Franco & Amrit | Dating Your Dream Girl as a Minority (Podcast)

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

There comes a point in a guy's life where he is so busy that he doesn't even have the usual time to address some false accusations. I am one of the few guys who has provided pics of his convos and short of nudes of women I have been with, I've done more than enough on my end. But I've learned that you cannot reason with the miserable and the struggling who are mentally unhinged and just need something to attack.

Its not that I don't care to defend myself but more that I do not have as much time for petty arguments as I would like. You're either going to do something about the shit or you're going to falter.

Now for the topic at hand I will say this, in some cases it can be a thing.

There are a sizable number of Latin, Mediterranean and brown women who have a thing for blond hair blue eyed white guys. A lot can lead to that but my reasoning is that it generally relates to how they perceive social status in their eyes which in many ways is a blond guy depending on where in the US you are.

Now that being said, as soon as the right kind of darker skinned guy comes along, they'll bite and they'll bite hard. I say that as someone who has fucked the daylights out of racist Eastern European and Italian American women who fit that bill and had that kind of look, funnily enough one even called me racial slurs as I was fucking her raw.

On the same token, as hard-headed as I might be as a guy myself, I have found my taste in women changing overtime from blondes to dark haired girls which I would have never envisioned. I remember being back in college and fucking this dark curly haired French chick raw and thinking of it as something I had to do before I moved up to hot blondes or being good enough for them, that mindset has changed. I have a couple FWBs who fit that dark haired tanned skin look and I am happy to have them in my life.

Everyone has a "preference" until the right person comes along.

 

[Grand Pooba]

This thread is hilarious. It's like trying to tell somebody that the Earth is round, when that person actually believes the Earth is flat, and they'll grasp at whatever evidence and straws that makes their belief true, while finding all sorts of excuses and reasons not to believe otherwise.

But...unfortunately...it also goes to show how powerful some beliefs are, to the point that people actually reject valid evidence as exceptions.

This thread is a great example of this, and although I think everyone except PF can see this, let's just lay out. Because, in my opinion, it's pretty funny, lol....

1. Franco posts example of a brown guy (well, actually two, lol) doing well with white girls.

A lot of the feedback I get from those guys is, "well I never see a brown guy doing well with white girls, so how do I know all of this stuff works for us?" Well, without further ado, here is a podcast with an Indian guy who is very successful with American white girls:

2. PF chimes in - I'm puzzled, how is this possible? Wow, there's a lot of evidence...for BLONDE girls! That means that...Brunettes still don't like Brown guys, therefore White girls are still racist, but Blonde girls are open minded because opposites attract.

In fact I actually believe that a well put together ethnic guy will have countless opportunities to clean up with redheads and blonde women since redheads and blondes tend to be a lot more open minded as far as white women are concerned.

3. Franco chimes in and says that "opposites attract" is a myth, and then provides evidence supporting it and rejecting it. Then Franco says that it's something else completely, nothing about opposites attracting.

Any opposites attract I've heard of relating to pure race or ethnicity is hogwash from my observations. I've seen just about every race, ethnicity, and "hair color" combination get together in droves. All of that is irrelevant to actual attraction. Almost all "physical attraction" I've seen from women related to their past partners and/or boyfriends. A girl's preference(s) will be tied to the man (or men) that has (or have) given her the best sexual experiences in the bedroom.

4. PF disagrees, says Franco and OP are showing a confirmation bias, then provides his own confirmation bias. Doubled down. LOL.

1. Swarthier white women and white women with darker features that are hot are head over heels crazy for blond guys, it is a thing in my area at least but then again I am in the south where everything is assbackwards. It is rare that I see a swarthy or darker skinned white woman going interracial.
2. Blondes and redheads that are hot seem to love minorities in my area, it is a thing as well.

5. I provide evidence that there's no confirmation bias - we get swarthy white girls too.

One of my girlfriends right now is this Italian-Russian and she has jet black hair with pale white skin and steel blue-gray eyes. Super hot

6. PF changes the conditions to an even smaller group of women. Now if a girl has blue eyes, she's totally down for dark guys, but if she has dark eyes, that same dude is fucked.

Well the pale white skin and blue eyes make her real white and open to darkening up, I am sure you would have a bit of an issue pulling a Catherine Zeta Jones or Monica Bellucci type.

7. Myself and now OP provide evidence that we get white tan brunettes with dark colored eyes too.

Majority of the girls I have been with in my game career have been the tanned skinned dark haired ones with that Middle Eastern or Southern European look. For reference, I am a lighter skinned Indian guy. Whether I was in France or back home in the US, it has been real shocking to me how easily I am able to get attention from girls with the Catherine Zeta Jones, Megan Fox, Jenner twins and Kim K kind of look.

8. PF changes the conditions AGAIN. How have these guys provided evidence contrary to what I see? It must be a New York City thing....that's it! All swarthy white women are racist...unless they live in New York. As soon as these chicks move to NYC, their pussies open up to a flood of brown dick.

Oh Pry is in NYC where the Italian and Jewish population is high so naturally, he would get with more dark haired white girls.

The underlying belief - White girls are racist.
You must live in a racist ass place, PF. Or...maybe people are racist to you, because you're racist to them? LOL

But my biggest question now becomes - you just admitted that New York City is a place where brown guys can get with swarthy white girls. So why don't you get your ass to New York City, then? That would solve your issue, right?

I know why - because you like complaining. Somewhere deep inside, it's what brings you satisfaction. Which, I'll never understand, but that's how the victim cycle works....and one day when you're ready, you'll wake up and have an epiphany about it.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Playing devil's advocate to some degree though, I do think it is a thing in some situations, depends a lot on the culture. I too have seen on more than a handful of occasions a more tanned dark haired white girl with a blond guy who isn't even handsome that would lead me to believe there is something there. Not sure what post it was but Chase told white guys to go to Colombia for easy pussy but told minorities they should probably stay away because of how racist the country is towards darker skinned people. On the same token Chase said that darker skinned guys should go to Sweden where people are more friendly and open towards minorities.

I have also heard a lot about how easily blond guys can slay in places like Spain, Italy and some of the more tanned countries. Now I am not well traveled but it does seem to be a thing in some countries like a Brazil, Spain, Italy or Colombia that blond men are worshiped as the ideal while at the same time I hear that Scandinavian women love darker skinned guys.

While I won't say it is absolute at all, I do think that there are a sizable number of girls with that kind of a dark haired Mediterranean look who are partial towards blond and pale guys.

But I will add a silver lining to this.

Quality always sells and life is pretty random even with those biases.

I never liked swarthy white girls myself but luck had it that I end up with them more than any other group. A lot of girls who are lusting for blond guys are generally looking to climb a social ladder and are very insecure on the inside, same as ethnic women doing it. Quite a few will easily make exceptions to a hot guy who is not their type and the ones who don't, they are generally not just after sex, they are looking to climb a social ladder. Not sure if you would exactly want that.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I'll give in right there, exceptions do exist. I do think that in some circumstances, you can get hot Latina girls and darker featured white girls as a Middle Eastern looking guy or a swarthy guy in general. Its just that throughout my life I noticed this trend to where a lot of hot blondes went with swarthy dudes (white or not) while I saw a ton of hot Latina and darker featured white women with the Hitler ideal.

My closing thoughts are that you are just playing in a market you're not really meant to do well in. Blond guys are meant to slay and do well with swarthy women and dark haired tanned women, darker guys are meant to clean up with hot blondes and redheads.

As always you'll face a lot more hostility if you are going after hot girls from crowds that don't idolize your look but if you have a type, well I guess when there is a will there is a way. Some Indian dude can do well with hot girls that are Latinas and Mediterranean white women who have that Monica Bellucci type of ethnic look, you're just going to have a much tougher time than if you went after Scandinavian girls and the all American blonde type.