LR Freshman Year of College

[fpt2k14]

Quick background...5'8, thin build, in a top-tier fraternity, I started memorizing every word Chase has ever spit out since January of 2013, started putting it to practice around April/May 2013 and really getting into it late-August 2013 (When I moved in to college). This is a timeline of the shit that went down my freshman year of college.

August
So, I had planned on joining a fraternity all summer so I rushed and I did. But prior to that, were 4 weeks of college where I was relatively unknown, there were tons of chicks my age walking around who didn't know anyone, were trying to abuse this new-found freedom and looking to make friends.... . I basically approached every chick that was in sight and ended up with roughly 30 numbers in 4 weeks. This was all good and all, and got me on some momentum but I really did not get any action except for a kiss close. However, I wasn't worried. Note: I still dressed like shit (gym shorts, shirts and socks like every fucking college kid, had wavering confidence, the works..my fundamentals weren't up to par despite my efforts).

September
This is when shit got real. I was out a lot so my elevator game got pretty good. Met this one girl who gave me some mean dome within 10 minutes of meeting her, she later turned out to be a major slut known by 30,000 kids but fuck it right? Another girl I banged after 4 hours of solid day-game, met her while walking around and took her for a insta-date. Briefly developed feelings for this college athlete girl who I thought was the bomb, blondes with asses will get to me man. That stalled my game for about 2 weeks while I tried to chase her and she gave dome to the baseball team...yeah. ANYWHOSIES - we had a couple of mixers (when multiple sororities party with one fraternity...HUGE AMOUNTS OF POON LIKE I'M TALKING 200-40 GIRLS TO BROTHERS) and all highly attractive, average at worst. Got some digits, I was still thinking about that one girl so I kept fucking up.

October-November
The second half of the first semester was interesting...so through pledging girls were complaining I was coming off a little too strong and brothers were like, bruh cool it or we're going to intervene, and I was like...aight its all good. So, I got all in my head, trying to calibrate my approaches and this completely sabotaged what little momentum I had had. So, I focused on my fundamentals..tonality, body language, general attractiveness. Developed killer style, I got the ball rolling for next semester while still getting some action, dates and shit.

Second Semester
Okay, so I came back. Solid fundamentals, clear headed, ready to pimp some bitches. Right!? WRONG. Partially. I changed my way of dressing, battled with "who am I" and other identity issues, solidified my fundamentals and after some early success developed an ego and a playboy persona that was very fragile, and I could feel it. I wouldn't approach girls due to fear of having this persona broken down. I battled with issues of me making constant jokes when in tense situations (such as escalation windows) and defusing the tension, I got good at reading body language and knowing which girls like me and which don't. Battled with not pushing interactions. Battled with text game. I came face-to-face with a lot of issues that were coming at me 1000MPH and was unsure of how to handle them. I started digesting everything chase said again. Reading every single article, watching movies, getting more experience. Got with several chicks, a lot more than the previous semester. My lay count was 3 for the semester and 1 the one prior.

Summer
Somehow, while largely inactive, I got A LOT BETTER. I guess through reading so much and reframing my mindsets, I managed to change my subsconscious. Or maybe through reflection I got a lot better. Well, my lay count for the summer was 2 despite talking to like 10 girls. Whereas I'd talk to THOUSANDS of girls in college. Anyways, this saturday I'm coming back. I'll update this thread every now and then. Farewell my brothers. KEEP TRYING.

 

[alleniverson]

Re: FR/LR: Freshman Year of College

Hey man. Loved the post and hearing your progress. Ment game is huge and it starts like yore feeling it all out and developing a better mindset. I'm a freshman right now, up at college for the summer session and then going back in the fall. I'm at a big school, around 30,000 kids also. Message me- would love to discuss college game.

 

[fpt2k14]

Re: FR/LR: Freshman Year of College

Hey man. Loved the post and hearing your progress. Ment game is huge and it starts like yore feeling it all out and developing a better mindset. I'm a freshman right now, up at college for the summer session and then going back in the fall. I'm at a big school, around 30,000 kids also. Message me- would love to discuss college game.

Hey man, college is somewhat alike high school. Don't focus too much on cold approach because after a while you begin to see the same people on campus every day repeatedly. Now I cold approach at places like malls, class, the gym, and other places where students are more likely to be there rather than just the people that live on campus. DO join a fraternity. NEVER in your life will you be surrounded by so many high quality women every single day of your life that are more likely to hook up with you than a random person. YES, sorority girls are not very likely to hook up with independents. I must've gotten 2-3 years of field experience in this 1 year because everyday I meet 4-5 new girls everyday on autopilot, also BEFRIEND sorority girls because they will hook you up with their sisters..and I've been guilty as charged . I've recently started being more open sexually on conversations and the amount of girls that want to try threesomes, be tied up, blind folded and other kinky shit is just mind-blowing dude. College is the shit. Good luck!

 

[Dern]

Re: FR/LR: Freshman Year of College

Hey fpt,

I will be going to a small university in September. Going to be living on campus and experiencing that awesome lifestyle

A couple questions for you:

So you say I shouldn't focus too much on cold approach, right? No just going up to random girls in the hallways and telling them that they're pretty... only approach through class, clubs, student orientations, and parties. I probably should refrain from going direct, unless at a party or something. Situational seems to be more ideal.

When I was in college (in Canada, college is actually a lower level of education than university), I would approach girls left, right, and center. I didn't give a fuck about my reputation because there was no social life at my college. People would just go there for class, then go home after. So no one really knew each other. Therefore, I cold approached like a mad-man: would scour the hallways, cafeteria, and library. By the end of the semester, I would literally walk through the halls and in my mind be like: "already talked to that chick... already talked to that one too... yep... that one as well."

But the university I'm going to is different. From what I've heard, everyone knows each other (small student population of 8000), so I don't want to be known as the creepy guy who just goes around cold approaching chicks. That wouldn't do any good for my reputation.

Please let me know what you think,

Thanks man!

Dern

 

[theemann31]

Re: FR/LR: Freshman Year of College

I will be going to a small university in September. Going to be living on campus and experiencing that awesome lifestyle

I'm in the same boat as you bro, I'm gonna be going to a small university in Michigan in a few days and am a bit hesitant to go around approaching some of the girls there with the fear I'll build a reputation of a creepy guy who hits on all the girls (especially that I'm new to this). Here's an example of what I mean:

One of my friends who goes to that college laid a chick who does work study in the gym and then moved on from her and now whenever he goes to the gym, the other students working there give him a bit of a hard time because she told them...

Scary stuff man, I'd say don't do it unless the girl is AMAZING, but your school is bigger than mine (3500 Students) so it's probably best to be a sniper and pick off individuals on campus and leave the machine gunning to be done off campus. That's my take

-Josh

 

[fpt2k14]

Re: FR/LR: Freshman Year of College

Whats up dudes. Yeah, college can be tricky. You CAN cold approach, just not in places you frequent. Try places around the university where there'd be a wider arrange of students rather than a class where it's the same ones every time.