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[thedude]

So I met this girl yesterday while waiting for the bus. She's sexy as hell with a tight waist, huge tits/ass and she likes cartoons from the 90's too.

I've been using the time-bridge now and when I asked her when she's free in person she said Friday and Saturday after 3 pm.

So today I message her and setup a date for 6 today. I meet her on the bridge between where we live and we head back to my room to smoke a bowl together on our first meetup.

We get there, I have her take offer her shoes and coat and we go sit on the couch to smoke.

One thing that was evident from the beginning, I was rusty and there were a few awkward moments like in the beginning silence when we began to smoke. I should of just hit and asked her a question before. Here's the first thing said...

Me: Wanna smoke first?
Her: Sure
Me: you're the guest.... >>>awkward silence

The conversation itself was fun, we talked about our pets and other shit.

I went well, lots of laughing and I was doing kino the entire time, putting my hand on her opposite shoulder(we were sitting on the coach close together)

However the entire time she just looked straight ahead and not making eye contact or moving super close by herself

At some point I use Drexel's trick(thanks drexel) and ask her read any good books?

--Conversartion about book she says---

Me: What have I read lately... Oh its... I think you might be too innocent for me to tell you (something like that..)
Her: What is it (emotionless voice"
Me: It's called nancy fridays a secret garden
Her: What's it about
Me: It's about women's sexual fantasie

I go on to explain the book and how women are don't want to tell their husbands about their crazy fantasies would send them to Nancy Friday to collect.

Unfortunately I don't let the conversation to discussing favorite sex positions and I don't even tell her one of the fantasies.

The topic goes onto jerking it and..

Me: Do you masterbate
Her: Everybody masterbates --we both laugh--

Then on with other topics.

Soon after this I kiss her, she doesn't really recipricate and I pull off and say..

Me: You really need to stop taking advantage of me

Something like that and the conversation continues. Then We move over to my computer, there was only one chair so she sat on my lap as we watched old cartoons andthen we move to my bed.

Through this entire time I'm kissing her intermittently and pull back and teasing again like I did before but she is not getting into it.

More cartoon watching, we laughed really hard together at the boondocks exorcism scene.

Overall it was never on and probably because I was being awkward, moving positions on the bed and I could never get comfortable.... Being high is not helpful.

Eventually after I put the Laptop down, I keep kissing her and pull her on top of me.

Then she says I should get going, she goes to grab her stuff. I assuming was never gonna see her again tried to get feedback and she said.

"You know I like to take it slow"

I just sent her this text

Me: Hey I haven't laughed so hard in a while, cool seeing you Dominique

She replies back almost immediately a second ago

Her" Yeah sorry about what happen.


What did I do wrong, how should I respond to her text?

Thanks for reading, this literally happened an hour ago

 

[NinthSanguine]

I've gotten to the same point as this, kissing in your room, but unable to push it any further. What's this time bridging that you speak of?

 

[thedude]

A Time-bridge is "We should grab coffee sometime, when are you free?"

When you first meet her, getting her to talk about then is so much more effective then doing it the first time over text.


I'm no longer gonna game high, no sir.