Hello brothers, my names Omar. Been reading/lurking/ practicing religiously the teachings on girlschase for the past 5 years. I had a different account on here about 3 years ago with the intention of writing field reports, but I never stuck to it and went inactive on the boards. Until now. In the past five years, my game has improved IMMENSELY. I've decided to start writing field reports again for 2 reasons:
A) I recently quit my job and decided to follow my passion in life of filmmaking, so I flew out half way across the world to Australia, and am currently living the backpacker hostel life while simultaneously working odd jobs, and creating my films. The hostel life has granted me TONS of exposure to women on a daily basis, and with it new challenges and sticking points for me to work through from different angles.
B) I re-read this article by Chase from a while back about sticking points and it highly recommends to write field reports. https://www.girlschase.com/content/what- ... king-point
My current skill level: A month ago when I was back home in America, I was day-gaming and going on at least 2 dates a week with new girls. I was also sleeping with 2 girls at the same time on different days, and had my process down somewhat.
I've realized here in Australia, my current sticking point is creating a sexual vibe and sexual tension, and hitting escalation windows.
Although I have been going out 3+ times a week for the past month here in Australia, today's field report is from yesterday's outing.
Without further ado, here it is.
FR:
Start the night out at the hostel bar, having a couple drinks, playing trivia. Haven't gone out in two days, feeling a bit anxious and in my head. It's surprising, because just two days before I was majorly in state feeling like a pickup god all day. Anyways, group of 5 guys and 1 girl. My friend Harrison is really good with girls, and he was the one I end up going out with later. I don't introduce myself to the girl until the very end of trivia for some reason, she was cute. Harrison and I then move to another hostel known as "Base," which is the main party hostel in our area. We arrive there and first meet two friends of his, both girls, at the front who are working for the event. Have a little chit chat, I'm mostly chilling back smoking a cigarette. A few minutes later, we go in, and meet 2 other girls who are also his friends that he met in Cambodia. At this point I can tell he's really good with girls. I speak to both of them, we all gradually warm up to each other. Both are pretty hot. Girl A is flirting hard with Harrison, so I speak to girl B, just probing into her life a bit. She doesn't seem like the most receptive girl, so I take this chance to start making some approaches around the bar.
APPROACH 1: Just a warm up set, average looking blonde with an alright body. Met her at the bar, exchanged a few words (used a joke I learned from chase's article about busting resistance by making her laugh at herself), made a couple jokes, then parted ways. Wasn't really interested myself.
APPROACH 2: A really cute dirty blonde girl. Met her near the bar, went with a direct opener. She responded well, asked her where shes from and she asked me where I was from. We exchanged a couple words, until her girl-friend who was grabbing drinks started pulling her away. She got distracted, I got annoyed and left.
APPROACH 3: This is where things start getting interesting. A really fucking hot latina girl sitting by herself on the right side of the bar, texting on her phone. I go upto her, and open her direct. "I saw you sitting here and I just had to come and tell you, you are the most breathtaking girl I have seen here all night." She says thanks, seems a bit skeptical at first. I pull out my charm hard, made her laugh a bit then started bantering back and forth. We go into conversation about how long shes been here, what she does back home, if she misses her family, what her family is like, etc. Getting lots of kino in as we do this too. (Made a rude joke about how I thought brazillians were dumb, for some stupid reason. She was put off by it) Things are still going decently well. Turns out she was sitting there waiting on her friends, and all three decide to finally show up. I introduce myself to them, then tell my girl that I'll let her catch up with her friends and I'll be back later.
I join back up with Harrison and his two girls for a bit, chill, talk, and banter. Starting to get in vibe here. I speak to girl B and flirt with her a little bit, building the sexual tension by getting closer to her. I can tell she's a little bit interested. I leave again, to go make another approach.
APPROACH 4: It's thrift shop night at the hostel, so some people are wearing funny outfits. I go upto a hot italian/english girl wearing an orange prison jumpsuit. Made some wise ass remark about how she's the most fashionable one ive seen all night and how she looks like she just came out of orange is the new black. I can tell shes into it, this one was personally my favorite set. I ask her about what she is doing here, what she did back home, with light amounts of kino. She said worked at a gym back home, and I say something about how I can tell cause shes got a total gym butt. I lightly grab her ass and tell her its much firmer than mine, then tell her to grab mine. At first she refuses but I finally get her to, and she says "ooh, squishy." lol. Anyways, I forgot to move her but luckily she wants to go have a smoke, so she moves me. We go out in the smoking section, and I get really into her personal space and we start talking. This time about her tattoos, her family, her mom and dad, about her being an only child, if she has any passions/ dreams, etc. Somewhere in there I grab her ass again lightly, and she gives me a really cheeky smile. I should've escalated the vibe here more sexually, but didn't think about it at the time. A fight breaks out in the smoking section, were both distracted. I kind of laugh a bit, then I tell her a story about a small scar I have from getting into a fight, and have her touch it. After a minute, she says that the guy in the fight was her "mate" and that she has to go. I'm pretty sure this was an excuse to leave, can't tell where I went wrong with this one. ****I believe I should've escalated more after I got a smile from me touching her ass****
The night goes on, Harrison, girls A and B, and I are getting ready to make moves to another bar. I run into girl from APPROACH 3, her friends are just leaving to go to bed cause they have work tomorrow. I tell her shes coming with us, and that were going out to a different bar. I believe I kind of came off too chasey here, because she resisted a little bit. She also wasn't complying much (I may have been a little pushy for how early it was in the interaction with her). She still comes with us anyways, us 5 head to a different bar. This is where I start getting a little lost. At first, we all go outside to smoke. I then try to get her to move with me inside to grab a drink, she says she is going to stay outside. Negative compliance strike 1. (In retrospect, I should've pushed for it harder, or maybe not because I was being too pushy earlier?) Then I come back out, and kind of ignore her a little bit while I speak to the other girls and Harrison. I slowly get back into conversation with her there in bursts. I'm still feeling really lost, don't really know where to proceed from here, without seeming chasey. Kinda bullshit around, bust out the sex talk I learned from the "being a sexually liberated guy" article. Start talking about sexual freedom, if she's ever had an orgasm, she seems very passionate about the topic. Not in a "Its really hot how this guy talks about this kind of stuff" but in a "I'm a feminist and I am going to show you my feministic views about the topic in a passionate way." I never really had a view about feminism so I just change the subject. We talk about her butterfly tattoo on her rib, I get some kino in by touching the tattoo. Eventually, the two girls leave and Harrison's girlfriend shows up at the bar and they both also leave. Us two are left at the bar, we go down to mcdonalds down the road and grab some food. We then go to the beach, and she bullshits a bit about her ex. Eventually she gets up, and leaves and we go our separate ways.
Things that confuse me: She was not complying with most things I asked her to comply with, yet she still stuck with me as we went to mcdonalds? She sounded like she was really starting to auto reject me as the night went on, and I was kind of starting to auto reject her too. Should I have escalated more physically? Should I have tried a different angle? Could I have escalated without getting any compliance first? Was really confused about this girl, she sounded like she hated me at points but still stuck around till the end. Didn't really notice any escalation windows with her either, hmm.
Going out again tonight, tonights plan is to:
-Practice escalating the vibe if I see a green light and open body language from my touching.
-Try to pinpoint more escalation windows.
-Practice building the sexual tension.
-Get a better at keeping the conversation fun.
A) I recently quit my job and decided to follow my passion in life of filmmaking, so I flew out half way across the world to Australia, and am currently living the backpacker hostel life while simultaneously working odd jobs, and creating my films. The hostel life has granted me TONS of exposure to women on a daily basis, and with it new challenges and sticking points for me to work through from different angles.
B) I re-read this article by Chase from a while back about sticking points and it highly recommends to write field reports. https://www.girlschase.com/content/what- ... king-point
My current skill level: A month ago when I was back home in America, I was day-gaming and going on at least 2 dates a week with new girls. I was also sleeping with 2 girls at the same time on different days, and had my process down somewhat.
I've realized here in Australia, my current sticking point is creating a sexual vibe and sexual tension, and hitting escalation windows.
Although I have been going out 3+ times a week for the past month here in Australia, today's field report is from yesterday's outing.
Without further ado, here it is.
FR:
Start the night out at the hostel bar, having a couple drinks, playing trivia. Haven't gone out in two days, feeling a bit anxious and in my head. It's surprising, because just two days before I was majorly in state feeling like a pickup god all day. Anyways, group of 5 guys and 1 girl. My friend Harrison is really good with girls, and he was the one I end up going out with later. I don't introduce myself to the girl until the very end of trivia for some reason, she was cute. Harrison and I then move to another hostel known as "Base," which is the main party hostel in our area. We arrive there and first meet two friends of his, both girls, at the front who are working for the event. Have a little chit chat, I'm mostly chilling back smoking a cigarette. A few minutes later, we go in, and meet 2 other girls who are also his friends that he met in Cambodia. At this point I can tell he's really good with girls. I speak to both of them, we all gradually warm up to each other. Both are pretty hot. Girl A is flirting hard with Harrison, so I speak to girl B, just probing into her life a bit. She doesn't seem like the most receptive girl, so I take this chance to start making some approaches around the bar.
APPROACH 1: Just a warm up set, average looking blonde with an alright body. Met her at the bar, exchanged a few words (used a joke I learned from chase's article about busting resistance by making her laugh at herself), made a couple jokes, then parted ways. Wasn't really interested myself.
APPROACH 2: A really cute dirty blonde girl. Met her near the bar, went with a direct opener. She responded well, asked her where shes from and she asked me where I was from. We exchanged a couple words, until her girl-friend who was grabbing drinks started pulling her away. She got distracted, I got annoyed and left.
APPROACH 3: This is where things start getting interesting. A really fucking hot latina girl sitting by herself on the right side of the bar, texting on her phone. I go upto her, and open her direct. "I saw you sitting here and I just had to come and tell you, you are the most breathtaking girl I have seen here all night." She says thanks, seems a bit skeptical at first. I pull out my charm hard, made her laugh a bit then started bantering back and forth. We go into conversation about how long shes been here, what she does back home, if she misses her family, what her family is like, etc. Getting lots of kino in as we do this too. (Made a rude joke about how I thought brazillians were dumb, for some stupid reason. She was put off by it) Things are still going decently well. Turns out she was sitting there waiting on her friends, and all three decide to finally show up. I introduce myself to them, then tell my girl that I'll let her catch up with her friends and I'll be back later.
I join back up with Harrison and his two girls for a bit, chill, talk, and banter. Starting to get in vibe here. I speak to girl B and flirt with her a little bit, building the sexual tension by getting closer to her. I can tell she's a little bit interested. I leave again, to go make another approach.
APPROACH 4: It's thrift shop night at the hostel, so some people are wearing funny outfits. I go upto a hot italian/english girl wearing an orange prison jumpsuit. Made some wise ass remark about how she's the most fashionable one ive seen all night and how she looks like she just came out of orange is the new black. I can tell shes into it, this one was personally my favorite set. I ask her about what she is doing here, what she did back home, with light amounts of kino. She said worked at a gym back home, and I say something about how I can tell cause shes got a total gym butt. I lightly grab her ass and tell her its much firmer than mine, then tell her to grab mine. At first she refuses but I finally get her to, and she says "ooh, squishy." lol. Anyways, I forgot to move her but luckily she wants to go have a smoke, so she moves me. We go out in the smoking section, and I get really into her personal space and we start talking. This time about her tattoos, her family, her mom and dad, about her being an only child, if she has any passions/ dreams, etc. Somewhere in there I grab her ass again lightly, and she gives me a really cheeky smile. I should've escalated the vibe here more sexually, but didn't think about it at the time. A fight breaks out in the smoking section, were both distracted. I kind of laugh a bit, then I tell her a story about a small scar I have from getting into a fight, and have her touch it. After a minute, she says that the guy in the fight was her "mate" and that she has to go. I'm pretty sure this was an excuse to leave, can't tell where I went wrong with this one. ****I believe I should've escalated more after I got a smile from me touching her ass****
The night goes on, Harrison, girls A and B, and I are getting ready to make moves to another bar. I run into girl from APPROACH 3, her friends are just leaving to go to bed cause they have work tomorrow. I tell her shes coming with us, and that were going out to a different bar. I believe I kind of came off too chasey here, because she resisted a little bit. She also wasn't complying much (I may have been a little pushy for how early it was in the interaction with her). She still comes with us anyways, us 5 head to a different bar. This is where I start getting a little lost. At first, we all go outside to smoke. I then try to get her to move with me inside to grab a drink, she says she is going to stay outside. Negative compliance strike 1. (In retrospect, I should've pushed for it harder, or maybe not because I was being too pushy earlier?) Then I come back out, and kind of ignore her a little bit while I speak to the other girls and Harrison. I slowly get back into conversation with her there in bursts. I'm still feeling really lost, don't really know where to proceed from here, without seeming chasey. Kinda bullshit around, bust out the sex talk I learned from the "being a sexually liberated guy" article. Start talking about sexual freedom, if she's ever had an orgasm, she seems very passionate about the topic. Not in a "Its really hot how this guy talks about this kind of stuff" but in a "I'm a feminist and I am going to show you my feministic views about the topic in a passionate way." I never really had a view about feminism so I just change the subject. We talk about her butterfly tattoo on her rib, I get some kino in by touching the tattoo. Eventually, the two girls leave and Harrison's girlfriend shows up at the bar and they both also leave. Us two are left at the bar, we go down to mcdonalds down the road and grab some food. We then go to the beach, and she bullshits a bit about her ex. Eventually she gets up, and leaves and we go our separate ways.
Things that confuse me: She was not complying with most things I asked her to comply with, yet she still stuck with me as we went to mcdonalds? She sounded like she was really starting to auto reject me as the night went on, and I was kind of starting to auto reject her too. Should I have escalated more physically? Should I have tried a different angle? Could I have escalated without getting any compliance first? Was really confused about this girl, she sounded like she hated me at points but still stuck around till the end. Didn't really notice any escalation windows with her either, hmm.
Going out again tonight, tonights plan is to:
-Practice escalating the vibe if I see a green light and open body language from my touching.
-Try to pinpoint more escalation windows.
-Practice building the sexual tension.
-Get a better at keeping the conversation fun.
