Friends jealous

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Guys,

I have this tendency to have problems every now and then. Girls who are friends, pure friends whom i have no interest at all, see me with other girls outside and suddenly become jealous and have this spike in confidence to want to talk to me, and i find my friendship with them tend to be awkward later. This is mainly because they suddenly say rude things and behave coldly, when i hang out with them, and i'm like "what?". I have to shut this down, because it's rude.

i hope you guys have any ideas. Women flying all over me because of other women can be shitty sometimes, especially rude stuff.

Zac

 

[Good Vibes]

Just remember to not become overconfident and cocky about it otherwise these females as they do will talk about you behind your back and you may lose their friendship. With the ones that you're not interested in at all, you should still flirt with them lightly only to keep some spice in the relationship with them. Give them a glimmer of hope at least. If you stay modest with women they usaully don't become rude to men.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Just remember to not become overconfident and cocky about it otherwise these females as they do will talk about you behind your back and you may lose their friendship. With the ones that you're not interested in at all, you should still flirt with them lightly only to keep some spice in the relationship with them. Give them a glimmer of hope at least. If you stay modest with women they usaully don't become rude to men.

I would not say i am modest, that will sound like i am saying "Hey, i am an honest guy." BUT i have had women become overly sensitive, cold, rude, and also spike in attraction when they see another girl with me. and yes, they are friends. and i treat them with warmth, and most of them enjoy being with me when i am able to meet them.

Overconfident? nah. not at all.

Zac

 

[Chase]

Zac-

Hi Guys,

I have this tendency to have problems every now and then. Girls who are friends, pure friends whom i have no interest at all, see me with other girls outside and suddenly become jealous and have this spike in confidence to want to talk to me, and i find my friendship with them tend to be awkward later. This is mainly because they suddenly say rude things and behave coldly, when i hang out with them, and i'm like "what?". I have to shut this down, because it's rude.

i hope you guys have any ideas. Women flying all over me because of other women can be shitty sometimes, especially rude stuff.

Zac

This is auto-rejection... for whatever reason, these women you're not interested in are thinking they have a shot with you, and then immediately writing you off as having "rejected" them when they see you with other girls. Behavior this extreme ("He's with another girl? Screw him!") you'll usually only see with inexperienced women... the more experienced women have learned that a man being with another girl doesn't necessarily mean he's sleeping with that girl, or that he won't be sleeping with them, later.

The only things you can do to prevent this, really, are to change the way you are with these women, so that they stop feeling like they have a shot with you (while still feeling like you're a nice / cool / fun guy)... you can add some aloofness and some coldness and some superiority to your interactions with them, not enough to seem completely rude, but just enough so that they KNOW you aren't interested in them and don't start obsessing over you and/or they see you as a dick and write you off as anything other than friend material... and, changing your style, so that you look too good for them and clearly out of your league. Once you up your style enough that attractive women start viewing you as handsome and sexy routinely, unattractive women instinctively know they don't have much of a shot with you and don't even bother trying or getting worked up over you.

Chase

 

[trashKENNUT]

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UNDERRATED like ever

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

Thank

You

BIGBOSS

 

[trashKENNUT]

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[trashKENNUT]

Chase advice is gooooolllllddddd



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[trashKENNUT]

Friendzoning Girls

BUMPING this post because a post on friendzoning girls pop up
You will eventually reach a place where girls can be just toxic.

Girls will play this game, like how guys play the game of 'Hiding The Banana'. This is a problem when it comes to workplaces. However, You can play this game in social circles, and online dating and followers. i am reluctant and not smart enough yet to convey and tell people how to use this method of game: 'Switching matrixes'.

It's a method that can be abusive to women. But hey It's nothing personal. It's just business. All genders go after what we want. Anyway

I hope this post helps to friendzoning girls. Read the Chase's section part.

z@c+

 

[DarkKnight]

Hey Zac.. great post man and actually very relevant. It seems I have the same problem! Basically we have reverse friendzoned these chicks...

 

[trashKENNUT]

Problem is when society believes all women,

All this shit becomes your problem if she is not socially savvy/just plain batshit crazy

z@c+

 

[trashKENNUT]

Hey there,

Once you start to lessen your time and attention on old friends, especially girls, there will be some passive aggression even after you are nice and cool about it.

We all are molecules. Breaking off from each other and become atoms again, is not fun.

Anyway, Use this post from Chase, here.

z@c+

 

[trashKENNUT]

Reading that post from DK.

And recently, a GC commenter noted that people tend to say that they are "busy".
Why do all of us are bullshitting each other?

Value ASS-essing. It will be interesting to see the next 10 Yrs. I hope to be here to share what I have saw.

z@c+

 

[trashKENNUT]

Yeap.....

Value ASS-essing

On one hand, we want what we want. On the other hand, females are overstepping their boundaries.

Sometimes it's cases like Headlines by Drake, where we give off a vibe by choice or unconscious.
Sometimes it's actually the girl.

Things happened. Like this post, as an example.

z@c+

 

[happynanako]

wow that's rare, guess they don't see you as a friend but a potential ones. I guess you should just get a girl and move on. I think there would be lesser socialising once both of you settle down