FR Fr: fu. Fundamentals are too strong... didn't see that coming

[maximus6004]

Uhhhhhhhh......

I've spent years working on my looks my dress attire fundamentals.

Met up with a girl, long story short. We started making out she grabbed me, I tried to go into her pants and she snapped out of it and said. I know you don't want me. Look at me and look at you.

Yea she wasn't the prettiest girl in the world and I know she has no problem sleeping with guys as I've heard she banged a guy from work easily first time over......

Then this happens to me she tells me to have a good night and good luck and I'm here with a hard on like wtf just happened.....

Damn.....

 

[maximus6004]

Lol, yea..... it's been happening a lot lately and that's how I handled the last one. I was just shocked that happened

 

[Mystique]

Yea, I think you gave up too easily there Maximus (or you were probably shocked as you were not expecting it). All you had to do was dismiss what she said as ridiculous, tell her why you think it's awesome being with her, be warmer and re-escalate.

 

[maximus6004]

I was shocked because I thought it would be an easy lay. It should have been. At this point I think she likes me too much and I don't care about her that much. If I sleep with her I will only hurt her.

I think I'm going to have to friend zone her

 

[Big Daddy]

Aw man, that sucks ;/

I'm curious though -- how do you dress and what was your process to improve the way you dress?

 

[maximus6004]

Actually I bought a book on how to dress better. It's an ebook. Also, I made friends with some gay men and had one as a rokmate. If you can find one who knows how to dress, ask him questions. I see gay men get hit on more than straight they also get crit by straight men in a bad way. Who cares. I have women surrounding me because of girls chase and small things like tht.