Her: oh...where do you work?
Me: right there. (points to the kiosk right there across from us)
Her: Journey's?
Me: haha no...that kiosk there.
While the lady at the AIO is looking for something, I'm having conversation with Jordyn again.
This time I find out that she must be 22 or 23 years old and that she keep using her time at school by finding new classes that interest her. She keeps taking classes that she doesn't even need to graduate, but she does them just because she enjoys them.
I could definitely feel some tension at this moment too when we were looking into each others eyes and I was standing close as we both leaned on the kiosk.
I'm thinking: okay...this girl has a boyfriend but will she move with me? Is she interested? Time to test it out.
Just then I see my boss at the kiosk across from us and I walk over to him and handle my business.
Whenever I look over at her she was looking at me and smiling.
When I finished I walked back over to her, put my hand on her shoulder and she looked at me.
Me: hey, jordyn...after you finish here, you wanna maybe sit down on that bench with me for a minute? (I should've just commanded her, I forgot)
Her: aww..I can't...I'm kinda in a rush. I have to go to class at 12.
Me: that's like two hours from now...just sit with me for two minutes.
Her: I can't...I'm in a rush.
Me: haha...your body language doesn't say that though...your body language says you want to sit with me.
Her: (she smiled and looked away never answering that)
The lady at the AIO told her to go over to the other phone kiosk right down the aisle for something
Her: okay...I have to go over there (points to kiosk further down)
I remembered that if I kept trying super hard to keep this going then it would've looked like chasing so I told her:alright bye, nice meeting you! And left.
Her: bye!
Didn't get a number...didn't plan a date...nothing..just Facebook information.
This was one messy situation too...I've never dealt with a girl trying to buy something while I was talking to her. It's frustrating because of divided attention.
Anyway, this was purely by accident. Right now, I'm just trying to work on my fundamentals and I haven't approached girls in two weeks. Im just trying to get female friends right now to get comfortable with being around attractive girls platonically. Besides, having female friends can give me access to hotter girls and it ups my preselection and conversational skills. I'm getting to a point where my conversations are so complex and detailed that I can't even remember everything we talk about. The energy was there though. When I caught on to the chemistry we had, I got open to the idea of getting laid by her. Originally I had just planned to try to be her friend.
I need to work on: talking about myself less. Listening more (sometimes I dazed out while looking into her eyes and feeling the moment...didn't catch some things she said to me.)
Get to other topics. (I had other topics pop into my head that I wanted to get to but never got the chance)
Been more persistent on getting her to move with me. (any ideas?)
This wasn't the best written, my apologies.
Commence the comments
Also I'd like to get feedback if possible.
My brother and I had just come back from morning classes at school and decided to get breakfast and then go to the mall so I could get my paycheck.
As we're walking into the mall, a cute girl is walking parallel to us heading towards the door as well. My pace was a little faster and I reached the door first and held the door open for her and my brother.
As she walked in, I did what any guy would do and checked out that ass. Haha.
Me and my brother looked at each other at the same time with a look on our faces like: DAMN!
She immediately stopped at the directory when she walked in while me and brother kept walking.
Bro: she's not from here.
Me: how do you know?
Bro: she's looking at the map...
(might as well use as an assumption)
The mall was just opening so all the stores still had the pull down gates covering them. We waited outside of GameStop and I watched from afar as I saw the girl get lost around the mall. She then came back walking in our direction and I told my brother I'm not leaving here without knowing her so I approached her.
She had headphones in so I hand gestured for her to take them out of her ears.
I got my sentence out slowly while looking deeply into her eyes.
Me: I saw you earlier and I thought you were so cute and I had to know your name.
Her: oh Thankyou its Jordyn.
Me: I'm Tevin. (instinctively shakes her hand...ugh)
Her: Steven?
Me: haha no, Tevin.
Her: ohhh haha that's a cool name.
Me: haha yea, anyway where are you from?
Her: I'm from here. I go to "college in town" (look on her face like: why do you ask?)
Me: cause when you walked in, I noticed that you looked at the map and figured you might be from out of town. Either you don't come here often or you're not from here.
Her: ohh haha yea, Im actually from "beach town down the coast" and came here for college. I was just looking for RadioShack...do you know where it is?
Me: oh yea...it's this way...I'll show you. (motioned for her to follow me)
Her: (while walking) I usually just say I'm from here since I've been here for awhile and most people don't know where (town she's from) is.
We were talking a little bit about something but I can't remember what. Then we reached RadioShack and were somehow on the topic of my name. She was making jokes about my name saying it rhymed with seven and heaven and saying that if I was a girl, people could tease me with "seven minutes of heaven inside Tevin." haha...glad we was thinking sexually at least.
I remember giving her a hug for trying to remember my name. I said: at least you tried, you get a hug for trying.
No wait, sometime before we reached RadioShack and were still walking, I asked her
Me: so where's your boyfriend? (to see if she was single but also throw her off guard)
Her: oh he's at school right now...blah blah something about art class...blah blah i make art.
Me: wait, what? You're an artist? No way.
Her: yea (look on her face like: why?)
Me: I am too (high fives her instinctively)
Her: oh cool...what do you do?
Me: what do you mean?
Her: like do you draw, paint, sculpture...?
Me: oh..well I haven't done it in awhile but I draw and paint.
Her: oh cool.
Me: (then I tell her about the school I went to for the arts...which is unasked information but I didn't realize until after.) do you know that school?
Her: oh yea, I've heard of that school...it has like theatre, dance, art, all that stuff right?
Me: yea I majored in drawing/painting blah blah more unasked information (but she didn't seem to mind...I felt like I was breaking the stranger barrier and she was starting to feel like we were the same.)
Her: (looking in my eyes, impressed look, smile, I couldn't tell if she was feeling the sexual tension that I was feeling.)
Me: anyway, I should've been able to tell you were artistic by the way you dress. (looks down at her outfit. She's wearing a tie dye shirt, necklace with gemstones tied together, short-shorts showing off those glorious legs and ass, and the dyed shoes.)
Her: yea you're dressed artistic too. (observes my outfit. I'm wearing a unbuttoned short sleeve blue shirt with african designs striping horizontally on it. A white tee shirt underneath, a porcelain carved African necklace of an elephant's head attached to a fake tusk. And then some blue shoes that resembled Vans that I got from Cotton On.
I guess some touching got in during all this examining. I reached for her necklace and pulled her in to look at it. I moved her hair out of the way to look at her earrings.
She was telling me about how she made the shoes herself and they used to be white.
Then we got back on the topic of her paintings and then I asked if she posted them online to which she gave me her Tumblr URL and I got her Facebook as well.
THEN it was at the point where she was joking about my name. I get the information all chronologically mixed up sometimes.
We were right outside RadioShack because it hadn't opened yet and she tells me that she actually has to go to a place near RadioShack and she was using RadioShack as a landmark. She scanned her eyes around for the place she was looking for and then
Her: there it is! I came here to get a new phone. (with this new AIO wireless thing that's popped up everywhere)
Then we walk over to it and she says: I bet you 200 bucks that the lady working there's name is Margarita.
Me: what? Forreal?
Her: yea
I walk up.
Me: (to the lady) hey is your name Margarita?
Lady: sure is!
Me: aww..I guess I owe you 200 bucks. (to Jordyn)
Her: hahaha
Then she started talking to the lady and I just stood there waiting for her. I mean, this interaction didn't feel finished and I felt like there was still more to talk about.
Her: you don't have to wait for me...
Me: (I'm reading this as: you can go away now.) oh I know..I'm not waiting for you...I'm actually waiting for my Boss to get here so he can pay me.
Her: oh...where do you work?
Me: right there. (points to the kiosk right there across from us)
Her: Journey's?
Me: haha no...that kiosk there.
While the lady at the AIO is looking for something, I'm having conversation with Jordyn again.
This time I find out that she must be 22 or 23 years old and that she keep using her time at school by finding new classes that interest her. She keeps taking classes that she doesn't even need to graduate, but she does them just because she enjoys them.
I could definitely feel some tension at this moment too when we were looking into each others eyes and I was standing close as we both leaned on the kiosk.
I'm thinking: okay...this girl has a boyfriend but will she move with me? Is she interested? Time to test it out.
Just then I see my boss at the kiosk across from us and I walk over to him and handle my business.
Whenever I look over at her she was looking at me and smiling.
When I finished I walked back over to her, put my hand on her shoulder and she looked at me.
Me: hey, jordyn...after you finish here, you wanna maybe sit down on that bench with me for a minute? (I should've just commanded her, I forgot)
Her: aww..I can't...I'm kinda in a rush. I have to go to class at 12.
Me: that's like two hours from now...just sit with me for two minutes.
Her: I can't...I'm in a rush.
Me: haha...your body language doesn't say that though...your body language says you want to sit with me.
Her: (she smiled and looked away never answering that)
The lady at the AIO told her to go over to the other phone kiosk right down the aisle for something
Her: okay...I have to go over there (points to kiosk further down)
I remembered that if I kept trying super hard to keep this going then it would've looked like chasing so I told her:alright bye, nice meeting you! And left.
Her: bye!
Didn't get a number...didn't plan a date...nothing..just Facebook information.
This was one messy situation too...I've never dealt with a girl trying to buy something while I was talking to her. It's frustrating because of divided attention.
Anyway, this was purely by accident. Right now, I'm just trying to work on my fundamentals and I haven't approached girls in two weeks. Im just trying to get female friends right now to get comfortable with being around attractive girls platonically. Besides, having female friends can give me access to hotter girls and it ups my preselection and conversational skills. I'm getting to a point where my conversations are so complex and detailed that I can't even remember everything we talk about. The energy was there though. When I caught on to the chemistry we had, I got open to the idea of getting laid by her. Originally I had just planned to try to be her friend.
I need to work on: talking about myself less. Listening more (sometimes I dazed out while looking into her eyes and feeling the moment...didn't catch some things she said to me.)
Get to other topics. (I had other topics pop into my head that I wanted to get to but never got the chance)
Been more persistent on getting her to move with me. (any ideas?)
This wasn't the best written, my apologies.
Commence the comments