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Bboy100

Cro-Magnon Man
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Ok, so there's this girl I met a few weeks ago at a party. Long story short, I grabbed her number and asked her out on a date. She said "yeah, but I dunno when I'm free, I'll let you know" or something along those lines. I said ok. A few days later, I texted her if she knows when she's free. she didn't reply. So basically. she wasn't interested.

The following weekend, I hooked up with one of her best friends at her bday party. Two days later, she texted me back saying "she forgot to text me back" (LOL). We set up a date. Said date was two days ago. Somehow, I fucking messed it up big time. I wasn't paying attention, and I came off as a little bit too friendly/"nice guy". Also, it was harder to create intrigue when we had a bunch of mutual friends. Frankly, I could even feel that I came off as more "normal" and "harmless" than I usually do on dates.

Anyways...I text her a few days later asking her out again. Her response is:
"I totally would, but I'm going to the pumpkin patch with my BF on Sunday. Are you free any other day?"

I'm 100% sure she has no BF. I've seen her dancing with multiple guys at parties, and I've never seen her with anyone resembling anything even close to a BF. Furthermore, even if she did have one, she's obviously down to cheat on him...given that she had never mentioned him up till this point. So this was clearly just a play to FZ me. I replied by not even acknowledging the BF frame. My response was:

" Yeah, that's np. How about sometime next week?"

to which she replied:

'Sure, I'll let you know when I can!" <---This is the same type of ambiguous response she gave me when I first got her number.

Given that I do actually schedule another "date" with her, is there anything I can do to turn this around? Or am I already in the friendzone?
 

Skid

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Hey dude ,

Might be a bit late but I've had an experience or two like this. Where the girl gives you this "I'll let you know" then never gets back to you. As you observed , it took something as powerful as pre-selection to get this girl on a date with you so interest levels are not high. Take my advice lightly since I don't think I have your level of game but in your situation I'd try screen her : Try inviting her straight to your place and go from there since you've already met up with her once and just try to close the deal either way I think screening her by inviting her home like this will bring her true intentions to light which she is trying so hard to keep in the dark.
 
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Bboy100

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Yeah, as it turned out, she isn't really sexually interested in me anymore. Missed EW I would guess. Maybe I could use social circle game to bring her back around, but its honestly not worth the Herculean effort it would take. I'd rather just start fresh by talking to other girls.
 
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