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[maximus6004]

Ive been doing pretty good with my numbers and lays and was looking for a way to increase this numbers so I decided to check out Pandoras box. It actually works really well.

Usually, with a hopeless romantic type. In this case super religious, a virgin, and hasn't even kissed a guy. She is 30. One of those cultures where she needs to be married. I would have gotten frustrated and left this girl a long as time ago because of her nature towards the whole marriage thing.

After using this program just basically to figure out here personality type and using the methods I learned here this is what happened.

I told this girl I don't like virgins. I told her I was not religious, at all. I also told her I didn't want to get married and jokingly said she can have my children and I'll come visit them.

This girl, after all that keeps texting me about how she wants to bring me to get place shower with me, have my kids, and then cuddle afterwards. Ice discovered which type of girl I'm usually attracted too and it's the social butterfly. All this program does it's helps you escalate at the right moments. Should always be moving fast with a women regardless but there are steps in between and this is not my type of girl at all. Usually I would find her boring and move on. However I have her talking dirty to me. I have her swearing which she never does and she ongoing crazy over me. It's pretty nuts. This has opened me up to different types of women. I'm pretty sure I'm not going to sleep with this one because I don't want to marry her or have kids with her but she is definitely super cute.

Hope you enjoyed the read. Will keep updates on this, and tabs on the experiment.

 

[maximus6004]

If you walk up to guy who spends his time watching sports, and another guy who doesnt watch sports and reads comic books while hitting comicon, would you approach both these guys the same way?

This is what i learned with Dicarlos box set. I just read the personality types and it basis it off of three questions linking to there 3 basic motivations. My numbers were great and its easier to get these kind of women for me because of the fact that im pretty outspoken but ive lost a ton of of opportunities and previous women in my life because i treated them all the same way. Framing is great and its still used just in different ways. Its great for short term but not long term.

From what ive learned. After hitting the gym over these past couple years and studying how to dress better down to even decorating my place this is what i have learned.

Chase wrote a post years ago about how he got better lays when he dressed down. I think, from my experience this is def important for guys who look better. Women who are insecure are going to assume you are a player. You can tell they are super attracted, but if she is a conservative girl who studies and doesnt care about how she looks yea her walls are going to shoot straight up to the sky and her resistance to sex is going to be crazy rediculous. Where as women who are confident and for example the stripper i dated. she dressed well and was confident so there was no resistance and she knew i had options so she wasnt worried because of her confidence levels. Working in aggesive sales ive learned that women are sizing you up and within the 5 seconds you approach her (as most women work retail) she can probably tell you more about yourself than you can just by how you are. Ive worked with many women who are like that is a fake louis vuiton, or she has money, she doesnt, look at the watch he is wearing.... they can tell. Realists are going to be more apt to accepting you as not having a ton of money where idealists can tell if you have money as they are looking for guy more to take care of them. Its never black and white but its pretty simple.