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flatron

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Approach on girl in my local pub down the road. She was with a friend at the bar. I opened them whilst ordering my beer. Went with an opinion opener. She didn't seem to really want to talk but that's kind of expeceted'.I 'rooted' the opener and talked a little. She still wasn't that responsive. Tried to carry on the conversation. Asked her name, age, where she was from. Made an observation about her drink and her clothes. Stacked a few assumptions about her. Still nothing. Nothing seemed to 'stick' and she kept trying to get back too her friend so I bailed before I made her feel too awkward, lol. I wasn't her type

Open a girl and am just like ''What's up? Thought you looked interesting so thought i'd say 'hi' quickly''. She tells me that i'm not her type. I'm like ''Whoa! Don't get ahead of yourself there!'' and she laughed and then walked away lol. I tried to get her to stop, but no dice

Open a 2 set at the bar and say 'hi'. Ask them what they are up too tonight. They say going dancing and I tease her about not being able to dance in the shoes she had on and she smiles. I ask them how they know each other and try to get them to open up a little but they are both super cagey and clearly want me to go away, but I try to stick in there. I ask their names. Make some assumptions about what they do and stuff, but they just basically nod their heads occasionally and are trying hard to not engage me lol. More 'no girls' . I decide to eject and move on rather than flog a dead horse

I order a strange looking drink and then accuse the girl on my left of being jealous as she starred at it a little bit. She laughs and we banter a little. She's from Hungary which might explain the lack of negative attitude on her part. I make some jokey assumptions about what she does for a living. She's with a fat friend. I try to get the friend involved. We talk about Hungary. I tell them they look like they're waiting for their tinder dates to show up. They laugh and then the better looking one tells me she's married. We chat a little longer and I bail and I can sense that they aren't into me

Very pretty girl at a table with a mixed group of friends. I open her directly and smile. She looks just at me. She looks slightly afraid to be honest! She kind of backs up towards the guy behind her into his arms almost. I just try to calibrate and back off a little bit (not that I was ever in her personal space!) and am like ''I'm characternote, btw''. I then make an observation. No reply. I ask her what she's up too tonigh. She still hasn't said a word and im thinking she might be a mute so I decide it's best to just bail. I'm clearly not her type. Then the guy it turns out she's with kind of blocks my path and asks me 'what's up?' and tells me that he's her boyfriend. I think he's trying too intimidate me and but it's not gonna work so he kind of flips the script after I laugh him off and he plays the 'friendly guy' instead and smiles and gives me a condescending pat on the back for trying, lol.

Super hot young girl is hanging up her leopard print jacket. I look at it and smile and say ''If this is real leopard print, we can't be friends'' I think it was funny, lol. She gives me the classic look of contempt and says ''Yeah, Byyeeeeeee'' and turns away towards some other dude.

Open up a girl at a table and straight away she tells me she's got a serious boyfriend but then her friend joins the table and the girl actually intoduces me to her friend. Straight away I can tell this is different and that I might have a shot. She's not a 'no girl'. I can tell by the way she's looks at me and smiles as she introduces herself. I ask her name, age, plans for the night. Make a few assumptions about her. She actually is talking back!! nice. Another IOI: She's filling in the gaps in convo and is pulling her own weight. She says something about her coat looking like an eskimo coat and I use that to go into talk about eskimo kissing and then we eskimo kiss. And then we do it again, but this time I go for the kiss and she kisses me back and we start making out. I move her too a different part of the bar and kiss her a bit more and rub her a bit and now seed the pull to go back to her place for sexy times.
 

MWall

Space Monkey
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I’m a rookie as you are myself flatron, I would say it looks like you are shotgun approaching without any approach invitation and not enough calibrated consideration of if she has interest.

I am seeing progress with my opening and creating comfort by letting the girl see me do what I do for awhile and if she is hanging around and we are kind of exchanging little looks at each other ( https://soundcloud.com/girlschase%2F26-daniel-adebayo-verbal-game-and-consistency ) then I wait for a good moment and cautiously start a little conversation with super harmless topics such as the weather, what are you studying, or that drink looks good. I am mostly in cafes in my city but also starting to go out at night.

stay at it!
 

flatron

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Yeah, I don't tend to wait for IOI's as if I done that, i'd never find a girl to open lol
SO I tend to adopt the RSD philosophy and approach who I like and find out for myself whether she's interested or not.
if not, move on to the next girl
 

MWall

Space Monkey
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That very well may work for you brotha, do your thing! Though Tyler himself said that they are shifting away from some of their ways && focusing on living holistically it is probably a good technique. Have you heard about choosing signals, it’s been around forever but there’s been kind of a recent resurgence.
 

flatron

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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That very well may work for you brotha, do your thing! Though Tyler himself said that they are shifting away from some of their ways && focusing on living holistically it is probably a good technique. Have you heard about choosing signals, it’s been around forever but there’s been kind of a recent resurgence.
Yeah, I'm aware of them. I've made thousands of approaches over the last 4 years or so and Have read everything there is to read, tbh lol

Cheers
 

flatron

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Fundamentals are good. If a girl is actually attracted to me, I tend to be able to do well with her. (this FR was a good example of that actually lol. I could tell in less than 3 seconds I was her type)
I don't believe anyone can force attraction (seduce) in a girl who isn't into you, so I tend to think of rejections simply as 'no girls' ala Mark Mansons philosophy
 

Pitcher

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Fundamentals are good. If a girl is actually attracted to me, I tend to be able to do well with her. (this FR was a good example of that actually lol. I could tell in less than 3 seconds I was her type)
I don't believe anyone can force attraction (seduce) in a girl who isn't into you, so I tend to think of rejections simply as 'no girls' ala Mark Mansons philosophy

Oh I was reading this whole post as a Field Report (FR) not a Lay Report (LR), and thought you didn’t sleep with the girl in the end. My bad.

Seems like you have a process that works pretty well for you.

Also, mad respect for taking action and brushing off rejections like a champ.
 

MWall

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Dude I did the same thing, nice lay flatron please go read my reports and tell me some of your advice. what kind of venue do you prefer?
 

TrickyD

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WTG brushing off the rejections. nobody cares about rejection rate.
 
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