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Read up on GC articles about doing a dinner at her place date and followed Chase's advice. I picked up some chicken and potatos and we planned on meeting around 6-7 PM. I had just finished up doing a tea tasting with some friends and headed over to her place. I got the food out and we caught up on how our days went and I directed her each step of the way, having her get out pans and pots and cut up things and cook and season things. I remembered to play some music and took Chase's advice on artist. It turned out pretty well and we had good kino. We had to keep an eye on all her pets as we cooked and after it was all made, we made us each a plate and went downstairs (where she wouldnt let me go before). We sat on her couch and ate and the food was absolutely delicious. Totally worth it.
After this, I walked the rest of the downstairs and saw her room. I had her give me a mini tour and stuff, but eventually her dog started to be needy again so we played fetch with her dog for probably a good while until her dog got tired Lol. It was honestly fun, but I wanted to move things forward so I had her follow me upstairs to grab the deserts I had her bring and I made sure the dogs followed us up. She had a dog gate at the top of the stairs, so after grabbing the desert, I had her go down the stairs first and then locked the dog gate behind me. No more dog cock block. Time for me and her time.
So I took her down to her room and reassured her her dog would be fine (as her dog began to bark a bit) and began to make out with her. She went quickly into using tongue and I had her take off her hoodie and try on my leather jacket (which fit her well) before taking that off. Then we made out some more before I had her take her shirt off and I began to massage her breasts and kiss down her body and run my hands against her. Then I took my shirt off and after switching between her breasts, neck, stomach, and upper legs with kissing, I slowly pulled down her pants and her panties came off too so that was a bonus (I was planning on licking her pussy through her panties then taking them off but oh well lol) before I kissed around her legs and thighs while I teased her with my fingers around her pussy before kissing down there. At one point I had her take off my jeans and she gave pretty good head. What followed was fingering/eating her out and then putting on the condom before I entered her. I mixed up my rhythm of thrusts and she seemed to really enjoy it as I tried to do Chase's recommended alternate missionary position to get her to cum. Im pretty sure she did a couple times (I didnt feel the need to ask) as her entire body went rigid and she squeezed tight a few times as we fucked. She was also loud, which was fun. I talked dirty to her and enioyed her. After I came, I pulled out but kept mixing up fingering her, licking her pussy, having her play with herself while I sucked and played with her breasts/tits (which she liked a lot) until I was too tired to continue. So I told her lets take a break and we cuddled a bit. She was still a bit horny but eventually calmed down and we just sat and stared at eachother. I told her if she was worried this would change, it wouldnt and she smiled and said ok.
I went to take the condom off, but realized it wasnt on. So I checked the bed/floor and we couldnt find it. So, after cuddling a bit more and eventually get our clothes back on, I felt around inside her and didnt find anything. I told her and she said she was on the pill, but I think Im going to go get the after-morning pill and have her take it just in case.
BTW, that after-morning pill is freaking expensive, so what are your guys' thoughts? I know she could easily be lying so what would you guys do?
Im thinking of buying slightly bigger condoms because the ones I have are reasonably difficult to get on but are tight as a glove. Obviously, I forgot to hold the base as I pulled out so thats what happened.
After that, we cuddled a bit more on her couch and then I told her I had to go because I have people expecting me at home, but id take her out for coffee in the morning. She said OK and she had an exam to do tonight so shes going to do that before going to bed. She said she was tired and sore so she should be sleeping good
And so now Im going to (probably) suck it up and pay for the pill, go get slightly bigger condoms, and take her out for coffee in the morning.
Would love to hear y'alls thoughts and advice.
Till the next one,
NBW
Original Post (FR++) :
Hey guys,
Went out with a girl today I met walking. We had planned to meet last weekend, but she had school work come up and so we rescheduled. Anyways, we planned on meeting today and I picked her up at the park next to the walking path we met at. We met at 4 PM.
We went first out to a tea place because the coffee place I was going to take her to for whatever reason is closed on Thursday. She hadnt been there and it was honestly pretty nice. We walked in and I suggested an order to her and then we went and sat down. As we waited for our drinks, I realized as another group came in that we forgot to wear our masks (and no one said anything to us) so I let her know and we shared a quick "breaking the rules" moment, which I think excited her a bit. I went and got the masks from my car (dont want anyone getting in trouble or kicked out) and went back. We got our drinks and then I moved her back to another table to sit. I set down her drink next to me instead of across and we chatted.
I asked her for a sip of her drink, which she complied to, and then let her have a sip of mine. Then we talked about various topics, everything from travel to what exotic animal youd own to our dogs and pets.
As we finished up there, I asked her if she wanted to get out of there and she said yes. It was now getting dark (around 5, which is why I asked her out at 4). So as we got in the car and I began to drive, I let her know I was taking her to a nice icecream shop I know - specifically, my favorite. She hadnt been there either so it was perfect. Again, I suggested what I usually get and told her the options. She got what I got - a small (its actually like a 6" tall) chocolate and vanilla icecream on a cone dipped in chocolate. Again, we talked and chatted. I made a few sexual inuendos and she responded well to them throughout the conversation. I found out she had her own place by herself with her 2 dogs and 2 cats. An entire house to herself btw, not an apartment. So that was good (especially for logistics).
As we finished up the ice cream, I said "well I dont know what you have going on the rest of the night, but what do you say we head back to your place, throw on a movie, and just chill and talk?" She said she wasnt too sure and I said "comon let's go" as I cleaned up things and started heading to the car. As we walked to the car, I told her how we would just chill and talk and no one had to do anything they werent uncomfortable doing.
The conversation in the car was good. As I got into the neighborhood and asked her to direct me, she said how she wasnt sure and how she needed to work on homework. It was still pretty early and I saw a park directly ahead of me, so I said "you know what, lets actually go hang out at that park" and she said OK.
I parked the car and turned on the heat (granted, its cold and now dark out). We then talked and got into deeper topics. After bringing up going back to her place a few more times as the conversation went on and getting the same reply, I asked her to be honest with me and not tell me what I wanted to hear. So anyways, I made sure she was comfortable and found out her last ex-boyfriend had been deployed and then came back and stalked her (by searching up her address online) and that he texted her nonstop for entire days and how she had to get a restraining order and all the things that happened. She said it made her nervous letting people know where she lived. I said I understood that and shared my own story about the college girl and how it impacted me. So I related a lot to her and brought up how Im not like that guy and how I had to apologize on behalf of men for his behavior. Anyways, it was a deep conversation and I made light comments at times to keep things from being too deep the entire time.
At one point, the conversation was slowly, naturally dying off and I was feeling restless so I asked if she wanted to walk around the park. She said yes and I had her hold my jacket as I put on an extra layer. It was freezing out, but we did one lap around the park and I shared about my photography and new business. She found that to be pretty cool and qualified herself a bit on the photography.
After we got back in the car, again I brought up going back to her place, and again the homework excuse. So I said OK, but so you dont have to walk home in this cold, Id like to drop you off (she had reaffirmed by this point she was comfortable with me and didnt think id stalk her or anything like that). She reminded me she parked in the parking lot by the park and I drove her there.
As I pulled up to her car, I asked her if she was close by and she said yes. I told her if she didnt mind if I stopped in to use her restroom because I really had to go and she said OK. She told me to follow her and that shed let me in through the front after parking in the garage.
Im in.
So I followed her back and she let me in. I used the bathroom and got her to do some pullups on a pullup bar she had. She showed me her kitchen and stuff and was super embarrased how messy things were. They werent that bad and I reassured her.
She had put her dogs out in the cold and I asked her about them. She let them in and her dogs went wild. Specifically, one of her dogs is super energized and excited.
After playing with the dogs a while, I started to get that itch to kiss her real quick. And though it took a bit longer than I wouldve liked due to the dog, I eventually just man-handle kissed her and then kept the conversation going. She was close to me and fine with it but still crossed her arms a bit and was a bit closed off.
After having stood up for a while, I told her we should sit down and she said OK and we went into the next room and sat on her couch. Long story short, we sat really close together and got in lots of kino. She showed me her tattoos, was compliant to my requests, qualified herself, and we had a good conversation. I found out shes only had the one boyfriend and hasnt had a lot of sexual experience (shes 27 - on the way to her place, she asked how old I was and guessed 25. I found out she was 27 then told her yeah Im 26).
So I didnt get too deep into sex talk. But the biggest issue was her dog - the energetic one. It would not leave us alone. At all. She sat on us and whined and licked and pawed at us for attention nonstop. I kept up kino and the conversation and everything and she was fine with it. Kissed her again once or twice.
After a long time of this, it was getting late (now 10 - 10:30ish). I said I should go and manhandle kissed her goodbye. She said she had fun and I told her we'll have to get her out of her box a bit (she only does school and work - not a ton of interests outside of this). I did future seed a bit during our couch talk.
So then I came home.
My goal is to skip Friday and go to her place Saturday night to cook dinner (she told me she only eats ramen). I'll bring the food, we'll cook the meal, I'll see her basement (which is where her room is and she wouldnt let me go down there), and I'll shut her bedroom door so her dog will leave us alone so I can escalate to sex with her in peace.
And that was how it went. Obviously she needs a man who can take the lead and while I wasnt as aggressive as I wouldve liked to have been, Im proud of myself for ending back at her place and getting a kiss. She said she felt really comfortable with me and I feel two dates is OK given her background.
Let me know your guys' thoughts; Im going to bed.
NBW
Read up on GC articles about doing a dinner at her place date and followed Chase's advice. I picked up some chicken and potatos and we planned on meeting around 6-7 PM. I had just finished up doing a tea tasting with some friends and headed over to her place. I got the food out and we caught up on how our days went and I directed her each step of the way, having her get out pans and pots and cut up things and cook and season things. I remembered to play some music and took Chase's advice on artist. It turned out pretty well and we had good kino. We had to keep an eye on all her pets as we cooked and after it was all made, we made us each a plate and went downstairs (where she wouldnt let me go before). We sat on her couch and ate and the food was absolutely delicious. Totally worth it.
After this, I walked the rest of the downstairs and saw her room. I had her give me a mini tour and stuff, but eventually her dog started to be needy again so we played fetch with her dog for probably a good while until her dog got tired Lol. It was honestly fun, but I wanted to move things forward so I had her follow me upstairs to grab the deserts I had her bring and I made sure the dogs followed us up. She had a dog gate at the top of the stairs, so after grabbing the desert, I had her go down the stairs first and then locked the dog gate behind me. No more dog cock block. Time for me and her time.
So I took her down to her room and reassured her her dog would be fine (as her dog began to bark a bit) and began to make out with her. She went quickly into using tongue and I had her take off her hoodie and try on my leather jacket (which fit her well) before taking that off. Then we made out some more before I had her take her shirt off and I began to massage her breasts and kiss down her body and run my hands against her. Then I took my shirt off and after switching between her breasts, neck, stomach, and upper legs with kissing, I slowly pulled down her pants and her panties came off too so that was a bonus (I was planning on licking her pussy through her panties then taking them off but oh well lol) before I kissed around her legs and thighs while I teased her with my fingers around her pussy before kissing down there. At one point I had her take off my jeans and she gave pretty good head. What followed was fingering/eating her out and then putting on the condom before I entered her. I mixed up my rhythm of thrusts and she seemed to really enjoy it as I tried to do Chase's recommended alternate missionary position to get her to cum. Im pretty sure she did a couple times (I didnt feel the need to ask) as her entire body went rigid and she squeezed tight a few times as we fucked. She was also loud, which was fun. I talked dirty to her and enioyed her. After I came, I pulled out but kept mixing up fingering her, licking her pussy, having her play with herself while I sucked and played with her breasts/tits (which she liked a lot) until I was too tired to continue. So I told her lets take a break and we cuddled a bit. She was still a bit horny but eventually calmed down and we just sat and stared at eachother. I told her if she was worried this would change, it wouldnt and she smiled and said ok.
I went to take the condom off, but realized it wasnt on. So I checked the bed/floor and we couldnt find it. So, after cuddling a bit more and eventually get our clothes back on, I felt around inside her and didnt find anything. I told her and she said she was on the pill, but I think Im going to go get the after-morning pill and have her take it just in case.
BTW, that after-morning pill is freaking expensive, so what are your guys' thoughts? I know she could easily be lying so what would you guys do?
Im thinking of buying slightly bigger condoms because the ones I have are reasonably difficult to get on but are tight as a glove. Obviously, I forgot to hold the base as I pulled out so thats what happened.
After that, we cuddled a bit more on her couch and then I told her I had to go because I have people expecting me at home, but id take her out for coffee in the morning. She said OK and she had an exam to do tonight so shes going to do that before going to bed. She said she was tired and sore so she should be sleeping good
And so now Im going to (probably) suck it up and pay for the pill, go get slightly bigger condoms, and take her out for coffee in the morning.
Would love to hear y'alls thoughts and advice.
Till the next one,
NBW
Original Post (FR++) :
Hey guys,
Went out with a girl today I met walking. We had planned to meet last weekend, but she had school work come up and so we rescheduled. Anyways, we planned on meeting today and I picked her up at the park next to the walking path we met at. We met at 4 PM.
We went first out to a tea place because the coffee place I was going to take her to for whatever reason is closed on Thursday. She hadnt been there and it was honestly pretty nice. We walked in and I suggested an order to her and then we went and sat down. As we waited for our drinks, I realized as another group came in that we forgot to wear our masks (and no one said anything to us) so I let her know and we shared a quick "breaking the rules" moment, which I think excited her a bit. I went and got the masks from my car (dont want anyone getting in trouble or kicked out) and went back. We got our drinks and then I moved her back to another table to sit. I set down her drink next to me instead of across and we chatted.
I asked her for a sip of her drink, which she complied to, and then let her have a sip of mine. Then we talked about various topics, everything from travel to what exotic animal youd own to our dogs and pets.
As we finished up there, I asked her if she wanted to get out of there and she said yes. It was now getting dark (around 5, which is why I asked her out at 4). So as we got in the car and I began to drive, I let her know I was taking her to a nice icecream shop I know - specifically, my favorite. She hadnt been there either so it was perfect. Again, I suggested what I usually get and told her the options. She got what I got - a small (its actually like a 6" tall) chocolate and vanilla icecream on a cone dipped in chocolate. Again, we talked and chatted. I made a few sexual inuendos and she responded well to them throughout the conversation. I found out she had her own place by herself with her 2 dogs and 2 cats. An entire house to herself btw, not an apartment. So that was good (especially for logistics).
As we finished up the ice cream, I said "well I dont know what you have going on the rest of the night, but what do you say we head back to your place, throw on a movie, and just chill and talk?" She said she wasnt too sure and I said "comon let's go" as I cleaned up things and started heading to the car. As we walked to the car, I told her how we would just chill and talk and no one had to do anything they werent uncomfortable doing.
The conversation in the car was good. As I got into the neighborhood and asked her to direct me, she said how she wasnt sure and how she needed to work on homework. It was still pretty early and I saw a park directly ahead of me, so I said "you know what, lets actually go hang out at that park" and she said OK.
I parked the car and turned on the heat (granted, its cold and now dark out). We then talked and got into deeper topics. After bringing up going back to her place a few more times as the conversation went on and getting the same reply, I asked her to be honest with me and not tell me what I wanted to hear. So anyways, I made sure she was comfortable and found out her last ex-boyfriend had been deployed and then came back and stalked her (by searching up her address online) and that he texted her nonstop for entire days and how she had to get a restraining order and all the things that happened. She said it made her nervous letting people know where she lived. I said I understood that and shared my own story about the college girl and how it impacted me. So I related a lot to her and brought up how Im not like that guy and how I had to apologize on behalf of men for his behavior. Anyways, it was a deep conversation and I made light comments at times to keep things from being too deep the entire time.
At one point, the conversation was slowly, naturally dying off and I was feeling restless so I asked if she wanted to walk around the park. She said yes and I had her hold my jacket as I put on an extra layer. It was freezing out, but we did one lap around the park and I shared about my photography and new business. She found that to be pretty cool and qualified herself a bit on the photography.
After we got back in the car, again I brought up going back to her place, and again the homework excuse. So I said OK, but so you dont have to walk home in this cold, Id like to drop you off (she had reaffirmed by this point she was comfortable with me and didnt think id stalk her or anything like that). She reminded me she parked in the parking lot by the park and I drove her there.
As I pulled up to her car, I asked her if she was close by and she said yes. I told her if she didnt mind if I stopped in to use her restroom because I really had to go and she said OK. She told me to follow her and that shed let me in through the front after parking in the garage.
Im in.
So I followed her back and she let me in. I used the bathroom and got her to do some pullups on a pullup bar she had. She showed me her kitchen and stuff and was super embarrased how messy things were. They werent that bad and I reassured her.
She had put her dogs out in the cold and I asked her about them. She let them in and her dogs went wild. Specifically, one of her dogs is super energized and excited.
After playing with the dogs a while, I started to get that itch to kiss her real quick. And though it took a bit longer than I wouldve liked due to the dog, I eventually just man-handle kissed her and then kept the conversation going. She was close to me and fine with it but still crossed her arms a bit and was a bit closed off.
After having stood up for a while, I told her we should sit down and she said OK and we went into the next room and sat on her couch. Long story short, we sat really close together and got in lots of kino. She showed me her tattoos, was compliant to my requests, qualified herself, and we had a good conversation. I found out shes only had the one boyfriend and hasnt had a lot of sexual experience (shes 27 - on the way to her place, she asked how old I was and guessed 25. I found out she was 27 then told her yeah Im 26).
So I didnt get too deep into sex talk. But the biggest issue was her dog - the energetic one. It would not leave us alone. At all. She sat on us and whined and licked and pawed at us for attention nonstop. I kept up kino and the conversation and everything and she was fine with it. Kissed her again once or twice.
After a long time of this, it was getting late (now 10 - 10:30ish). I said I should go and manhandle kissed her goodbye. She said she had fun and I told her we'll have to get her out of her box a bit (she only does school and work - not a ton of interests outside of this). I did future seed a bit during our couch talk.
So then I came home.
My goal is to skip Friday and go to her place Saturday night to cook dinner (she told me she only eats ramen). I'll bring the food, we'll cook the meal, I'll see her basement (which is where her room is and she wouldnt let me go down there), and I'll shut her bedroom door so her dog will leave us alone so I can escalate to sex with her in peace.
And that was how it went. Obviously she needs a man who can take the lead and while I wasnt as aggressive as I wouldve liked to have been, Im proud of myself for ending back at her place and getting a kiss. She said she felt really comfortable with me and I feel two dates is OK given her background.
Let me know your guys' thoughts; Im going to bed.
NBW
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