Frame fuck-up or salvageable?

[Talmadge]

Hey guys. Let's get to it. About a month ago, approached a cute blonde on campus on the way to class. It went smoothly. I'm not one for corny pick up lines by any means, but from personal experience, this method works best for me. I waved her over, having known her through class and said hi. She was warm and receptive and completely ignored a male orbiter (LOL) so I figured cool. I don't remember the exact conversation, but this best summarizes it.

Me: "Hey there's something wrong with my I-phone, can you take a look?"
Her:" Yeah, what's wrong with it?"
Me smiling cockily while I reply: "It doesn't have your number in it."

The look of shock, followed by laughing, and a flattered look always seem to happen when I do this, and she was no exception. At this point, she said something like "Alright." She than began to punch her number in. Everyone around was watching the whole thing play out, some laughing, but I honestly enjoyed the moment and chuckled myself. Her male orbiter just looked at me like he was about to interrupt, but I wasn't in the mood and gave him a perfectly crafted fuck off look that seemed to make him think twice. Then the unthinkable.

"Only as friends though." I took a second to reply, than turned up the asshole notch just a bit.
Me smirking much harder and in an exaggerated sarcastic voice:"Oh yeah sure, ole' buddy, good pal, best friend. Just friends. She smiled (I swear knowingly) and finished punching in her number.

I walked off victoriously and made it to class where I began telling a close friend if what just happened. He looked at me oddly for a second and told me that he thought she had a boyfriend. I knew this guy wasn't anything special aside from a provider for her social status (he honestly didn't offer much else), but still I though "Shit this could go bad.". I haven't perfected the "if she has a boyfriend" thing yet and didn't want to start drama so without thinking, sent a text saying "I didn't know you had a boyfriend" with a bunch of laughing emojis.

She said something simple like "Yep. Lol." And I never texted back. Can someone give me some outside opinions or insight? Did I handle this wrongly, should I try something even though she still goes with the same guy, that sort? She still greets me very warmly when we pass by each other if that helps. Thanks to those that read!!

 

[Man-O]

Now I'm not that experienced in daygame but I can tell you a lot of girls are frustrated with their bf and don't mind having affairs if they're having a good time doing it. So, why be afraid of her having a bf? When first you do it already shows you as a beta male.

I'm not experienced enough to say what you could do to save it but I'd definetly suggest you trying to do something. Maybe keep on the cocky funny attitude but show your intent. If she takes the bait then good, if not then move on.

 

[Whizzy]

Nothing to salvage, you still got this broski! Just proceed as normal, but try to keep it discreet as to not cause too much of a stir on campus. Trust me depending on the size of your school that can suck

 

[Talmadge]

These are great responses guys, thank you. Still, I haven't talked to her except forthe occasional greeting or so. I'm guessing texting her might be the best approach? Or should I try a more personal touch to it? Should I still deep dive if I can get her to meet up?

 

[Inferno]

Don't text her,
you could end up sending the wrong message

and on the GC podcast, Franco says that texting is making you more friend zone versus lover

LOVER is where you want to be

 

[Exile386]

Since you already see her often its quite not necessary to text her. But you shouldn't have text her saying " I didn't know that you had a BF ". it kinds of tell her that, I would have never approached you if I 'd known that you have a BF and that's lame. That kills the attraction buddy. From what I understand, If she truly in love with him she would have clearly set the frame as friends to not to give you the wrong idea. Since you don't know what to do now to pull her. its safe to assume that she thinks you as a friend or a little bit above that. What you need to do now is, let her know that you are in demand, go meet other women make then flirt with you. Do this as smooth as possible to make sure that she don't get the idea that you do this to get her. And you need to make sure that you don't give a shit about that she has a boyfriend unless he is one of your friends of course. Then see how things play out. And for god sake, take her out of your mind. That is the best way to make progress!

Peace..!